正文翻译
Is it difficult for Indians to find a spouse post 30?
印度男人的烦恼：过了30岁还能找到老婆吗？
Turning 29 in a few weeks and just got out of a toxic relationship. I'm losing hope. I always thought I would find the 'one' but I feel lost at the moment. All friends getting married.
我几周后就要29岁了，刚刚结束了一段糟糕的关系。我失去希望了。我一直以为我会找到“那个人”，但现在我感觉很失落。我所有朋友都结婚了。
I'm male btw.
顺便说，我是男的。
评论翻译
ozymandias_514
I will be turning 29 in few month, faced the same situation and the same question recently. But was lucky enough to move past this, and hope you do as well.
再过几个月我就29岁了，最近我面临着同样的情况和同样的问题。但很幸运，我熬过这一关了，希望你也能这样。
Just enjoy your life and your friends weddings, get married when you feel you are ready to get married. Friends getting married or you turning 30 should not be the reasons to get married!!
享受你的生活和你朋友的婚礼吧，当你觉得准备好了再去结婚。朋友结婚或你30岁不应该成为结婚的理由!!
notmukeshambani
Thanks for this bud
谢谢你的话，兄逮。
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MrPlumkitten
Literally everyone I know from family and friends got married at/after 30. Most wanted to settle down financially, some had no interest whatsoever and where forced into marriage, some wanted to find a compatible partner and so on.
我认识的每一个家人和朋友都是30岁或30岁以后结婚的。大多数人想在经济上安定下来，有些人根本没有兴趣，结婚纯属被迫，有些人想找到一个合适的伴侣，等等。
A few of these married couples even choose to not have kids. Then there's my CA uncle who's turning 33 soon and waiting for PS6 launch.
一些已婚夫妇甚至选择不生孩子。还有我的CA叔叔，他很快就要33岁了，正在等待PS6的发行。
Amazing mindset your family got. Love it!
你们家的心态真棒。爱它!
asseesh
Then there's my CA uncle who's turning 33
Someone who will be 31 soon, this makes me mad. 33 olds are now uncle?
作为一个快31岁的人，这话让我很生气。33岁的人现在都是大叔了?
Bojackartless
get married
settle down financially
How does that work?
结婚
在经济上安定下来
这是什么道理?
nmfgn
It is better to marry late than to marry wrong
晚婚比找错人好。
Powerful
强大。
mamasilver
Also dont marry just for the sake of getting married.
也不要为了结婚而结婚。
black_mamba_returns
Also it’s almost impossible to know if the person you married is right or not. People change
而且，你几乎不可能知道你结婚的那个人是否是真命。人是会变的。
_Jaiko_
This
是的。
haraami_shakaal
Dude I am literally in the same position, except that I am 30. I live in Boston, have all the credentials that prospective brides family will look for, but I still have a lot of issues in finding the right one. It is traumatic, not for me but from the societal pressure that comes from all the direction in your way. But I’m holding strong, not to marry the wrong person.
伙计，我的处境和你差不多，除了我已经30岁了。我住在波士顿，有未来新娘家庭所需要的所有资格，但在找到合适的那个人方面，我仍然有很多问题。这件事让人恐惧，不是对我，而是来自社会压力，来自前进路上的各个方向。但我很坚持，不会跟错误的人结婚。
If you don't mind, what are the issues that you are currently facing?
Wow! Boston! You'd be having a queue of girls lined up already!
如果你不介意说的话，请问你目前面临的问题是什么?
哇! 波士顿! 已经有一大堆女孩在排队等你了!
superminian
You do realise women want more than a great city to live in right?
你知道女人想要的不只是生活在一个大城市吧?
PessimistYanker792
Yeah, much more.. like emotional support, communication, empathy, independence, fallback partner, respect, love, stability etc but a guy living in Andheri earning 30k a month with all of these amazing qualities as a partner is not getting the bride who’ll choose him above Boston
是的，她们要更多……比如情感支持、沟通、同理心、独立、应变的伴侣、尊重、爱、稳定等，但如果一个男人住在安德里，月薪3万，拥有所有这些令人赞叹的作为伴侣的品质，也娶不到一个选择他，而不选择波士顿的新娘。
charcoalblueaviator
Its a sad materialistic world we live in. Women are valued for how they look and men for what they bring to the table.
我们生活在一个可悲的物质世界里。女人重视对方的外表，而男人重视对方的嫁妆。
Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying that a great city is equivalent to getting a decent girl. All I’m saying is that I normally pass the credentials that family look for in terms of stability. All the qualities that you listed I tend to view superior than having a good bank balance . All I’m looking for is a like minded person with a good vibe , but that is apparently tough.
不要误会我的意思，我并不是说身在一个大城市就等于能找到一个好女孩。我想说的是，我通常能通过家庭所期望的稳定性的要求。我认为你列出的所有品质都比拥有良好的银行存款要好。我所寻找的是一个志同道合的人，有着良好的感觉，但这显然很困难。
Minimum-Area-2522
What are the problems you seem to be facing? Are you unable to find someone compatible? Or do you somehow fall short in the physical categories?
你面临的问题是什么?你找不到合适的人吗?还是你在物质范畴上有所欠缺?
I dont think I’m falling short in physical categories. It’s about compatibility and nature.
Installed bumble and got a handful matches and went on some dates too. But the one I liked was just looking to hookup and rest I didn’t like .
我不认为我在物质方面有欠缺。而在于兼容性和天性。
我装了bumble（婚恋软件），有些人匹配上了，还去了一些约会。但我喜欢的那个人只是为了勾搭，其他的我不喜欢。
Maybe it's the availability in Boston then. If you were to come back to India, I'm sure your parents would be able to whip up a lot of women who would love to go out with you.
也许是因为波士顿男人太多。如果你回到印度，我相信你的父母能找到很多愿意和你约会的女人。
The fact that you're in Boston will help your chances instead of hindering them. You already seem like a great option, if I knew you personally I would try to set you up haha. Chin up, buttercup! You'll find someone!
你在波士顿这件事会增加你的机会，而不是造成阻碍。你似乎已经是一个很好的选择，如果我认识你，我会试着给你安排一下，哈哈。加油吧! 你一定会找到适合你的人!
xmilkpluseggsx
FOMO is tempting but in terms of marriage can lead to a disaster, not every marriage is a happy one either. I also have no doubt that most of your friends are having arranged marriages which personally I consider not to be very good. Live a fun meaningful life, if it's meant to be then you'll find someone.
害怕错过的心态很催人，但就婚姻而言，它可能会导致一场灾难，并不是每段婚姻都是幸福的。我也毫不怀疑，你的大多数朋友都是包办婚姻，我个人认为这不是很好。如果你想过一种有趣而有意义的生活，你一定会找到对的人。
Yes I think I dodged a bullet. Will wait and do other stuff
是的，我想我躲过了一劫。我会等待并做其他事情。
Neil01111
You're tempted to get Married because of your friends? There's more to life than getting married.
你想结婚是因为你的朋友结婚了?生活中有比结婚更重要的事。
It's the FOMO and also inner fear to not find the right one
是害怕错过的心态，也是内心的恐惧，害怕找不到合适的人。
TheWyzim
Farhan Akhtar & Shibani Dandekar just got married and they’re 48 & 41 years old respectively. You can’t force when you’ll find the right person, but makes no sense to marry some idiot just because of your age.
Farhan Akhtar和Shibani Dandekar刚刚结婚，他们分别是48岁和41岁。你不能强迫自己什么时候会找到对的人，但不能因为自己的年龄就嫁给一个白痴。