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最高级的善良 The highest kind

作者:吉祥如意郑先生

如果你是司机,你会觉得路人要守规则;

如果你是路人,你会觉得车主需要礼让。

如果你是老板,你会觉得员工很是懒散;

如果你是员工,你会觉得老板很是严苛。

如果你是富人,你会觉得炫富不过日常;

如果你是穷人,你会觉得炫富是种显摆。

你有一个女儿,你希望婆家要多给彩礼;

你有一个儿子,你嫌亲家要的彩礼太多;

你有一个儿媳,你嫌儿媳事太多,不懂事;

你有一个女儿,你希望她掌管婆家大权。

你开车时,讨厌行人;

你走路时,讨厌汽车。

你打工时,觉得老板太强势太抠门。

你当老板后,觉得员工太没责任心太现实。

你是顾客,认为商家太暴利;

你是商人,觉得顾客太挑剔。

人啊,都是屁股决定脑袋,在不同的位置,就有不同的想法。

其实每个人都活在自己的偏见里。

你喜欢什么,就会以什么为价值判断;

你在什么位置,决定了你做事的出发点;

人生啊,不过是此处笑笑他人,彼处又被他人笑笑。

涉及到利益,就有了互相谩骂、攻击和算计。

If you are a driver, you will feel that passers-by should abide by the rules;

If you are a passer-by, you will feel that the car owner needs comity.

If you are the boss, you will feel that the employees are very lazy;

If you are an employee, you will feel that the boss is very strict.

If you are rich, you will feel that showing off your wealth is not everyday;

If you are poor, you will feel that showing off your wealth is a kind of ostentation.

You have a daughter. You hope your mother-in-law will give more betrothal gifts;

You have a son. You don't think your in laws want too many betrothal gifts;

You have a daughter-in-law. You don't think her daughter-in-law is too much and sensible;

You have a daughter. You want her to be in charge of her husband's family.

When you drive, you hate pedestrians;

You hate cars when you walk.

When you work, you think the boss is too strong and stingy.

When you become the boss, you think the employees are too irresponsible and realistic.

You are a customer and think the business is too profitable;

You are a businessman and think customers are too picky.

People, it's their ass that determines their head. In different positions, they have different ideas.

In fact, everyone lives in his own prejudice.

You will judge by what you like;

Where you are determines your starting point;

Life is just laughing at others here and being laughed at by others there.

When it comes to interests, there is mutual abuse, attack and calculation.

身居高位的人,很难理解穷人的消费观;

身处贫困的人,很难有说走就走的自由。

每个人的立场不一样,考虑问题的出发点击就不一样。

处境不同,难以理解;角度不同,难以共鸣。

不要轻易评判谁是谁非,汝之蜜糖,彼之砒霜。

一个人要是永远只站在自己的位置上去看别人,就会永远活在自己的偏见里,而且永远都有解决不了的问题。

人生百态,各有各的苦。

千万不要轻易指责别人,因为你没有别人的经历。

凡事能站在别人的立场上,体会别人的苦,将心比心,就是这人间最高级的善良。

It is difficult for people in high positions to understand the consumption view of the poor;

It is difficult for people living in poverty to have the freedom to say and go.

Everyone's position is different, and the starting point of considering the problem is different.

Difficult to understand in different situations; Different angles are hard to resonate.

Don't judge who is right and who is wrong easily. Your honey is arsenic.

If a person always only stands in his own position to see others, he will always live in his own prejudice, and there will always be problems that can not be solved.

All forms of life have their own hardships.

Don't blame others easily, because you don't have other people's experience.

Everything can stand on the position of others, experience the suffering of others and compare heart to heart, which is the highest kindness in the world.

最高级的善良 The highest kind
最高级的善良 The highest kind
最高级的善良 The highest kind