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最進階的善良 The highest kind

作者:吉祥如意鄭先生

如果你是司機,你會覺得路人要守規則;

如果你是路人,你會覺得車主需要禮讓。

如果你是老闆,你會覺得員工很是懶散;

如果你是員工,你會覺得老闆很是嚴苛。

如果你是富人,你會覺得炫富不過日常;

如果你是窮人,你會覺得炫富是種顯擺。

你有一個女兒,你希望婆家要多給彩禮;

你有一個兒子,你嫌親家要的彩禮太多;

你有一個兒媳,你嫌兒媳事太多,不懂事;

你有一個女兒,你希望她掌管婆家大權。

你開車時,讨厭行人;

你走路時,讨厭汽車。

你打工時,覺得老闆太強勢太摳門。

你當老闆後,覺得員工太沒責任心太現實。

你是顧客,認為商家太暴利;

你是商人,覺得顧客太挑剔。

人啊,都是屁股決定腦袋,在不同的位置,就有不同的想法。

其實每個人都活在自己的偏見裡。

你喜歡什麼,就會以什麼為價值判斷;

你在什麼位置,決定了你做事的出發點;

人生啊,不過是此處笑笑他人,彼處又被他人笑笑。

涉及到利益,就有了互相謾罵、攻擊和算計。

If you are a driver, you will feel that passers-by should abide by the rules;

If you are a passer-by, you will feel that the car owner needs comity.

If you are the boss, you will feel that the employees are very lazy;

If you are an employee, you will feel that the boss is very strict.

If you are rich, you will feel that showing off your wealth is not everyday;

If you are poor, you will feel that showing off your wealth is a kind of ostentation.

You have a daughter. You hope your mother-in-law will give more betrothal gifts;

You have a son. You don't think your in laws want too many betrothal gifts;

You have a daughter-in-law. You don't think her daughter-in-law is too much and sensible;

You have a daughter. You want her to be in charge of her husband's family.

When you drive, you hate pedestrians;

You hate cars when you walk.

When you work, you think the boss is too strong and stingy.

When you become the boss, you think the employees are too irresponsible and realistic.

You are a customer and think the business is too profitable;

You are a businessman and think customers are too picky.

People, it's their ass that determines their head. In different positions, they have different ideas.

In fact, everyone lives in his own prejudice.

You will judge by what you like;

Where you are determines your starting point;

Life is just laughing at others here and being laughed at by others there.

When it comes to interests, there is mutual abuse, attack and calculation.

身居高位的人,很難了解窮人的消費觀;

身處貧困的人,很難有說走就走的自由。

每個人的立場不一樣,考慮問題的出發點選就不一樣。

處境不同,難以了解;角度不同,難以共鳴。

不要輕易評判誰是誰非,汝之蜜糖,彼之砒霜。

一個人要是永遠隻站在自己的位置上去看别人,就會永遠活在自己的偏見裡,而且永遠都有解決不了的問題。

人生百态,各有各的苦。

千萬不要輕易指責别人,因為你沒有别人的經曆。

凡事能站在别人的立場上,體會别人的苦,将心比心,就是這人間最進階的善良。

It is difficult for people in high positions to understand the consumption view of the poor;

It is difficult for people living in poverty to have the freedom to say and go.

Everyone's position is different, and the starting point of considering the problem is different.

Difficult to understand in different situations; Different angles are hard to resonate.

Don't judge who is right and who is wrong easily. Your honey is arsenic.

If a person always only stands in his own position to see others, he will always live in his own prejudice, and there will always be problems that can not be solved.

All forms of life have their own hardships.

Don't blame others easily, because you don't have other people's experience.

Everything can stand on the position of others, experience the suffering of others and compare heart to heart, which is the highest kindness in the world.

最進階的善良 The highest kind
最進階的善良 The highest kind
最進階的善良 The highest kind