There is such a mother in the TV series "Sea of Stars", who has no name and silently accompanies the rich, and also gave birth to a son. She is Fang Lanfei, and the actor is TianYou.
Women in the sixties of the last century were really pitiful, they liked to live on men and use men as their backers. The idea they accept is to change their destiny through marriage.
Jane Ai's (played by Liu Tao) aunt and Fang Lanfei are 2 typical.
When Jane's aunt was young, she married someone in exchange for a bride price, marrying her brother and marrying a wife. In her view, a woman should sacrifice for the family.
Under the influence of such a deep-rooted thought, Jane's aunt directly sold Jane Eyre to the countryside and used the money to pay off the debt of her son.
In contrast, Fang Lanfei (TianYou) is not as excessive as Jane's aunt. She at least sold herself in exchange for a good life for her son. His son Fang Hengzhi (played by Lin Feng) has enjoyed a good education and life since he was a child, although there is no way to follow his father's surname, the starting point is much higher than that of ordinary people.
Fang Lanfei has always regarded his son Fang Hengzhi as a tool for his own production, and on the surface he and his son are good friends and talk about everything, but in fact, they are good at family kidnapping.
As a mother, she knew that Juliet was a woman who was not suitable for family room, but for the sake of family interests, she let her son marry such a woman.
Fang Lanfei has never considered her son's feelings, she cares about herself, she wants to get what belongs to her. As the second-room wife of the rich, she has been stoic over the years, in order to be able to fight for her breath through her son.
In order to impress her son, she can choose to lower her body and ask for his son. Such a mother is both helpless and sad, and cannot feel the sincere maternal love.
A woman like Fang Lanfei is both pitiful and hateful. As a little third, the heart is higher than the sky, and he also demeans his own days everywhere. She was not a good and qualified mother, and her son was just a tool for her to compete for fame.
Sometimes, the person who hurts you the most is always the person closest to you.
When it comes to Tian Niu, many people are impressed by the funny and enlightened Mrs. Fang Miao Cuihua in "Young Hero Fang Shiyu". Tian Yu has a good star fortune, and is a golden horse shadow queen at a young age.
In January 1958, TianNian was born into a family of drama pianists, and her father, Zhu Shaolong, was a famous Peking Opera organist in Shanghai Beach. Born in an artistic family since childhood, TianNian has been particularly beautiful since she was a child, and her appearance is very high.
Because he is a violinist, Zhu Shaolong has always been in close contact with people in the show business circle. Her daughter Tiannian has been learning drama since she was a child, and has also paved the way for her daughter to enter the show business circle.
Tian Ni also has a sister who is 10 years older than her, named Tian Ni.
Tian Ni began to study drama since she was a child, and later followed her father Zhu Shaolong to Taiwan. At the age of 19, she was elected as the "sweater princess" of Bay Bay, so she took the stage name Tianni and entered the show business circle.
When she was young, Tian Ni had affectionate eyes and a charming atmosphere, but in real life, she was very conservative, and after her debut, she only talked about one boyfriend, he was Yue Hua, that is, her husband who accompanied her all her life.
Compared with the happy marriage of the sister, the marriage of the younger sister Tiannian is not satisfactory, and it can even be said to be bumpy.
After many years, in 2010, TianNian recalled her first marriage, and she tearfully said: On the day of marriage, she should be divorced. It's just a pity that she didn't have such courage at that time. At that moment she hated herself.
Here's the thing: In 1984, the 26-year-old Tian Yu was so busy at work that she desperately wanted to get married, and she also promised to marry anyone who proposed to her.
However, through the introduction of friends, I think that the Indonesian overseas Chinese Ye Conghao, but the appearance of Ye Conghao is cool and handsome, and he does not like to talk, which is exactly the type that TianYou likes.
At that time, Ye Conghao flew to and from home and bay twice a week for Tian You, which deeply touched Tian Niu.
When Ye Conghao proposed to her, she immediately agreed.
When she got married, her friend once reminded her that Ye Conghao was a person with a wife and children. But when Tian Yu confronted Ye Conghao, he directly denied it, and even Ye Conghao's mother joined the ranks of lying.
Paper can't contain the fire, and on the night of the wedding cave candle, Ye Conghao called home to his wife and children to admit his married identity to TianYou. Knowing that she had been tricked into marriage, Tian Yu cried in the living room for a whole night, while Ye Conghao on the other side slept heavily.
This marriage left a huge injury to Tiannian, and she later tricked her husband's family into going to her grandmother's house to see her daughter before getting a passport to return to China.
To say that this marriage has left TianNian the greatest comfort, it is the daughter. After ending her first marriage, TianNian took her daughter to live alone, and her daughter also followed her mother's surname.
In the play, Tian Yu plays the second wife of Lin Fengshi (played by Zhang Chenguang), who is an unqualified mother.
Her lifelong hope has been pinned on Lin Fengshi, who has always been currying favor with men, and has never lived for herself in order to compete for family property. She was just a canary in a cage.
Tian Yu outside the play is also married to a foreigner, and has been a second room, but her life is even more exciting and bumpy than in the play.
The only difference is that the idyllic woman outside the play is confident, always pinning her hopes on men, but choosing to rely on herself.
Tian Yu decisively ended her first marriage and took her daughter to live alone. The mother-daughter relationship between her and her daughter is also very close, and the mother and daughter are like friends.
The daughter of 30+ is dressed neutrally, her appearance is not as good as her mother, but she also has beautiful features.
Tian Yu did not cling to a man like Fang Lanfei in the play, she chose to remarry and once again have her own happy marriage.
In 1992, another heavyweight man appeared in Tianyou's life, he was Wan Ziliang.
Tian Yu and Wan Ziliang knew and fell in love with each other because of the movie "He Comes from the Jianghu", and finally got married.
The wedding of the two people was unprecedented and the pomp was huge, the host was the "movie tycoon" Run Run Shaw at that time, and the groomsman was today's "comedy king" Stephen Chow.
I thought that this marriage of talent and daughter appearance would come to an end, but I did not expect that after 4 years, the two people ended their marriage. In tianyou's words, she can make everyone happy, but she can't make Wan Ziliang smile.
Marriage is like a person drinking cold and warm self-knowledge, outsiders can not evaluate. Soon Wan Ziliang remarried, and Tian Yu was still single.
The 63-year-old Tian Niu is still not retired, still shining in the entertainment industry. She faces life with a smile every day, is optimistic and positive, and has excellent popularity.
She understood that the only thing her daughter could do was herself. Since love is unreliable, relying on yourself is the king.
As Zhang Ailing said: Only women who have experienced suffering will understand the importance of relying on themselves. In this life, a woman is still the most reliable herself.