It has been said: "Marriage is a woman's second life, nourished by love in marriage, and a woman who is consumed in marriage lives a different life." ”
Marry the right person and live a happy life, marry the wrong person, and suffer all your life.
Actor Tian Niu never thought that she would suffer for most of her life because she married the wrong person twice in a row.
The first marriage was cheated by the Indonesian rich man, inexplicably became a concubine, three daughters and a husband, living a tormented and painful life without freedom, and finally fled back to China from Indonesia after a thousand hardships.
Wan Ziliang, who was secretly in love with him in the second marriage, thought that he had finally found a good person, but he did not expect to be betrayed and abandoned miserably.
So, how did Tian Niu escape from the clutches of her Indonesian husband back then? After two dark marriages, what is her life situation now?
01. Debut is the pinnacle
Tian Niu, formerly known as Zhu Kaili, was born on January 23, 1958 in a family of artists in Taiwan, China.
Her father Zhu Shaolong was born in Shanghai, and was a Shanghai Peking Opera luthier in her early years, and Tian Niu also has an older sister named Tian Ni, who is ten years older than her.
Influenced by their father, the sisters have been interested in art since childhood, quite artistic, and Tian Niu has been performing on stage since she was five years old.
Later, the family moved from Taiwan to Hong Kong and settled in Hong Kong, and her sister Tian Niu entered the entertainment industry one step ahead of Tian Niu and became an actress.
Seeing her sister realize her dream, Tian Niu is happy for her, and at the same time she is determined to shine like her father and sister.
Tian Niu and her sister Tianni have a very good relationship, and the two sisters have nothing to say, although the sister is busy filming on weekdays, and the time for the two sisters to meet is much less before.
But as soon as she has time, Tian Niu will run to her sister's crew to visit the class.
At the age of 16, Tian Niu went to the crew to visit her sister as usual, but was favored by director Song Cunshou and got the opportunity to star in the movie "Precocious".
This is her first contact with acting, and since then, Tian Niu has been invited by the director to make guest appearances in major crews from time to time, and over time, her dream of being an actress ignited in her heart.
In 1977, the film adapted from "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" was in full swing, but Jin Yong had not selected the heroine Huang Rong.
When he was worried about the selection of the heroine, Tian Niu was introduced to the Condor crew to audition.
At that time, Tian Niu had just turned 19 years old, young and lively, playful and beautiful, very in line with Huang Rong's temperament, Jin Yong saw Tian Niu for the first time, and determined that the role of "Huang Rong" must be her.
It turns out that Mr. Jin Yong did not look at the wrong person, after the broadcast of "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", Tian Niu's Huang Rong was very successful, and she officially debuted and became famous in a battle.
The following year, Tian Niu starred in the movie "Titi's Diary", which further gained attention.
It is worth mentioning that Tian Niu won the Best Actress at the 15th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards and the Best Actress Award at the 16th Panama International Film Festival for this film.
In the first year of her debut, she became famous with the role of "Huang Rong", and in the second year of her debut, she won the Golden Horse Award for Actress and the Best Actress at the Film Festival.
At her peak, Tian Niu filmed nearly 10 plays a year, with continuous appointments, winning awards and getting soft, it is no exaggeration to say that in the 90s of the last century, Tian Niu was one of the most popular actresses in the Hong Kong entertainment industry.
02. One marriage was cheated by an Indonesian rich man, three daughters and one husband
Tian Niu, whose career is in full swing, is young and beautiful, has a good personality, there is no shortage of suitors around her, a group of rich sons and brothers are lined up to chase her, and there are countless male stars who fall in love with her in the circle.
However, among those suitors, no Tian Niu was interested, and she rejected the pursuit of many popular male stars, as well as the pursuit of many cynical rich boys.
Perhaps even Tian Niu herself did not expect that after rejecting so many suitors, she would fall into the love trap and be cheated into marriage by Indonesian rich people.
In 1984, when 26-year-old Tian Niu was working abroad, she met an Indonesian billionaire named Ye Conghao at an event.
Ye Conghao is young and promising, personable, extraordinary, very respectful and caring for women, completely different from the young children who pursued Tian Niu in the past.
At that time, Tian Niu had very little love experience, and she often fantasized about having a prince charming who cared and loved her, and Ye Conghao completely met all her fantasies about Prince Charming.
It just so happened that the goddess had a heart, and the king of Xiang also had a dream, and Ye Conghao was attracted to her for the first time he saw Tian Niu and launched a fierce pursuit of her.
Because Tian Niu likes sweets, Ye Conghao waved his hand and directly recharged hundreds of thousands, so that Tian Niu could eat enough, knowing that Tian Niu liked flowers, Ye Conghao sent her different flowers every day to make her happy.
Tian Niu has several clothing stores that she often visits, and Ye Cong specially told the store manager that as long as there is a new style or a style that Tian Niu likes, it will be sent over immediately, and all consumption will be paid for by himself.
Under Ye Conghao's tender and romantic pursuit offensive, the relationship between the two developed by leaps and bounds, and soon established a romantic relationship, and Tian Niu was immersed in love and could not extricate herself.
Since the relationship was confirmed, Ye Conghao has been obedient and considerate to Tian Niu, not only often going to the crew to visit the class, but also always changing tricks to bring various surprises to Tian Niu.
Just when the relationship between Tian Niu and Ye Conghao was getting better and better, there were also some rumors from the outside world, and there were rumors that Ye Conghao had long been married.
Friends around her also advised Tian Niu to be careful, in case Ye Conghao is a "love liar", if those rumors are true, it will be tragic.
During the relationship, Tian Niu also asked Ye Conghao for verification, but Ye Conghao firmly said that he was not married, and the rumors outside were untrue, looking at her sincere boyfriend, Tian Niu completely believed him.
After falling in love for two months, Ye Conghao couldn't wait to propose to Tian Niu, and Tian Niu, who was carried away by love, agreed to her boyfriend's proposal without saying a word.
She thought that the reason why her boyfriend proposed to her so quickly was because she loved herself too much and was afraid that she would slip away, but she didn't know that this was a long-planned "fraudulent marriage".
Also in 1984, Ye Conghao took Tian Niu to Las Vegas to register for marriage and spend his honeymoon by the way.
After receiving the certificate, Ye Conghao proposed to let Tian Niu go to Indonesia with him to live, and vowed to always be good to her, if she wanted to film, she would film, and if she didn't want to film, she would enjoy happiness at home and be a rich wife.
Listening to Ye Conghao's vows and sweet words, Tian Niu agreed to go to Indonesia to live and settle with him after the wedding, and even gave up her acting career at her peak.
Unexpectedly, on the wedding day, Tian Niu ushered in not the sweetness of dreams, but deception and humiliation.
Ye Conghao and Tian Niu held a wedding shortly after receiving the license in Las Vegas, and it was not until the night of the wedding that Tian Niu found out that she had been deceived.
On the night after the wedding, Ye Conghao kept calling, there was a woman's voice on the other end of the phone, and the child's voice, Tian Niu heard that the child was called Ye Conghao's father.
In the face of Tian Niu's doubts and questions, Ye Conghao simply did not pretend, saying that he was indeed married, had two wives in Indonesia, and children, and Tian Niu was his third wife, which was considered a concubine.
It is understood that men can marry up to four wives in Indonesia.
Knowing the truth, Tian Niu has an unbearable atmosphere but helpless, the fact that the two are married is ironclad, just married and divorced, she can't afford to lose this person, and Tian Niu is pregnant at the moment, she can't bear to beat the child, she can only go to Indonesia to live according to the original plan and Ye Conghao, and live the life of "three maids and one husband".
After coming to Indonesia, Tian Niu seemed to have come to the abyss hell, and Ye Conghao's attitude towards her was not as good as before, he was very cold to her, and explained that she wanted to get along with the other two wives.
Everything pays attention to first come, first come, Tian Niu is Ye Conghao's third room, her status is lower than the first two rooms, everywhere must listen to them, indispensable to be embarrassed by them.
Because Tian Niu gave birth to a daughter, her mother-in-law was also extremely unkind to her, and did not have a good face for her, often uniting with two other daughters-in-law to bully Tian Niu.
When confinement, Tian Niu completely takes care of herself, even washing clothes with cold water, every meal is always the last to eat, eating is all leftovers cold rice.
The woman is weak, the mother is strong, for the sake of her daughter Tian Niu endured, try to live with an optimistic attitude, but every time she smiled at her daughter, her husband would sneer on the side, and even said such a bastard thing as "I don't like to see you laugh, I like to see you cry".
For a long time, Tian Niu was tortured to the point of exhaustion, and she had the idea of taking her daughter to escape Indonesia, but her husband looked closely at her and asked the other two wives to help monitor Tian Niu.
Later, under the pretext of taking care of her children, Tian Niu brought her mother to Indonesia, and while her husband was not paying attention, she asked her mother to return to China with her children first, and then find an opportunity to escape.
After many attempts, Tian Niu finally escaped from Ye Conghao and returned to the embrace of the motherland to reunite with her mother and daughter.
Perhaps he has long lost his feelings for Tian Niu, Ye Conghao found out that after Tian Niu returned to China, he finally agreed to divorce her and did not fight for the custody of his daughter (he didn't want to fight at all because he preferred sons).
03. The second marriage was betrayed and abandoned by Wan Ziliang
Finally got rid of Ye Conghao, Tian Niu is like a new life, she plans to come back to filming again to create a better life for her daughter.
But at this time, Tian Niu has been out of the circle for four years, four years, too many changes, new people in the entertainment industry, she has long ceased to be the scenery of the past.
Fortunately, Tian Niu has won many awards before, has a title of actress, and her acting skills are still online, plus she is straightforward and enthusiastic, and she has many friends in the circle, and with the help of friends, Tian Niu received "Big Head".
In 1988, Tian Niu and Wan Ziliang got together for the filming of "Big Headboy", and the two played a couple in the play, which was also very compatible outside the play and walked very close.
In fact, Wan Ziliang had a crush on Tian Niu earlier, but before she could confess to her, she married a woman, and now Tian Niu divorced and made a comeback, Wan Ziliang felt that his opportunity had come, and seized the opportunity to show his heart to Tian Niu.
In the face of Wan Ziliang's confession, Tian Niu was entangled, and it was undeniable that after getting along day and night, she had a good impression of Wan Ziliang.
But she just experienced a dark and failed marriage, the haze in her heart has not dissipated for a long time, and she has not had the courage to start the next relationship, so she politely rejected Wan Ziliang's wishes.
I don't know if it's fate, or if I don't forget, there will be an echo, in 1989, Tian Niu and Wan Ziliang collaborated again on "He Comes from the Rivers and Lakes", and the relationship between the two became more and more delicate.
Wan Ziliang has always been particularly attentive to Tian Niu, shushing and asking warmly, caring for him, not only that, he also loves Tian Niu's children and treats them as his own.
In the end, Tian Niu was moved by Wan Ziliang and threw herself into his arms.
In 1992, witnessed by both parents, Tian Niu and Wan Ziliang entered the palace of marriage and became a legal couple.
When I love someone, I can't wait to give her the best everything, Wan Ziliang gave Tian Niu a sense of security, didn't care that she was married for the second time, and held a grand wedding for her.
At the wedding scene, Tian Niu was full of happy smiles, and Wan Ziliang was also happy to marry the goddess.
Most of the people in the entertainment industry came to the scene to congratulate the two, and even their wedding was personally presided over by Run Run Shaw, the president of the Shaw Family.
At this moment, Tian Niu was once again silent in the joy of happiness, she thought that after all the hardships, she had finally found the real Prince Charming, however, how happy she is now, how painful it will be in the future.
When he first got married, Wan Ziliang really obeyed Tian Niu's words, held it in his mouth for fear of melting, held it in his hand for fear of falling, and also loved Tian Niu's children and treated them as his own children.
However, what is too easy to get is often not cherished, coupled with the steady rise of Wan Ziliang's career, the temptations around him have increased, and slowly, he put his mind on the Yingying Yanyan outside, and lost his enthusiasm for Tian Niu.
In addition to cheating on his home, Wan Ziliang has done a good job in other aspects, at least he will not restrict Tian Niu's freedom, nor will he be violent against Tian Niu.
But he forgot one point, what Tian Niu likes is that his eyes are full of his own appearance, and now, everything has changed, when love is no longer a two-way street, it is only a matter of time before feelings break down.
In 1996, Wan Ziliang had a new love outside, which spread vigorously, everyone knew that Tian Niu could not remember clearly, this was the first time Wan Ziliang had cheated on him, and the marriage of the two also came to an end in this year.
After ending her second marriage, Tian Niu continued to compete in the entertainment industry, and Wan Ziliang "seamlessly" with flight attendant Guo Mingli, who was 16 years younger, shortly after divorcing her, and married her new love home.
Since then, Tian Niu has put her mind on her career, worked hard for her acting career, and wanted to paralyze herself through her work and get out of emotional wounds.
In 1999, 41-year-old Tian Niu's career ushered in a wave of small peaks, this year, she became popular in the mainland by starring in the TV series "Young Hero Fang Shiyu".
In the play, Tian Niu plays "Miao Cuihua", it is said that Miao Cuihua's most classic actor, one is Guan Yonghe, and the other is Tian Niu.
04. She is still single at the age of 64, and her 37-year-old daughter has become her trouble
Until now, Tian Niu has been active in the entertainment industry, and the TV series she participated in are broadcast every year, such as:
In 2013, he filmed the TV series "The Legend of Lu Zhen"; In 2014, he filmed the urban romance drama "36 Meters of Happiness"; In 2015, he starred in the urban emotional drama "Maoya Was Married" and the urban fashion drama "Have to Love".
In 2016, he starred in the youth historical legendary drama "Si Meiren" and the Chinese version of "Late Night Canteen". In 2021, he will star in the urban inspirational era drama "Sea of Stars"...
As she gets older and older, Tian Niu's acting path has become narrower and narrower, and she has mostly played supporting roles such as "mother-in-law and mother" over the years.
Although the resources and status are not as good as before, it is still no problem to support yourself and your daughter.
Many people advise Tian Niu to find a companion, in fact, there is no shortage of suitors around Tian Niu.
Unfortunately, because she has suffered two love injuries and failed two marriages, she no longer believes in love and dare not be brave for love anymore, so she would rather be single than take the risk to bet on the next one who is not a "scumbag".
For Tian Niu, her daughter is the person she cares about most now, her daughter is happy, she is happy, and it is not so important whether she has a companion or not.
In order to make money from filming, Tian Niu and her daughter gathered less and separated more, plus did not give her daughter a complete family, resulting in her daughter's temperament being different from ordinary people,
It is understood that Tian Niu's daughter is dressed more and more neutrally, and her personality is becoming more and more like a boy, and she decided to change her name, from "Zhu Xiaotong" to "Zhu Yufeng".
Zhu Yufeng even confessed to his mother that he was more rejective of the opposite sex, only interested in the same sex, and announced that he would "come out".
Tian Niu couldn't accept her daughter's "coming out" at first, and felt very troubled, but on second thought, life is short, and the child is happy, why should she care about other people's eyes?
After thinking it through, Tian Niu was much more relieved than before, and her relationship with her daughter was also improved. Today, 37-year-old Zhu Yufeng serves as the agent of his mother Tian Niu, and also opened his own restaurant, which can be regarded as a successful career.
Today, Tian Niu is 64 years old, disappointed in love, she is still unmarried, and whenever she thinks back on these two dark marriages, she still has lingering palpitations in her heart, leaving an indelible shadow in her heart.
It is true that life is like this, ups and downs, twists and turns, and can never be smooth sailing.
No matter how much wind and rain you have suffered, you still have to keep moving forward, don't you? Now Tian Niu has learned to love herself and love life, and love is no longer an essential thing for her.
After all, self-reliance, self-esteem and self-love are more important than anything else.