Sitting with a few young men and chatting, it was natural to talk about marriage and love.
Xiao Wang, 25 years old, from Long County, Baoji City, Shaanxi Province, a young man in the county seat, the only son, is now an ordinary employee of a private enterprise in Xi'an. Like other marriageable youth, they are often pulled by their parents to go on blind dates. It turned out that most of the girls in the same county required the man to buy a house in Baoji City, and also had to pay a dowry ranging from 150,000 to 200,000 yuan. In this regard, his parents believe that they can also buy a house in Baoji, but two young people have no jobs there, so what is the point of buying a house? Xiao Wang believes that today's women are too realistic, focusing on money, and the marriage without money is not strong, even if they are married, they will leave. Therefore, he is not so optimistic about marriage, he just wants to learn some technology, earn more money, and when a girl is willing to marry him, he will get married, and immediately after marriage, he will have a child, after giving birth to a child, if the woman wants to divorce him, he does not want to keep it, he only needs to have a child, do not let the parents worry about him again. Perhaps in Xiao Wang's heart, he feels that as the only seedling in the family, he bears the responsibility of continuing the family bloodline, after all, this is the tradition of the Chinese nation precipitated in the bones! Xiao Wang said that it is nothing to live alone in his life, but he must have a child, and he has the heart of his parents. ay! Are the young people in the county now bad at marrying their wives?
Xiao Wu, 26 years old this year, from Changwu County, Xianyang, Shaanxi Province, said that when it comes to marriage, he is helpless and excited to say that this year, the cost of getting married, caravan dowry and other expenses add up, there is no one hundred thousand to take. Instead of marrying a woman with a million or so, it is better to change women every day! Wow, this idea really blew my mind!
Xiao Zhang, 24 years old this year, from Pucheng County, Weinan City, Shaanxi Province, with thick eyebrows, big eyes, handsome and tall, is a good boy who fights for people. Talking about the marriage event, his face became heavy, and he said: They are married there, and the bride price is not very exquisite, but the man is required to have a suite in Xi'an. Oh, my God! What is the current level of housing prices in Xi'an, we do not know, even if you empty six wallets, ordinary people may not be able to afford it! Besides, it only takes more than an hour to drive from Pucheng to Xi'an, is it necessary for everyone to rush to buy a house in Xi'an? And the provincial city traffic congestion, harsh environment, huge pressure, life is really not as comfortable as Pucheng. Of course, everyone has their own different needs and ideas, and it's hard to say who's right and who's wrong. Just seeing a young handsome young man, weighed down by marriage problems, my heart is not a taste.
Xiao Li, 31 years old this year, from a town in Maiji District, Tianshui City, Gansu Province, and Pan Shiyi are fellow townspeople, with a bold personality, can blow and be able to swear, idle and nothing like to stir up girls on the Internet, the style is a bit like the "scumbag" in the mouth of the sister now, he said that he has also talked about several objects, but they are not married. He also said that when he was working in Guangdong, he had experienced "Guan-style service" (of course, it is difficult to distinguish between true and false). Now he looks very grinning, entertaining himself, having a sister to pick up, no sister to pull, and does not seem to pay attention to marriage. ——This is also the mentality of some people, after experiencing many stories, only have a casual attitude towards marriage!
Listening to the words of these young people, I remembered the fact that the central bank issued a document calling on everyone to have more children a few days ago, and I felt very ironic, many marriageable young people have not married, how to have children? Cloning? Fake it? The first thing we should call for is to give young people the right value guidance, excellent skills training, perfect social security, and a fair competitive environment. This order really can't be reversed!
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