We often say that the rest of life is not long, and when we talk about love and marriage, we must find people who are consistent with our own three views and have similar temperaments, otherwise we will feel that marriage will not be happy.
What should marriage look like? In my opinion, it is not a storm or a snow moon, nor is it earth-shattering, but the inner harmony of the two people's deep views on life, values and external conditions.
In other words, the person you marry can not be the most emotional person, but it must be the person who can face the ups and downs of life together.
Today is the Tanabata Festival, and on this day of sweetness and love, watching a movie may be a good choice. Blowing air conditioning, come to half an iced watermelon with a movie, and the male and female pot friends comfortably nest in the sofa, enjoy life.
Recommend 5 classic movies on the theme of marriage, not only the story is touching, but also conveys the true meaning of marriage, which is beautiful and thought-provoking.
1. The Bachelor the Bachelor
As a bachelor, Jamie (Chris O'Donnell) is very proud and avoids the constraints and constraints of marriage. Just because a person is unmarried doesn't mean he can't chase love, and the appearance of Anna (Renée Zellweger) makes Jamie quickly fall in love. In the blink of an eye, 3 years later, forced by strong pressure from all sides, Jamie finally decided to enter the siege of marriage. Unexpectedly, her insincere marriage proposal annoyed Anna, and Anna chose to leave.
Jamie's grandfather died, leaving behind a $100 million inheritance, and according to the will, Jamie had to marry and start a family before the age of 30 to receive the right to inherit, and it was only 24 hours before Jamie's 30th birthday. How to find a suitable bride in one day? And how to tell whether the bride loves Jamie herself or his money? Jamie got lost between Anna and her many ex-girlfriends. It was only then that he realized that marriage was a very sacred and serious thing.
2. Firefighter fireproof
Keller is a firefighter and Catherine is the hospital's director of public relations, and despite their success in their respective career fields, neither of them can deny that it was their impulsiveness and immaturity that led to the breakdown of their relationship and the breakdown of their marriage. After countless intense normal and frustrating Cold Wars, divorce became the only option for both.
Seeing young people struggling with their feelings, Keller's father, John, decided not to sit idly by. He persuaded John to take Catherine on a forty-day journey called "Challenging Love" as a last-ditch effort to repair the relationship between the couple. Unexpectedly, it was during this seemingly hopeless journey that Keller understood the mistakes he had committed, and he decided to redeem Catherine's love and trust in him, but in the face of the decided Catherine, could Keller's retention work?
Classic lines:
• A woman is like a rose, you are good to her, she will blossom; if you are not good to her, she will wither.
• The sad thing you swore when you put on that ring is that most people promise to stay alive for good or bad, and they're actually referring to only the good parts.
• It's hard to show love when you feel unmotivated. But the truest love is not based on feelings, but on the determination to act thoughtfully, even if seemingly unrequited.
• If a man wants to win a woman's heart, he will study her and understand her likes and dislikes, habits and hobbies. But once you win the heart and marry her, you often stop studying her. If he studied her before marriage as much as he graduated from high school, then he should continue his research until he graduated from college, got a master's degree, and finally got a doctorate. It was a lifelong journey that brought his heart closer to hers.
3. Bread of happiness
Somewhere far away in Hokkaido, there is a beautiful little place called Urazuki, and there is a simple café called mani bread café. The café has carefully ground coffee, simple bread and, of course, a group of people with stories. It's quiet, ears upturned, and you seem to hear the crunchy crust of the bread being torn open, and the charcoal crackling and burning in the fire.
A slow-paced film, like a slowly fermenting loaf of bread, ends up lasting. The movie tells me three things:
1, you don't have to envy other people's lives, it seems that no matter how good life, there are also unspeakable troubles, you feel that no matter how bad life, there is also happiness worth seeking.
2, sharing is a beautiful thing, sad things to share with people, sadness can be halved, let people happy things to share with people, happiness can be doubled.
3, in the long road of life, can have people like to walk together, take care of each other, and do not forget to care for the people around them, practical and hard work, this is happiness! (Douban netizens)
4. Oath
The film is adapted through the touching biography "Covenant", based on real people and real events, what is life and death, what is not abandoned, Jim and Krikit tear-inducing life and death love, after media reports, touched and inspired more than 600 million people around the world; more through Hollywood on the screen, 2012 Valentine's Day based on this book adapted from the film of the same name, the first week of release box office exceeded 41.7 million US dollars, distributed in 43 countries and regions around the world, The box office reached 193 million yuan. Readers who hope to see the original appearance of the real story can look at the original book again and believe that the real experience of the protagonist is more sincere and touching than the movie.
"The Oath" tells the story of a newlywed artist couple, Peggy and Leo, who live in Chicago and love each other madly. However, an accident occurs and Leo escapes, but Peggy falls into a coma. When she wakes up, Leo has become a stranger: she has lost five years of memory.
The story explains the true meaning of marriage. Marriage is not a feeling of passion or romance, but a responsibility, a precious grace, and a sacred covenant, whether it is a blessing or a curse, to keep the promise to each other with love. In today's time of variability and incompatibility, this book takes us back to the pursuit of true love.
5. Love comes softly in the spring
The young Marty and her husband come to the American West to reclaim their new life, but an accident leaves her widowed. When I first arrived, I had no relatives and was pregnant. She met Clark Davis, a local widow, who lived together as a husband and wife, in order to survive this cold and cruel winter, waiting for the road to be clear the following spring to get up and return home, and work as a governess for his daughter.
Marty asked Clark: Why do you keep praying that the world has been making you and your children so unhappy that God has not cared for you at all, though you are a good person. Calrk replied to Marty: I didn't pray to hide from such misfortune; I knew that even though I was always next to the child, she was still at risk of falling. I prayed to be able to be by her side in times of misfortune, to give her warmth and strength. That's what Clark has always thought and done. (Douban netizens)
Adapted from Janette Oke's romantic Western novel, the spread of love series consists of eight films. They are:
Part I: When Love Spreads Love Comes Softly
Part II: The Eternal Promise of Love's Enduring Promise
Love's long journey
Part IV: Love's abiding joy
Love's unending legacy
Part VI: Love's unfolding dream
Part Seven: Love takes wing
Part VIII: Love finds a home