I will have a chance to hold hands with my daughter and walk on stage. For people with "social terror symptoms", it takes a certain amount of courage, however, my daughter makes me fearless.
July is graduation season, and every child is completing a certain stage of leapfrogging on the road to growth.
In a few days, in order to bid farewell to the preschool elementary school brothers and elementary school sisters to successfully ascend to primary school, the daughter will participate in a collective double dance performance, and the accompanying music is the theme song of the once popular idol drama "Let's See the Meteor Shower", "Tiptoe, lift the skirt, let my hand gently rest on your shoulder; the dance steps are dancing, the breath is shallow, the love waltz is sweet...", the melodious string rhythm is intoxicating, and the more eye-catching highlight is that each girl's dance partner should be played by the father.
The strong father and the young and pure daughter stood together, but the contrast was overflowing with a strong sense of love. The "little lover" of the previous life was reborn in this life to be a father and daughter with you, which will make a steel and resolute heart melt in an instant, make rudeness become meticulous, make barbarism civilized, to be honest, if a man has a daughter, it is God's care for you.
In this era of widespread patriarchal preference, I was secretly complacent about having a daughter.
Father and daughter dance together
I always have an inexplicable sense of nervousness in crowded places, and this social fear makes me very willing to be alone, away from the hustle and bustle, let alone perform on stage.
However, this time is an exception, no matter what, I also want to perform happily with my daughter, so that she feels that her father's company is always there, and her father can rely on it.
I imagined wearing a white shirt and black pants, standing on the stage like a gentleman, my daughter wearing a white gauze dress, standing by my side like a butterfly, dancing with music, with love, and she grew up in the rotation, I slowly grew old in the dance, thinking and thinking, my eyes shed tears.
Thanks to my daughter, I walked onto the stage for the first time, and I also walked out of the darkness of my heart, accompanied all the way, and sang all the way.
The child is a gift from the beginningless flood to save you, to give you happiness, to bring you growth.
Pain in the midst of strength
We are friends, "life is a confidant, enough" yo!
The daughter is a confidant because she is defenseless. With her ignorant eyes and open heart, she shows you the purest. She is as open as a pool of clear water, with small fish, aquatic weeds and stones clearly visible. In the face of innocence that cannot be harmed, it is very caring.
This reminds me that in recent days, Zhang Zixin, a missing girl in Hangzhou, has been found and confirmed to be dead, and I dare not look, dare not read, dare not touch that helplessness, and how heartbroken the harmful men and women are! It also reminds me of the incident of a certain chairman of the board of directors who was very calm a few days ago, and what a perverted beast wanted to make him attack a child who was not stained with a dust of fragility and powerlessness!
In the adult world, even children are not spared, what should be used to redeem!
The daughter is a confidant because she has love. She will be the first to greet you when you come home from work when you are physically and mentally exhausted, shouting "Daddy" loudly; she will say goodbye to you at kindergarten in the morning, Daddy, you drive carefully; he will also tell her not to climb too high when you climb the tall apricot tree for her to pick yellow apricots, because you are afraid that you will fall; ...
Raising children is indeed very tiring, but inadvertently, she will light you up, even a word, will make you feel great satisfaction.
There is no reason for us to be absent from the process of growing up, because your participation is not only a witness, but also a salvation.
Children with love
I decided to be a "Spider-Man" in my daughter's world, able to travel through parallel time and space. Coming to her world, looking at the blue sky, looking at the white clouds, and seeing the world of truth, goodness and beauty with childlike eyes; I also want to be able to return to my own world, with the roads I have traveled, the things I have passed, and in this unsatisfactory world, I will lead her to learn to be strong, brave, independent and confident.
If you are a superpower, you know how to follow, and you will also retreat at the right time.
There is an armless father in Tieling, Liaoning, although he lost his hands, but his feet are spiritual, he can do every job, and insists on taking care of his children alone, and is praised as the "strongest father".
He said, "I'm not the best dad myself, but I want to be the hardest dad and give my kids an example." (From Liaoshen Evening News official wei)
I love my children, love my daughter, and I am willing to be a "hardest father" and use all my life to dance with my daughter to a good hualezi.
I thought I would be in tears at the end of that song.