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I've always liked Hu Xing'er.
In the entertainment circle of beautiful women, Hu Xing'er's appearance is not dazzling, but her temperament is elegant, humble, living enough to fight through, always know what she wants, and always spare no effort for the direction and goal.
These beautiful and powerful inner qualities make Hu Xing'er look refreshing and pleasant in front of the audience, and her beauty is not afraid of the destruction of the years, but the older she gets, the more pleasing she looks.
Some time ago, because he won the annual championship in "Actors Please Take Place 2", many self-media authors have enthusiastically published articles about Hu Xing'er.
Before I could write an article to praise Hu Xing'er's wonderful performance in "Actors Please Take Place 2", I heard the good news that she was pregnant with her third child.
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At 10 o'clock in the morning of December 25th, Hu Xing'er generously announced to fans the good news of being pregnant with her third child on Weibo.
She said emotionally, "I come from a family with two sisters, I have experienced the benefits of three sisters since I was a child, and I have always felt that it would be a particularly beautiful and happy thing to have 3 children." ”
Judging from the pictures posted, Hu Xing'er was wearing a loose red festive sweatshirt with casual blue jeans, sitting in front of a tall and beautiful Christmas tree, her hands on her bulging belly, and the corners of her eyebrows were full of smiles.
Looking at the comments below Weibo, fans sent heartfelt wishes for Hu Xing'er's successful pregnancy of the third child.
Of course, there are also a few people on the Internet who have said some extreme and harsh words, accusing Hu Xing'er of being a fertility machine. There are even netizens who are difficult to ping, "Huang Zongze, if the child is his father is you, how good it is."
Oh my God, who is this! Giving birth to three children is a very happy and beautiful thing in the eyes of Hu Xing'er and his wife, and how it has become a numb and mechanical fertility machine in the eyes of some people.
There is also a netizen who asked the child why his father is not Huang Zongze, his or her words remind me of when Hu Xing'er married her current husband, a netizen once commented that "Huang Zongze, in the past eight years, whenever you propose to Hu Xing'er, she will not marry anyone else."
Obviously, the parties have been separated and two wide and each is well, but there are still outsiders who can't beat the eight rods for the parties' old love feelings.
Although I also like to watch Huang Zongze's film and television works, I think that others are handsome, have great acting skills, and also practice good cooking skills. However, from the perspective of being a husband and a father, Li Bingde is definitely more suitable for Hu Xing'er than Huang Zongze.
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Looking back at Hu Xing'er and Huang Zongze's eight-year love run, the woman always loves very deeply and purely, while the man is occasionally exposed to lace news by the media.
At that time, Hu Xing'er, who loved Huang Zongze very deeply, always protected her boyfriend in front of the media and generously expressed that she "believed in him".
But is it true that the heart will not be hurt? I believe that few girls can forgive their boyfriend's scandal again and again, and I can't reach this "realm" anyway.
Finally, after eight years of love running, Hu Xing'er was tired, and she proposed to Huang Zongze to break up.
I still remember Hu Xing'er's tearful face when she was interviewed by the media after she broke up with Huang Zongze. Tears will not deceive people, Hu Xing'er still has reluctance and longing for this relationship, and has not yet completely let go.
However, Hu Xing'er is very clear in her heart: what the 33-year-old wants is a long-term married life, and this life Huang Zongze cannot give.
Since you can't give it, there is no need to continue to obsess, although the breakup will hurt, but starting the next life again also means that you can meet the man who took her into the marriage hall and start the longed-forward life mode from then on.
Transparent as Hu Xing'er, after breaking up with Huang Zongze, she never looked back, treating emotional wounds through work and food, and quietly saving strength for the beauty of everything in the future.
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God never failed an optimistic, cheerful and hard-working woman, and three years after breaking up with Huang Zongze, Hu Xing'er met Li Bingde.
This man is neither a big star nor a rich man, but the owner of a headhunting company, three years older than Hu Xing'er.
With Hu Xing'er's fame and status in the entertainment industry, coupled with the fact that he had an eight-year relationship with a popular young student like Huang Zongze before, some people at that time were not optimistic about the relationship between Hu Xing'er and Li Bingde.
Hu Xing'er didn't care about these bad voices, just as she didn't take to heart those voices that mocked her as the "ugliest Hong Kong sister". The more others are not optimistic, the more she must strengthen her faith and use twelve points of effort to win achievements that others think are impossible.
After meeting Li Bingde, Hu Xing'er quickly identified a tall, handsome, gentle and elegant man, and put on a wedding dress and entered the palace of marriage with him at the age of 36.
In 2017, two years after marriage, Hu Xing'er gave birth to her eldest son, Yi Ting, and in 2019, she gave birth to her second son, Yi Lin. After having two children, Hu Xing'er did not "seal her belly", and on December 25, 2020, she joyfully announced that she was pregnant with her third child.
Some people say that a woman will only be happy to have children with a man when she loves him very much. It seems that Hu Xing'er is really married to the right person.
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Hu Xing'er once said, "My ex and ex were great, one of them taught me to be a gentle woman, and the other told me to be a mature adult, but I love my current one more because he taught me to be a child again." ”
The truth is as Hu Xing'er said, after marrying Li Bingde, she was really spoiled as a child.
Hu Xing'er said that she wanted to see the world, and after getting married, Li Chengde gave up his job and went on a two-month honeymoon trip around the world with Hu Xing'er.
On February 27, 2018, he posted a photo of him and Hu Xing'er on vacation in Thailand on Weibo, only to see her face full of unconcealed smiles, sweetly snuggling up next to her husband.
Hu Xing'er wanted to participate in the work, and Li Bingde took over the task of taking care of the children, creating a stable and harmonious rear for Hu Xing'er.
Some people say that a good marriage should be a "1+1>2" relationship, and each other will meet a better self.
Since marrying Li Bingde, Hu Xing'er has not only gained a happy and happy family, but also her favorite acting career has not fallen.
In the past five years since her marriage, Hu Xing'er has filmed many film and television dramas, such as "That Year the Flowers Bloom and the Moon Is Round", "Ordinary Father", "One Car and Four Servants", "Mature Strong Woman", etc., and also participated in "Crossover Singer King" and "Actor Please Seat 2", and won the honor of the annual champion with excellent results in the fierce competition "Actor Please Seat 2".
Now Hu Xing'er, with a husband and children and a career, she lives the life she used to envision.
This is related to her efforts, filming the TV series "That Year the Flowers Bloomed and the Moon Was Round" when she was pregnant with her first child, filming "The Last Kitchen Lady" when she was pregnant with her second child, and participating in "Actor Please Take Place 2" when she was pregnant with her third child. In order not to affect the shooting, she never revealed the news of her pregnancy to the crew, overcame many difficulties, paid a lot of hard work, and achieved many achievements.
In addition to hard work, Hu Xing'er's current happy life is also closely related to her choice. She decisively ended her eight-year relationship with Huang Zongze eight years ago, and if she continues to cling to it, it is estimated that she has not yet harvested stable family happiness.
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"Fate does not stay, like a spring breeze coming and going."
The sand that can't be grasped simply lifts it, and if you live too tightly, you will be hurt sooner or later.
Missed is missed, yesterday's sun, no matter how bright and bright, can not warm today's sheets and quilts.
The same is true of the relationship with the previous one, since the separation, the wise thing to do is to turn around as soon as possible, make yourself better and more beautiful, and live a happier and more powerful life.
Instead of dwelling on fantasies or revenge on your ex for long periods of time, allowing yourself to become uglier, more and more failed, and less and less loved.
May all those who are hurt in love and marriage be like Hu Xing'er, if they have worked hard enough to be good enough, and the other party still can't give the life they want, then they may as well give themselves a gorgeous turn.