A person should love at least one person in his life, or be loved once. Even if it is a person whose IQ is always stuck in seven or eight years old, he should enjoy a life, so that he can really live. However, for most people, love is just a "choice" and is far from being able to talk about love. That is, we can wait a lifetime for love, but once we reach a certain age, we will choose reality and marry a person who is destined to be the right person.
Women, marry money; men, marry reality. Yes, men marry too and are more realistic than women. Say that you are willing to wait for a lifetime for love, this life is too short, right? "Once the sea was shipwrecked as water, except for Wushan is not a cloud", this is the famous poem of The Tang Dynasty Yuan Shu, what makes people lament is that Yuan Shu is actually a scumbag who cheated mentally and physically at the same time and abandoned his wife. Our desire for love, picky, will eventually disappear into reality.
Mei Koshu (July 30, 1470-June 8, 1505)
Historically, there have been two emperors, one who seems to be incomparably loyal to love; one, it sounds, is also incomparably loyal to love. But they have their own pain. First of all, let's look at Ming Xiaozong, who loves only one person in his life.
Ming Xiaozong, who loves only one person
Ming Xiaozong's mother, Ji Shi, was the daughter of Guangxi Ji Tusi, and because she was captured, she was arranged to guard the collection of books in the imperial palace. One day, the Chenghua Emperor, who loved to learn, saw The Wise and Beautiful Ji Shi in addition to studying, thinking that Yan Ruyu was alive, and immediately decided to spend the night. These years of books, can not be read in vain. It is somewhat similar to the passage of Jin Yong's novel, Xuan Zhu and Menggu. Afterwards, Ji Shi, who had a surprising physique and was shot at the touch, became pregnant.
After the wan guifei who dominated the harem knew about this matter, she was very enthusiastic, "My sister can have such a beautiful appearance today, all rely on the water snake waist dancing Latin dance, if you have a beer belly, it is not good, or go to the small clinic to have an abortion!" "The palace maid who carried out the order, seeing Ji Shi, suddenly remembered Darwin's theory of evolution, human beings have worked hard for tens of thousands of years, can't I give the whole extinction ah?
Wan Guifei (1430–1487)
Therefore, he lied that Ji Shi was a self-service spicy hot food and ate too much, and was not really pregnant. "Pregnant or not pregnant, I don't care, I just want to invite her to the cold palace, eat spicy hot again, this time, to numb, spicy, hot!" 」 So and so, so and so, Ji Shi was invited into the Cold Palace by Wan Guifei. Emperor Xiaozong was born in the Cold Palace, and it was not until the age of six that he had the opportunity to meet his biological father, The Chenghua Emperor.
"Mother, is this my father?" Zhu Youfan, who was not yet Emperor Xiaozong of Ming, asked his mother.
"Son, my mother has only seen it once, so don't ask me." When Ji Shi said that, he covered his face and cried bitterly, it was all spicy and hot.
Before Zhu Youfan was six years old, he relied on the help of palace eunuchs to survive. Until, a eunuch named Zhang Min said that he leaked his mouth, and Wan Guifei knew that the spicy heat in the cold palace was not numb at all, not hot at all. She inquired about Ji's children many times, and the two-meter knife had prepared several train skins, but each time there was no result, which was really disgusting! The water in the harem was too deep. However, this news made the Chenghua Emperor of "Xi Dang Daddy" happy and broken. Immediately, he summoned Zhu Youfan, who was only six years old.
Emperor Mingxianzong (9 December 1447 – 9 September 1487
"Now, I have a son too!" Emperor Chenghua looked at Zhu Youfan, who had long hair hanging down, with joy in his eyes and hatred in his heart. What she hates is that Wan Guifei's heart is fierce and fierce, and she can't give birth to herself, and she doesn't allow others to give birth. Happily, I have offspring myself. Then, "Father Emperor", "This child has really long hair, like me!" In fact, it has not been combed. Originally a father-son reunion, Wan Guifei poisoned Ji Shi in private.
Between the concubines, it was inevitable that there would be palace struggles, and Ming Xiaozong, who had a lot of pain in his skin, swore to marry only one wife after becoming emperor, that is, Empress Xiaokangjing of the Zhang clan. As a result, Emperor Ming was later hailed as "the only emperor in history to practice monogamy."
No one loves, only Liao Muzong who sleeps
Emperor Muzong of Liao, the fourth emperor of the Liao Dynasty. In 951 AD, Emperor Shizong of Liao was killed by traitors, and Yelü Jing took the opportunity to suppress the rebellion and take the throne, that is, Emperor Muzong of Liao. Similar to Emperor Xiaozong of Ming, Emperor Muzong of Liao only married one wife, but he was not devoted to women, but dismissive of women. He loves no one but killing, hunting, drinking, and sleeping. Especially sleeping, sleeping every day until you wake up naturally, and when you wake up, you kill people for fun. Living without breakfast all day, he is known as the "Sleeping King". Queen: He really loves to sleep.
Emperor Muzong of Liao (19 September 931 – 12 March 969)
In the "History of Liao", there is a passage about the indiscriminate killing of People by Emperor Muzong of Liao. Probably the meaning is that in order to live forever, Emperor Muzong of Liao listened to the rumors of witches and did a lot of things to kill men to make a medicine primer.
"In the beginning, the witch Xiao Gu on the longevity prescription, when using the man's guts and it. In a few years, there were many people. ”
Probably because of his innate nature, Emperor Muzong of Liao only married one wife in his lifetime, and had no offspring. The eunuchs who served him around him were also yin and yang. The queen of the mother's world can only stay alone in the empty room and be a steel queen without feelings. How can the two of them, one with a cruel personality and one with a gentle personality, be happy? Moreover, Liao Muzong did not like women at all, only loved to sleep.
Empress Xiao (courtesy of Empress Xiao Zhipan, daughter of Hanlin Chengzhi)
In fact, this can not blame Liao Muzong, after all, the heavenly castration, put on which man, is a disaster, let alone the emperor. The perverted behavior of indiscriminate killing is also based on sexual impotence. This is the real pain of Liao Muzong. In the end, Emperor Muzong of Liao became addicted to killing and was killed by his close attendants and cooks, and Empress Xiao was also killed at the same time. He originally wanted to wait for the cook to cook the meal, so he killed the cook, but this cook would be clever and clever, taking advantage of his drunkenness, and the first move was strong.
In order to avoid palace struggles, Emperor Xiaozong of Ming only married one wife in his lifetime; Emperor Muzong of Liao, because of his natural castration, did not love women all his life. This also proves once again the world famous saying, "Happy women are all similar, and unfortunate men have their own misfortunes!" "If you were Emperor Muzong of Liao, how many wives would you marry?" This question is too cruel, let's give up. Long articles are not easy, thanks for reading!
References: History of the Ming Dynasty, History of Liao