#"Flash hour" theme essay issue 2 #
Friends who have not been seen for many years, because of something to do in Shenzhen! Take the opportunity to stay in my house for a few days!
I had the honor of doing my best to take her to taste the special snacks of Shenzhen. I have also traveled all over the well-known scenic spots. Still, we're not done. While she is still here for the last day, we still choose to shop around Zhang Xian's natural shopping instincts that like to buy and buy.
Strangely enough, I bought a lot of big bags and small bags when I visited many supermarkets, and she didn't buy any of them.
At first, I thought it was that she didn't like the style of clothes here. But after trying on a few sets of clothes, it fits very well, and she can't let go of it herself. It was only after each attempt that she hung up her clothes back to the same place. Several times I tried to help her pay for it, and she strongly objected.
I remember that she has always been a beauty lover, in college, her clothes have always been the most fashionable and fashionable in the class, often making us envious, why is it that now she is so suitable and fashionable clothes, she refuses to start it, and from her eyes, I obviously see her liking for those clothes! I couldn't figure it out, and after careful questioning, she told the truth.
My friends and my husband are both my college classmates, and they are the only ones in our class who have achieved positive results! Speaking of their stories, there are still a little legends!
My friend belongs to a slightly more senior girl in our class, and she is admired by many boys, but she is arrogant, and the average boy cannot enter her eyes, but she cannot withstand his husband's stalking. The friend's husband is mediocre and the family is not rich. He has a crush on his friends. During the time of chasing friends, love letters were almost one a day, and life was even more meticulous, and it was smooth! After two years, the kung fu paid off, and he finally got his wish and hugged the beauty.
After graduation, they entrusted their relationship and arranged to teach at a middle school in their friend's hometown, although the salary was not high, but they were free from the pain of parting and the pain of long-distance love. Less than a year later, they had a wedding! Being able to get along day and night all day is also a blessing for the newlywed Yan'er!
However, with the birth of two sons, the meager wages of the two people are really difficult to support family expenses, and in desperation, the friend's husband had to resign and go to the sea, and the friend still insisted on teaching and educating people.
The ideal is very full, the reality is very bone! Friends and husbands have failed to start a business several times, and he is completely discouraged by his career, and since then he has been devastated, and he has never had the heart to work since then, and has been a full-time grandfather. For more than ten years, he has been relying on his friends' salaries to support all the family expenses, and he is extremely financially poor. Although his friend repeatedly persuaded her husband to find a job and share her burden, he always verbally agreed and never took action.
Over the years, friends have been overwhelmed and have filed for divorce several times. But her husband did not agree to life and death, and he screamed that her friend was the only woman she loved, and she would not leave her no matter what. Even several times, they were forced to die, and their friends were helpless and never dared to mention the divorce again. On this business trip, she should also be shy, and she did not dare to spend the salary that had planned expenses every month.
Looking at the lonely eyes of my friends, I was inexplicably distressed! Can't help but sigh: is this a man's true love for a woman or dependence? If you really love a woman, how can you bear to see her so tired! This kind of marriage bound in the name of love, to love yourself more, or to love each other more?
Perhaps the most unwanted thing in love is: the gentleness of a man's worthlessness, if you really love a woman, how can you bear to see her bent by the pressure of life.
I am not a woman who is supreme in money, but I have seen many women who have become pitiful in the face of reality because of material poverty.
Men, if you really love a woman, please fight and fight for her!
Because only enough material can she buy her favorite beautiful clothes and skirts, dress herself like a princess, show her Ana's posture, in order to satisfy your aesthetic fatigue and not be disliked by you.
Because only with enough materials, she will not have endless stalls, endless vegetable markets, and will not be perceived by you: vulgar and tasteless.
Because only enough material, she can go out of the house, enjoy the fun of travel, broaden her horizons, increase her own insight, so as not to let you see women's long hair short, this sentence as a mantra hanging on the lips..................
Men, women are not material, and material is not all about love. But I hope that the true heart is not helpless in the face of materialism! Love is not humble in the face of matter!