What a girl likes, give her something, is this way of chasing girls correct?
In reality, many cases tell us that this way of chasing girls is not effective, often thankless, but most boys like to use this way to pursue girls.
Many times, it is not that girls are difficult to chase, but that your way is wrong, when you do a thing, use the wrong way, the original simple thing will become very complicated.
On the surface, it seems that there is nothing wrong with girls liking what they like, but this is not in line with the psychology of love.
"Love" is different from "friendship", "love" pays more attention to feelings, and "friendship" often has gains as long as it knows how to pay.
Therefore, in the process of chasing girls, if the boys only know how to give, the girls may be moved, but that is not love.
For girls, the real love psychology is: she will obey the boy, we can understand that when a girl likes a boy, she will be like a tamed lion, very obedient, very docile.
So, to effectively chase a girl, the boy must learn to "tame" her, not "follow" her.
Everyone must understand the difference between "taming" and "following" in order to better pursue girls.
For example: the princess has a prince and a knight by her side, but the princess only likes the prince, why?
Even if the knight used all his strength to protect the princess and meet all the needs of the princess, he could not get the princess's favor, and in the princess's heart, she was most grateful to the knight.
And the prince can give the princess love, so that she has a feeling of heartbeat, the princess will have an impulse to "rush to the prince".
Therefore, the difference between the two is that one lets girls have no impulse to "rush", and one has the impulse to "rush".
Let's make it clear that boys pursue a girl, that is, to create an impulse for girls to "rush to you", which is a kind of love motivation.
Why are ferocious lions tamed by tamers?
Because the lion is willing to believe in the trainer, when it is around the trainer, it will feel very down-to-earth, there will be a feeling of "wanting to get along with each other".
The core way for a boy to "tame" a girl is to make her "emotionally dependent" on you and "behaviorally leading."
In the process of chasing girls, boys can do these two things well, which can bring girls a feeling of "no you can't do it", so there is no other way but to rush to you.
From these two aspects, we will explain in detail the specific operating skills in the process of chasing girls.
Let girls have emotional dependence on you, in general, boys can start from girls' "emotional weaknesses" and "bad emotions".
For example, a girl lacks love from a young age, she hopes to get more love, then, your carefulness can just make the girl feel full of love, when the girl's "emotional weakness" is satisfied, it will produce emotional dependence.
Of course, there are many ways to generate emotional dependence, you can learn systematically in my column "99 points of men", only to meet more emotions of girls, in order to form emotional dependence.
Perhaps, some boys will say: what girls like, I will give her something, this will not produce emotional dependence?
For example: girls like to drink milk tea, you will buy it for her, but someone else will buy it; the knight will protect the princess, but the princess will not have only one knight by her side.
That is to say, what you give to the girl must be unique, and others cannot replace it, and she will have an emotional dependence on you.
Of course, this is not to talk to the girl, the boy should know how to do it, so that the girl feels "her dependence on you".
If you want to "tame" girls, there is another aspect, that is, to lead the behavior of girls.
How to understand "leading girls' behavior"?
We can understand it in one sentence: if you can spoil a girl, she will be inseparable from you.
With a girl, you play the role of a father, and she plays the role of a daughter.
For example, every date, girls don't have to worry about anything, boys will arrange a good itinerary, do a lot of details; when girls encounter difficulties, boys will help her stand up to a piece of the sky; when girls can't get others to understand, boys will stand by her side.
In short, if you can make a girl around you, the more you don't have to think, the more relaxed you are, then she can no longer leave you.
To pursue a girl, we must let her have the impulse to "want to be with you", and the boy must know how to create the motivation to create this emotion.
You know, only by using the right way to pursue the girl you like, it is possible to harvest happy love.
You have to work hard to improve yourself, including your emotional intelligence, personal strength, and appearance.
I believe that a better you, happy love will take the initiative to find the door.
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