Every adult in pain has an unspeakable past.
Are you using childhood to heal a lifetime? Or is it a lifetime to heal childhood?
Do you also have unspeakable rejection, emotions that cannot be expressed? Are you like me and can't appreciate yourself?
Having been planned by my parents all my life since I was a child, my life is stable but I feel constantly happy?
I also stumbled upon this book, a collection of stories about ten suffering adults whose painful pasts.
The retired kindergarten director has created an "adult kindergarten" open for adults. There are all kinds of students with psychological problems in the kindergarten, as well as "children" who cannot adapt to the adult world: there are young mothers with three-year-old children, there are otaku who have been squatting at home in their twenties, there are office workers who have been suddenly laid off in their thirties, and even sixty-five-year-old retired uncles... In the special kindergarten, everyone finds their childhood selves again here, faces the trauma of the heart, and lives out their true selves again.
Of course, the pain in our hearts will not all come from childhood, let alone from parents or someone, but there must be a reason. Those unspeakable pains are never a shameful thing.
These little bits of pain, like the scars on our heads when we were young, and the arthritis that came out of the cold when we were young without wearing autumn pants, are real diseases, not shameful things. Don't rush, don't get frustrated, there are many ways to heal yourself. When you start to understand yourself, you are already the best version of yourself.