"Double 11" is coming, actor Zhang Jin posted a long article on Weibo to confess his wife Cai Shaofen, counting the changes in Cai Shaofen's "Double 11" shopping in the 14 years since the two got married, and the silent payment to himself and his family...
The words are full of gratitude and love for their wives, which is really envious, and they can't help but sigh: a happy marriage should be a two-way rush, you pay, I understand, rely on each other, support each other.
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Zhang Jin said in a post: "These days, I see that you have been busy with double 11 shopping with your mobile phone, and in the eyes of others, you seem to be very idle. ”
In the face of his wife's "double 11" shopping, Zhang Jin did not complain about her "chopping hands", but understood that she was managing the whole family, and thanked her for her efforts for her family all the time, so that the family was orderly.
He also carefully noticed the changes that took place after his wife got married: shopping went from loving to buying some, to "", from one"" to one.
There is also Cai Shaofen "secretly" stuffing him in, although the two sides, but he knows that it is his wife's worry and love for him...
In short, Cai Shaofen's efforts for this family over the years, Zhang Jin have seen it in his eyes, remembered it in his heart, and is very grateful. You give, I understand, and that's the secret to marital happiness.
In contrast, wang Baoqiang's marriage, the practice of his ex-wife Ma Rong is "indignant with people and gods". Bao Qiang is working hard to earn money to support his family outside, and his wife not only does not care about the hardships of his work, but unites with outsiders to "bully" his husband, which is really a "white-eyed wolf" in marriage, which is chilling.
Marriage will eventually return to plain, mutual understanding and gratitude, is the warmest companionship, but also the longest confession of affection.
As we all know, Zhang Jin was just an obscure martial arts actor before marrying Cai Shaofen, and the most starred in was the "stand-in" behind the scenes, and at that time, Cai Shaofen was already the tvb boss Hua Dan, starring in a number of popular dramas, and the two could be described as different.
To this end, not only is the marriage between the two not optimistic, Zhang Jin is also said to be a "soft rice man", but Cai Shaofen has never looked down on him, and the "words of praise" are endless, no matter where they go, the two are like glue.
She took the initiative to let people change her name to "Mrs. Zhang" and was proud of it, took Zhang Jin on the show together, returned to his hometown in Chongqing, cared for his family, and single-mindedly gave birth to his children...
In front of Zhang Jin, she is an ordinary wife, never a "dazzling" star, she uses her wisdom to silently support and influence him...
Slowly, we saw an increasingly excellent Zhang Jin, who not only walked from behind the scenes to the front of the stage, but also starred in a number of film and television dramas, and later won the "Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor" with superb acting skills, and on the award stage, Zhang Jin thanked his wife deeply: "The happiness of my life is to rely on her." Cai Shaofen, who was sitting on the stage, burst into tears, happier than she had won the award.
At the same time, when the unscrupulous reporter forced Cai Shaofen to ask about the rumors of "wrapping up" that year, Zhang Jin also stepped forward and gave his wife enough security. It is Zhang Jin's love and consideration after marriage that allows Cai Shaofen to heal the pain of the past, to be a good wife and mother with peace of mind, and to start the "second spring" of her career.
It can be seen that a truly happy marriage is to rely on each other and support each other, regardless of strength or weakness.
Today, Zhang Jin shines on the stage of "Brother Who Cuts Through Thorns", with brilliant "achievements", and Cai Shaofen is still accompanied and supported by Cai Shaofen on and off the stage.
For the rest of your life, the wind and snow are you, the plain is also you, the poverty is you, the glory is also you, the gentleness in the heart is you, and the gaze is caused by you.
Marriage should be a two-way rush, requiring two people to operate together, accompany with heart, understand gratitude and know returns, in order to bear the fruits of happiness.
After Zhang Jin posted, Cai Shaofen responded warmly: "Touched, I will try to do a good job of Zhang Tai." "The husband's thoughtfulness and understanding is the best confession to his wife."
Looking at Cai Shaofen's Weibo, Zhang Jin's "shadow" can be seen everywhere, she always follows the footsteps of her lover, "No matter what the future holds, I will guard you and let you bravely move forward." This is her confession to Zhang Jin.
Although it was jokingly called "Showman Crazy Demon" by netizens, but so what! Married for more than ten years, you can still get along like your first love, happiness must come from the heart. Now, the two family careers have a double harvest, I hope they can be consistent and happy forever.
We ordinary people should do the same, husband and wife with one heart, with each other, in order to work together to end up old.