Recently, I am really fascinated by "Daming Style", so I have also specially set up a Youku membership, in order to be able to keep updating at 10 o'clock every day and watch 2 more episodes than others.
This drama is about the Ming Dynasty's struggle for the throne, but obviously, what caught my mind was not the struggle for power, but the love of Zhu Zhanji (Zhu Yawen) for Sun Ruowei (Tang Wei).
Although this drama has been complained about by many people and scolded by many people, I also feel that the scolding is very reasonable.
In particular, Zhu Zhanji is not like a grandson, but like a eunuch, I also think it is indeed very similar, Zhu Zhanji took the token given by the emperor, to the Jinyi Guard to lead the team, that small body that pretended to be like a model, where there is the killing and heroic spirit of the Jinyi Guard, only the sinister temperament of the Duke of Dongchang.
There is also the manly Sun Ruowei, who really plays at first sight.
However, with such a character setting, I was still fascinated.
I still remember the first look that Zhu Zhanji saw when he saw Sun Ruowei, and as soon as he looked up, he saw through Sun Ruowei's female dress as a man, entered the store, saw Sun Ruowei's tongue fluttering lotus flowers praising him, and saw Sun Ruowei sneaking the traitor's arrow into the bottom of the cabinet, these actions were all cute and charming in Zhu Zhanji's eyes.
He asked Sun Ruowei to admire the lake and told her that he knew about her relationship with the anti-thief, and even invited Sun Ruowei to sit in the heavenly prison of Zhaoyu. It is really an anti-human trick to pursue the goddess, anyway, it is to go to great lengths to stick with Sun Ruowei.
Knowing that Sun Ruowei was an anti-thief, he still took her back to the palace, and even took her to a family banquet, using the lives of his allies as a threat, so that Sun Ruowei could not act rashly against the emperor, but he was secretly calculated, Sun Ruowei instead blocked a sword for the emperor, and it was this arrow that saved the lives of these anti-thieves and the freedom of thousands of orphans.
Zhu Zhanji saw Sun Ruowei hit the arrow, his first reaction was like a bird of fright, coming forward to save her as fast as possible, and when others were shouting for help, he called out to the imperial doctor and took Sun Ruowei away, until someone reminded him to see the emperor, he remembered that the emperor was also injured.
However, looking at Sun Ruowei again, there is no Zhu Zhanji in her heart, all she thinks about is to be worthy of her adoptive father, and Xu Bin, who grew up with her, has her own heart, and now she has broken out of a "Cheng biting gold", and she has to marry her home to weigh the dispute over their positions.
Zhu Zhanji knew Sun Ruowei's thoughts and intentions, and resolutely tried everything to let Sun Ruowei stay by his side, and even in the future, in order to make Sun Ruowei completely stop thinking about his "predecessor", let Xu Bin go to the sea and go to the ocean with the minister, and could not be buried in his hometown until after death.
After Marrying Zhu Zhanji, Sun Ruowei still did not fall in love with this man who regarded her as a treasure, but only fulfilled his obligations.
I still remember that in "Knowing or Not", Hou Ye always tried to make Minglan feel the taste of jealousy, but often he was angry and had nothing to say, because at that time, Minglan did not understand what love was, only knew his wife's duty.
In the plot, once Minglan's mother-in-law was stunned and secretly said that she wanted to find a concubine room for Hou Ye, take care of the left and right, want people to prosper, and also wanted to find someone to provoke the feelings of Minglan and Hou Ye, but even so, she did not succeed, because Minglan not only agreed, but also persuaded Hou Ye to take this concubine home.
Hou Ye was very angry at Minglan's behavior, but he also calculated it, always sleeping in the concubine's bedroom and making a floor, and did not take much care of Minglan.
Once the house was on fire, Hou Ye went to the concubine's room to find out, and was said by Minglan's dowry to be the first time to rush to decorate the house for others, and Minglan was a little surprised.
At this time, Minglan slowly opened his mind, only to know the taste of jealousy, only to know that he had unconsciously gone from duty to love, Hou Ye saw That Minglan was very happy to see the way he was jealous.
I thought that Sun Ruowei and Zhu Zhanji would do the same, but the more I looked at the back, the more I sympathized with Zhu Zhanji. Because Sun Ruowei's feelings for him are always separated by a transparent wall, it seems to have feelings, but in fact, it is just a routine couple, to do the duty of a wife and concubine.
At that time, they first set up concubines and concubines, Zhu Zhanji very much wanted to directly take Sun Ruowei as a concubine, the other one actually did not even want to want at that time, but due to the game of power struggle, they had to include another sister, that is, Sun Ruowei's sister, into the palace, and because of the relationship between power and position, they had to accept her as a concubine, while Sun Ruowei could only be a concubine.
Zhu Zhanji was full of apologies to Sun Ruowei, and he couldn't bear it in his heart, but Sun Ruowei was like a wooden fish head, he had no heart and no lungs, he didn't have any knots in his heart, and he wouldn't feel anything wrong, anyway, he couldn't escape becoming Zhu Zhanji's woman, because his heart belonged, so it didn't matter who Zhu Zhanji liked and who he named as a concubine.
We can only lament that not all love can be exchanged for love, and not all sincerity can be exchanged for true love.
Xu Meijing is a 35-year-old unmarried woman, with little success in her career, since breaking up with her first love, she has not even talked about love, she has a suitor, has been pursuing her for 4 years, but she is still indifferent.
Once, back at home, my mother was displeased and did not cook, so she sat on the sofa, and the lights were not turned on, which really frightened Xu Meijing.
Her mother said: "Mei Jing, your father died early, your mother has been half cut into the ground, you are now 35 years old, there is no one who can take care of you, I have no sustenance, you want me to die in the future!" ”
Xu Meijing's mother cried while talking, but she was only helpless, and the painful feeling when she broke up with her first love was still vivid, and she didn't want to experience it again.
Later, under her mother's repeated forced marriage, Xu Meijing promised her mother to marry at the end of the year, at least one marriage partner. Mom didn't continue to be a demon.
Xu Meijing began to contact her admirers frequently, wanted to try to accept him, and wanted to bravely take the step of love.
In the end, because Xu Meijing's mother died of illness, she entrusted her daughter to him before her death, so the two married in the second year.
Xu Meijing was only grateful and touched by him, and in her heart, there was no trace of love, only to do her duty.
When the husband works overtime or socializes, he prepares some direct food on the table, and a pot of hot water, turning on the living room light, but he will not wait for him to come home, and he will go to bed early.
Husband social back, there is a perfume smell on the body, there will be no doubt, socializing, there will always be a boyfriend and a woman, back home vomit unconscious, but will dry the stains on the body, help him to sleep in the study.
Friends gather on weekends, smoke and drink at home, Xu Meijing will prepare some appetizers, but she does not like to participate in these occasions, not dislike it, or do not want to participate in these occasions with people she does not like.
In this way, the days passed day by day, the two children also had, Xu Meijing's life can be without a husband, and the husband has become a dispensable ornament.
The husband proposed a divorce, and Xu Meijing quickly agreed, on the premise that the daughter belonged to her. Her husband did not expect Xu Meijing to agree so cheerfully: "Xu Meijing, the stones are softer than your heart, you are simply invincible." The love for you for so many years can't cover your iron heart. ”
Xu Meijing said: "The two of us are relatives, isn't it good?" Is this home not well taken care of by me? ”
Xu Meijing's husband sneered a few times: "In a few days, I will pack my things, the house will be left for you, and my daughter will also be left to you, and I will only take my clothes." ”
When Xu Meijing's husband left, she said: "In this life, I am sorry for you!" But I can't love you! ”
Sometimes people are so stubborn, he loves her, she loves him, he loves another her, it is possible.
Just as Zhu Zhanji loved Sun Ruowei, and Sun Ruowei loved Xu Bin, even if Zhu Zhanji married Sun Ruowei, Sun Ruowei's heart was only exercising the duty that husband and wife should fulfill.
Now people have higher and higher requirements for marriage and love, preferring to be single, rather than looking for a person who does not love with themselves, unwilling to use their own hot face to paste cold ass, with true love in exchange for a little touch, such feelings are too humble, too unintentional.
If it were me, in love with someone who didn't love me, what would I do? Is it touching him or is he desperate to give up?
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Author: Sister Qing, Tang Xiaoxiao Writing Class