A song "Goodbye is also a friend" made He Wanying popular in the music scene at that time and became a rare "youth goddess". This classic song accompanies the growth of a generation, and also makes many post-80s remember that beautiful face. However, the world has changed, her personal encounters have made people sigh, unmarried into a single mother, in order to support her daughter at the expense of three jobs, become a strong woman.
After 28 years, she regained her identity as a singer, and on February 12th, it was also rare to accept an interview with Hong Kong media, in which He Wanying, although she was 49 years old, she still performed young and beautiful, freezing like a girl. In addition, she also exposed the mistakes of this life and the expectations of her daughter. It's hard to be a mother, it's even harder to be a single mother, and it's as difficult as being a perfect single mother in a bustling city like Hong Kong.
However, He Wanying came strongly and personally taught her daughter not to pretend to be others, and now although her daughter is in a rebellious period, He Wanying can get along with her like a friend.
The 49-year-old Ho Wan Ying is a Hong Kong sister in 1991, but bad luck did not enter the top three. However, she entered the entertainment circle with this identity, in addition to filming dramas ("One-Armed KnifeMan" as Feng Feidi, "Wudang Zhang Sanfeng" as Ye Cihong, "Lone Star Sword" as Le Zhilan) and as a host, but also in 1992 with Zeng Hangsheng chorus "Goodbye is also a friend" The popularity soared.
In the same year, the first solo album "Elaine" was released, and the title song "Falling in Love with You is my life's fault" became a karaoke classic at that time.
After her career was stable, He Wanying's personal feelings were also uninterrupted. Although he fell in love with Zeng Hangsheng and the "scumbag" Wei Junjie during the development period, he did not once cultivate positive results. It was not until he met the businessman Fu Daquan that he decided to get married. However, this marriage has a purpose, that is, (marrying for the sake of marriage is "one of the mistakes"), and it is precisely because of the purpose of marriage that the marriage lasted only one year.
After the divorce, He Wanying's charm did not diminish, but became more and more fascinating. At the age of 36, she was pregnant before marriage, and at this time, her relationship with her boyfriend was not very stable, and she had already planned to break up and wanted to beat the fetus out of her belly. However, He Wanying thought that she was already an elderly mother, and thought to herself, "If I don't give birth now, I don't know if there is a chance", He Wanying said when talking about this problem, "I am bent on doing it, and I have no plan at all how to raise such a daughter." ("Mistake Two" for the sake of having a child)
Even if she became a single mother under the willfulness, she did not regret giving birth to her daughter, "I hurt my daughter more than myself, her life is more important than me, but I did this on impulse, selfishly asking her to be born." 」 After giving birth to her daughter, He Wanying's career has also been hindered by many obstacles, but He Wanying has not flinched once, in addition to singing, He Wanying turned to securities work and has a public relations job, although the three-point part-time work is tired, it is enough to support her daughter and herself.
In order to have a comfortable nest with her daughter, He Wanying quickly bought a house 8 years ago, but only paid a down payment. The road of single mothers in the past 13 years is not easy to walk, and her daughter is also the driving force of life. The daughter who has entered adolescence, He Wanying also has her own way to get along with it, that is, she knows how to let go and let her daughter be independent. And He Wanying also admitted that "it is planned to arrange for her daughter to study abroad after 2 or 3 years."
Only by knowing how to make comparisons will there be progress. He Wanying also did this, for her daughter she always takes herself as a lesson, don't bet on lifelong happiness, find the right person, get married and have children, and don't repeat her mistakes.