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Cao Cao slept with many women in his life, especially other people's wives, and finally this woman frightened him to quit sex

Ancient China is a country with frequent dynastic changes, in the absence of the replacement of each dynasty, there will be a variety of problems, leading to social unrest, the rise of various powerful people, such as the Three Kingdoms period, because at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, the giant traitor power tilted to the opposition, arbitrary, resulting in political turmoil, heroes, of course, speaking of the Three Kingdoms period, we have to say Cao Cao, in history Cao Cao can be said to be a generation of tyrants, adulterous males, adulterous courtiers active in one of the figures, his personality is even more sinister. treacherous. brutal. It is in stark contrast to the images of Liu Bei, Zhuge and others, but he cherishes talents even if they are talents in his hostile camp, he can show great tolerance, guan yu and Zhao Yun are typical examples. But there is a bad one, that is, Cao Cao is a very person.

People who have seen history are clear that Cao Cao had 14 wives in his lifetime, but he himself was famous for being lustful, especially for other people's wives, once was the daughter-in-law of the great general He Jin, Cao Cao saw the beauty and snatched it for himself, this is Lady Yin, the second time is Qin Yilu's wife, originally this woman Guan Yu was also very fond of, and also mentioned to Cao Cao that after the battle, he would be rewarded to Guan Yu, but who ever wanted to grab Qin Yilu's wife after the battle, beautiful as a heavenly immortal, so Cao Cao himself stayed, As a horseman, Cao Cao really slept with a lot of women, but there was a woman he only slept once, and he was scared to quit sex from now on!

During the Three Kingdoms period, wars were frequent and society was in chaos. It is in such a social environment that many famous heroes have emerged. Liu Bei Cao Cao Sun Quan also relied on his own strength to attract most of the talents and serve them, and only then did he have the later Wei Shu Wu Three Kingdoms. Of course, from the three Gu Maolu, it can be seen that Liu Bei's love talent is particularly important to Zhuge Liang, completely disregarding his own identity, putting down his body and inviting him out of the mountain, which is admirable!

However, in this regard, Cao Cao was not inferior, and there were facts to prove that when the strategist Xu You came to Cao Ying to join Cao Cao, Cao Cao knew that he was coming, and he was happy that he did not even wear shoes and rushed to meet him. But if you really want to calculate, Cao Cao is indeed more sorry than Liu Bei. Cao Cao not only respected the strategists, but also attached great importance to the generals on the battlefield, when Liu Bei was attacked with little strength, Guan Yu could only carry Liu Bei's relatives to Cao Cao for a while, which could spoil Cao Cao's happiness, hurriedly let people wait for them, and then placed them properly, and also found an official position for Guan Yu, and rewarded him with countless money.

It can be said that Cao Cao gave Guan Yu everything he could give, but unfortunately Guan Yu was worried about Liu Bei, and could only refuse his carelessness, and Qianli rushed back to Liu Bei's side, and Cao Cao was sad about it. However, in fact, Cao Cao's most important general was someone else, this person was Zhao Yun, when Cao Cao led his troops to attack Liu Bei, Liu Bei was caught off guard, and Zhao Yun's courage also appeared at this time, Zhao Yun embraced Ah Dou, killed the enemy, rushed out of the siege, and saved Liu's bloodline.

Zhao Yun single-handedly killed dozens of generals, even if he was tired, but he did not relax at all, and this scene happened to be seen by Cao Cao, Cao Cao admired it, and even asked his subordinates to know that it was Zhao Zilong, and could not help but sigh a thousand feelings, Cao Cao also wanted to capture Zhao Yun alive and take it for his own use, but Zhao Yun, who was strong in martial arts, broke through the layers of encirclement and successfully escaped, and Cao Cao could only envy Liu Bei.

As we all know, in the Three Kingdoms, Liu Bei was generous and sincere, and his men never had to worry about their lives like Cao Cao's generals, even though Liu Bei was so lenient, he was quite prejudiced against Zhao Yun, so that in the second half of his life, he did not reuse Zhao Yun, only let Zhao Yun be responsible for bodyguard work. Why?

Let's first look at Liu Bei's importance to Zhao Yun in the early stage. Cao Cao led a large army to attack Fancheng, Liu Bei was defeated, wanted to abandon the city and flee, the people in the city did not want Liu Bei to leave, and expressed their willingness to follow him to leave. Liu Bei was also afraid that Cao Cao would not be able to catch him and inflict his anger on the people in the city, so he fled with the whole city, so the speed of the march was limited, and he was chased and beaten by Cao Cao. Mi Fang suddenly ran to Liu Bei and said that Zhao Yun had surrendered to Cao Cao. After hearing this, Liu Bei angrily rebuked Mi Fang and said, "Zhao Yun has followed me for many years and has the same brotherhood, how can he betray me?" Zhang Fei said: "When the great trouble is coming, maybe Zhao Yun will rebel", Liu Bei said, have you forgotten that Yun Chang also helped Cao Cao kill Yan Liangwen ugly, but he did not really surrender, don't blame Zhao Yun.

From these few places, we can see Liu Bei's trust in Zhao Yun. First, Mi Fang He Xuren also, the Mi family in Xuzhou is a well-known wealthy merchant, has been providing economic support for Liu Bei to raise troops, Mi Zhu, Mi Fang is also an important general in the early period of Liu Bei, and even married his sister to Liu Bei. Liu Bei has always been very polite to the Mi family, and for the sake of Zhao Yun's reputation, he even reprimanded Mi Fang; second, Zhang Fei also believed that Zhao Yun surrendered to Cao Cao, but Liu Bei compared Guan Yu, which shows that in Liu Bei's heart, Zhao Yun and Guan Yu's status are almost the same.

But what exactly changed Liu Bei's view of Zhao Yun? The first thing to do is to talk about Sun Quan's sister Sun Shangxiang. Marrying Sun Shangxiang to Liu Bei was a political ploy in Eastern Wu, and Sun Quan sent someone to the Shu Kingdom to tell Sun Shangxiang that his mother was seriously ill and wanted to deceive Sun Shangxiang, sun Shangxiang was in a hurry and did not consider taking Ah Dou with him, and as soon as he boarded the ship, Zhao Yun arrived and snatched back Ah Dou.

Although he recaptured Ah Dou, he could not prevent Lady Sun from being tricked into returning to China, and Liu Bei did not say anything, and his heart was inevitably displeased. When he was sad, he even thought of Chang Banpo and Zhao Yun did not bring his wife back, and he resented it from then on.

The second thing was that Zhao Yun prevented Liu Bei from sending troops to attack Wu. Because of Lü Meng, Lu Xun attacked Jingzhou, and Guan Yu was defeated and died at the hands of Ma Zhong. Liu Bei was heartbroken and wanted to raise an army to cut down Wu, zhuge liang and other strategists thought that the time was not ripe, and Liu Bei was dissuaded, Liu Bei was furious, and ordered that no one should be allowed to raise any objections. But Zhao Yun did not listen, and still wanted to advise. This kind of behavior undoubtedly challenged the authority of Emperor Zhaolie, and Liu Bei believed that Zhao Yun did not want to avenge Guan Yu, believing that he did not remember the brotherhood for many years. After this incident, Zilong was completely abandoned by Liu Bei, so that Liu Bei did not mention Zhao Yun when he was lonely. Although it was ultimately proved that Zhao Yun's opinion was correct, it could not restore the impression in Liu Bei's heart.

This tells us that when communicating with people, we should pay attention to methods and find good opportunities, especially when giving advice to leaders, if we are not careful, we will be doomed. Only by first thinking in a different position, understanding the other party's heart, and then explaining the stakes, can the advice be successful. After Dong Zhuo fell at that time, his troops were divided into three parts, one for Lü Bu, one for Li Dai, and one for Zhang Ji. After Zhang Jizhan's death, his nephew Zhang Xiu inherited Zhang Ji's troops. At that time, after listening to Jia Xu's advice, he immediately submitted to Cao Cao. Maybe it was too smooth, Cao Cao was a little proud, and as soon as he was proud, he was going to have an accident.

Thinking that it was so smooth, Cao Cao also wanted to treat himself after rewarding the three armies again. Just ask the people around you if there are any girls in the city. No sister with a big sister and a big aunt can also be considered. The brains of his men provided important information as soon as they were pumped, and Zhang Xiu's aunt was very on time and had been widowed for a long time. Cao Cao was happy to hear it, it was exactly the type he liked. Hurry up and arrange it.

So this Lady Zou was brought in, and Cao Cao didn't say much nonsense and worked directly. This is good, he is cool, Zhang Xiuqi exploded - it turns out that you Cao Cao is such a cargo! Raise troops to attack Cao overnight. Cao Cao was caught off guard, but fortunately, the fierce man Dianwei stubbornly guarded the yuanmen, which allowed Cao Cao to escape. Halfway through, Cao Cao also folded his eldest son Cao Anmin.

Just because he slept with a wrong woman, he caused his fierce and loyal general Dianwei to die in battle, and his eldest son to die. One is the beloved general he has always admired, and the other is his dearest eldest son. Such a painful lesson immediately stimulated Cao Cao. Cao Cao, who had always been fierce and fierce, couldn't help but cry.

By this time, Cao Cao's original wife Ding only had one son, Cao Anmin. Originally, I was still waiting to hold my grandson, but this grandson did not hold it, and my son did not have it. Old age loses children, and life has no meaning. After scolding Cao Cao for being disappointed and desperate, he resolutely left Cao Cao and returned to his mother's house. Ren Cao Cao could not persuade him to go back.

Cao Cao knew that he was wrong, and Lady Nading had no way. Cao Cao was known for his lust, and the consequences of finally sleeping with this woman brought a heavy blow to Cao Cao, losing his love general Dianwei, the eldest son Cao Anmin, and the original Lady Ding. Cao Cao's remorseful intestines were all purple, and he finally made up his mind to resolutely quit color, but what he had lost could not come back after all.