Most of the marriages of the children of the Jin family in the TV series "Golden Powder Family" are unfortunate, but Jin Yanxi and Leng Qingqiu have ended tragically. Everyone else was still making peace, especially Michiyuki, who tolerated her husband's concubines, not her generosity, but she had to endure. Today, we will talk about the marriage of Daozhi.
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After the Jin family discovered Liu Shouhua's concubine, everyone was furious, and only Daozhi said that he did not care. Mrs. Jin was surprised, she felt that she was already very tolerant, and she did not expect that Daozhi could bear it more. In fact, that's what she had to put up with.
Liu Shouhua had a concubine Sakura in Japan, and when he returned to China, the couple discussed whether to bring Sakura, but Liu Shouhua still secretly brought her back. This shows that Liu Shouhua loves Sakurako more. Of course, Liu Shouhua was jealous of Jin Quan. After all, at that time, Jin Quan was the prime minister, who did not give him some face. As a son-in-law, he did not dare to offend his father-in-law. However, he was not so jealous. Because, he has some ability.
After Jin Quan's death, the Jin family was in danger. The brothers of the Jin family are all looking for a way out for themselves. And he didn't seem to be affected by anything, which was enough to show that he had some ability. He did mix with the Jin brothers, but he was different from them. When the Jin brothers were in a vacuum, he was looking around at the house and buying a property. I have to say that this is his ability. There is a difference between him and the average idiot.
At first, he hid that he didn't want everyone to tear their faces. Later, Daozhi cried, and the whole Jin family knew about it, and he was not afraid. In the end, it is the way to compromise. She calmed the mood of the whole family and said that she did not mind. Not only did he take the concubines back home, but he also brought them back to the Jin family. This is true acceptance and complete compromise.
Daozhi did not do this really generously, but was a last resort. She is a married girl, and the Jin family will not really support her. Even if the Jin family is willing, the days will still go on. If you don't make a fuss, you will get divorced, and then you will lose both. It is better to choose to calm things down and be that generous wife.
Dao Zhi is not the one who is rebellious, and if she can tolerate it, she has to endure it. Otherwise, in the end, the two sides will tear their faces, and they can only lose both.
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Shouhua and Daozhi's feelings look very good, there is a deal between husband and wife, why does the husband still want to take a concubine, this is the heartache behind her. Michiyuki said that Sakurako has a very good personality and is very good to herself. In fact, Shouhua does not like Michiyuki's personality very much, and the later couple get along with Michiyuki has been compromising, and she is learning Sakurako's kind of personality. To be honest, Michiyuki's personality is really unpleasant. In the marriage of Leng Qingqiu and Jin Yanxi, it was vividly reflected.
In order to promote Leng Qingqiu and Jin Yanxi, she offended the eldest sister-in-law and the third sister-in-law, and she did not care at all. This personality seems to be fearless to be yourself, but in fact, the emotional intelligence is too low. Everyone is under one roof, you let others have no face, and one day you will lose face yourself.
In this matter, you will find that Daozhi's body has a big miss temper. This kind of temper is also found in marriage. She knew her fatherhood and would take advantage of it. When she found out that Shouhua had brought her back to the concubine room, her first reaction was to use her father as a threat. When Shouhua did not eat this set, she began to back down.
Her life is really ironic, trying to match other people's marriages, but her own marriage is a mess. The sisters-in-law she despised had pinched her husband to death, and she could only compromise on her own.
There is also an outer room, and the eldest sister-in-law Peifang directly said that the young lady of the Wu family and the young master of the Jin family divorced, and if they wanted to take a penny, they were all shameful. She has the confidence to divorce, and she also has the means to clean up the outer room. However, the way can only be compromised. All compromises are unwilling, but helpless, and this is how the Way is.
People's patience is limited, and she has endured a lot in marriage. Treat others with a little more arrogance and indifference.
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Why is her marriage the most unfortunate? Before, she could still rely on the Jin family. After Jin Quan left, she had no mother's home. Shouhua has a concubine, and Jin Quan wants to support her. It was she herself who chose to accept, and Jin Quan chose to be perfect. At least, the Jin family has an attitude.
Now, the Jin family has fallen, she can only rely on herself, and Liu Shouhua's last layer of jealousy is gone. She is different from her sisters-in-law, the Jin family has fallen, and her sisters-in-law still have a mother-in-law to rely on. Yanxi once asked her to borrow money, and although she sent money to Yanxi, the money belonged to Liu Shouhua. Moreover, the money was something that Shouhua was willing to borrow.
However, like the daughters-in-law of the Jin family, they all have their own small vaults. Men are losing money, they are making money. It can be said that whether there are men or not, their lives can go on.
Unlike the Tao, her marriage was completely dependent on Shouhua. She accompanied her husband to Japan, and there were two possibilities. On the one hand, her husband needs her, on the other hand, she is not at ease with Shouhua, and she cannot do without Shouhua. Judging from the current situation, it is that she needs Shouhua more.
Liu Shouhua's greatest cleverness is that he divides his wives and concubines very clearly, and he is obedient to find concubines, without thinking otherwise, and will not cause trouble for himself. While his wife compromises, he will also give in. He can play with Gongzi, but he has more foresight than Gongzi Brother.
The woman who was terrified in front of outsiders, in front of her husband, put down all her pride to accept his concubine and maintain the relationship between husband and wife. This marriage, like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
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