The years are long, the time is long, and in the blink of an eye, we are all old. After retirement, the happy and happy life has not been enjoyed enough, because of an accident or the triviality of life, it has become a lonely single old man without a wife.
In life, many single elderly people's days are very simple, get up in the morning to exercise, chat in the square park, wait until everyone is scattered, only to remember that they have no companion to summon, alone and lonely home, or eat nearby.
Back at home, I could quietly hear the purring of the young man next door, and sighed, "Old lady, you left too early, my life alone is too lonely."
With the development of aging in society, many "blind dates for the elderly" programs have appeared, watching more blind dates of the elderly, making people lament that they have really experienced the grinding of the years, and say their true thoughts in minutes, without covering up, and without implication.
The single elderly in the community, 68-year-old Uncle Liang can't help but sigh: when people reach old age, they must learn to enjoy loneliness, learn to empathize with loneliness, and never easily find a wife. Sometimes, the wife you are looking for is not a companion, but a nemesis of death.
Uncle Liang is 68 years old this year, single for 10 years, and his only daughter has long been married and has children. He himself has long since retired for many years, and now he lives alone in the three-bedroom staircase room, keeping his favorite pet and taking it out for a walk and lounging every day.
When Uncle Liang went to work, he was the logistics director in the unit, belonging to the middle-level leaders, and his wife was also a cashier in the unit, just a daughter, and the family was relatively more generous.
When he was young, Uncle Liang was also a handsome guy in the unit, and his wife took the initiative to pursue him, and the two people were Qinse and Ming, and they lived a happy life for 30 years.
Ten years ago, Uncle Liang's wife suddenly fell ill and walked peacefully in his sleep. At that time, the doctor said that it was a matter of the heart, so the onset of the disease was fast, coupled with the good sleep quality of Uncle Liang, so he did not perceive it.
The sudden death of his wife has made him lose for a long time, who has been enjoying the happiness of the family. He couldn't accept his wife, who was a few years younger than him, and just left.
All the dreams of retirement life in the past have become dreams. Uncle Liang's daughter persuaded him to retire early and live with her daughter, reduce his thoughts about his wife, and live the rest of his life as soon as possible.
Uncle Liang did not listen to his daughter's words, he told her daughter that he still has more than 20 years to live, he must be strong, and he must find something for himself, otherwise, the loss and loneliness after retirement will make himself age quickly.
In order to release his body and mind, Uncle Liang chose to learn tai chi and blow saxophone. He used to want to retire and practice tai chi with his wife, and Sachs was a hobby of his youth.
Uncle Liang's time outside of the eight hours was spent on the things he liked. Slowly, I learned how to make soup, how to make dumplings for myself, and how to keep my family tidy.
There are still many well-meaning people around him, since his wife has been gone for a few months, some people have introduced him to his wife, and some people have taken the initiative to show kindness.
But Uncle Liang said that he was unwilling to do anything, in his heart, his wife was the best woman in his life, and no one could replace her.
There was an elder brother who persuaded Uncle Liang to find another companion, so that someone would take care of his life and live, and he could also pass the rest of his life as he pleased.
Uncle Liang's heart is still relatively traditional, and he insisted until three years after the death of his wife, and agreed to go on a blind date with a single woman.
He said that he only wanted to find widowed women and did not want to find divorce. Because you don't know why she divorced, it will involve a lot of things, you are not so generous, and you will not deal with these chores.
At this time, Uncle Liang has retired, and most of the single women who are close to him are retired women in their 50s. After seeing a few, Uncle Liang's heart had a number.
In addition, Uncle Liang is a very good old brother, after finding his wife, not only spent his savings, but also almost sold the house.
It turned out that Uncle Liang's elder brother was looking for a wife, not only ten years younger, but also able to speak the Tao, coax the elder brother to be happy all day, give his pension salary to the woman, and also give his savings for many years to the woman's financial management.
Later, the woman said that it was inconvenient to live in the stairwell to go up and down the stairs, so it was better to sell another elevator room, which was also convenient, and could be closer to her son's home, which was convenient for future care.
The elder brother will keep an eye on it, to see how much his pension card and savings are, do not check it, I don't know, it turns out that his money has long been removed by young women.
Also found in the woman's WeChat that she chatted with her son, it turned out that the woman wanted to sell the brother's house, and then when she bought the elevator room, she directly wrote her name, so that everything about the brother became a woman's.
Uncle Liang's elder brother was seriously ill because of this, and when he went to visit this elder brother, the elder brother took his hand and shed tears, and said, Now, I can only follow him, otherwise my savings will not be returned, and I can only rely on her in the future.
It is very helpless and bottomless to say. The elder brother told Uncle Liang that if you look for a wife again and meet a woman you like, you can't hand over the economy, otherwise you are not looking for a wife, you are looking for a life-threatening little ghost.
Uncle Liang has experienced several blind dates, and he also knows that when the elderly are blind dated, most men are willing to find women with eye contact, good looks, and younger people, while women are more willing to find men with good conditions and obedience, as long as men spend money in place and leave the economy to women, everything is not a thing.
Uncle Liang felt that this was not a blind date, it was a transaction between the elderly. Later, Uncle Liang stopped participating in such programs and naturally lived his retirement life.
Every day he plays tai chi by himself, goes to the park to blow saxophone, goes out with boxers or friends in the band, hangs out, gets together occasionally, and most of the time, he is willing to be alone with his pets.
Sometimes, when Uncle Liang thinks of his wife, he will look at the photos of his wife with his pet in his arms, talk about the things they used to live together, or send a video to his daughter and chat with his grandson.
The days went on unhurriedly. Uncle Liang feels that the ultimate road of life is the road of loneliness, even if the couple who love each other, it is impossible to walk together, so when people reach old age, they still have to learn to get along with loneliness and loneliness and empathize with them.
When a person can enjoy the beauty of that quiet and pleasant in a lonely time, you will find that a person's life is also very good, less trivial, less complicated personnel to get along, less not a family calculation.
Therefore, Uncle Liang will often persuade them when getting along with his old brothers that since he is single, he should accept reality happily, stop looking for unnecessary troubles for himself, and quietly enjoy the lonely and lonely time given by life.
In people's bones, they are all snobbish, and then looking for a wife is the same, why let their old age for the rest of their lives be chicken and dog jump, discord with their children, and then find a wife to calculate the benefits and losses, there is no true love to find a wife again, where there is their own single free!
When people get old, they don't want to find a wife again, and no one wants to end up alone, but look at the remarriage around them or find a wife again, how many people live happily?
A few days ago, the 78-year-old uncle in "Fate Is Not Too Late" asked the woman to be young and good-looking, not only has a house, but also can't spend his money, but also can serve people.
The 70-year-old old woman asked the man not only to give the bride price, but also to cover all the living expenses, and then give a certain amount of pocket money every month.
Think, is this looking for a wife? Wife, wife, is the companion of the soul after aging. But the reality is that money comes first and feelings stand on the sidelines. It is really the sentence "low-quality re-find a wife, not as good as high-quality elderly single"!