Usually we look for a job only after passing the assessment can be employed, and parents do not need to do any test to be parents, what kind of parents children meet depends on luck, bad luck can only come to unhappy families. Some parenting experts have found that parents often quarrel with children from an early age to have psychological problems, living in fear and uneasiness all their lives.
Some parents will say that the child will be fine when he grows up, this is the parents' words to comfort themselves, the negative impact of the child in the family will accompany him for a lifetime, the heroine of a suicide case in the United States is because of family reasons that she is afraid of marriage, and jumped off the building to commit suicide on the second day of the proposal...
Evelyn McHale was born in California in 1923, there were 6 siblings in the family before her, her arrival did not make her parents happy, but made her parents feel a little more stressed, they are ordinary people, but there are 7 children to raise in the family, the financial expenses overwhelm them, often quarrel in front of the children at home, Evelyn has lived in the quarrel since birth.
In 1931, her mother was violently abused by her father and suffered from severe depression, and if she did not divorce again, she would crash into the wall, she could not bear to divorce her father, and Evelyn was raised by her. Evelyn thought that living with her mother, the quarrel could no longer sound, but unfortunately it was not so, her mother's depression increased unabated, she vented all the pain on Evelyn, Evelyn was only 8 years old and had nowhere to go, and could only silently bear her mother's scolding.
At the end of World War II in 1945, Evelyn also grew into a big girl, working in a bank, and a boyfriend who loved her very much, immersed in work and love every day, Evelyn seemed to have stepped out of the shadow of childhood, but this was not the case.
Evelyn's boyfriend Barry is an excellent air force, the girl's mind of Prince Charming, parents are a very loving couple, Barry grew up in a warm family, the confident and sunny side of the look is how Evelyn can not imitate how to imitate, she often asks herself, with Barry is not a high climb. Barry often did not know what Evelyn was thinking because of his work, so he did not answer the doubts in her heart.
In June 1947, barry set aside a day to date Evelyn in order to celebrate Evelyn's birthday, and they went to many places together during the day, evelyn was very excited to be able to meet Barryo once, and was very happy all day. After dinner, Barry suddenly took out a ring to propose to Evelyn, passers-by on the road came to watch, Evelyn was stupid on the spot, did not agree or refuse, making Barry embarrassed, Barry embarrassed to stand up and pull Evelyn away.
Barry did not blame Evelyn for what she had just done, but thought that Evelyn had not yet decided whether to agree to marry, evelyn was even more embarrassed to see barry so understanding, said goodbye and went back to their respective homes.
Evelyn was fine when she said goodbye, but the next morning she thought about jumping off the building to commit suicide, she dressed herself up, put the written suicide note into her clothes, and went to the observation deck on the 86th floor of the famous Empire State Building. The Observation Deck on the 86th floor of the Empire State Building is 381 meters above the ground, and standing on it can see a panoramic view of New York, which many tourists like to visit here.
Evelyn appeared on the 86th floor observation deck of the Empire State Building without attracting anyone's attention, she quietly came to the edge of the observation deck alone, jumped down without attention, and by the time the security guard found that she wanted to hold her, it was too late, and after a while there was a loud noise below.
Evelyn just fell on a black sedan, strangely she fell from a few hundred meters high and did not fall into two pieces, did not fracture or anything, just like a sleeping beauty, her feet crossed on the sunken roof, the expression on her face was calm and natural, photographer Robert Wells just next to take Evelyn's last photo, his photo was adopted by Time magazine in 1947, many people said that Evelyn's death was very beautiful, calling her "falling angel".
People found the suicide note in Evelyn's clothes pocket, full of words to Barry, and she said, "Sorry Barry, I can't play the role of wife, I hope you can find a better woman to be your wife." ”
A pair of qualified parents can raise better children, on the contrary, unqualified parents not only can not give their children a normal childhood, but also let them live more painfully than other children, people who have not thought about how to be parents are best not to have children easily, this is responsible for the child and also responsible for yourself, do not let more Evelyn be forced by the family to go up to the tall building.