In recent years, Li Shu, a singer and actor in the ACFTU Cultural and Labor Troupe, has sung nearly 100 THEME SONGS and interludes of TV series such as "Marrying the Wrong Flower Caravan to the Lang", "The Story of Macao", "Pan Hannian", "Heroes Without Tears", "Divine Doctor Xi Lai Le", etc., especially with the theme song of "Divine Doctor Xi Lai Le" "Many Love in the World". Li Shu's husband, Ah Luo (Luo Chengzhe), a famous musician, founded Beijing Baidi Culture and Art Co., Ltd. in 2000 and launched the Arirang group, t.g.4 group. Aro is short, Li Shu is tall and strong, Aro was born in Jilin Province, a Korean, Ne Yuyan, he doesn't like to say something in his heart, Li Shu was born in Henan, Han Chinese, fast people speak fast, and forget what he said. Two different nationalities, people with great contrasts are combined and live a sweet and happy life. Li Shu is not only Ah Luo's good wife, but also a good daughter-in-law of Ah Luo's mother, thanks to the frankness of Li Shu's personality.
The following is Li Shu's self-description.
When I married Aro, because I was not a Korean, my mother-in-law was not very satisfied with me, and according to their Korean tradition, Aro should marry a Korean girl. Because of these unfavorable factors, coupled with my straightforward personality, fast talking, and lack of the gentleness of a fresh woman, the relationship between me and my mother-in-law at the beginning of marriage was not very good.
My mother-in-law was angry with me for the first time because I spoke too straight. One day, I was a little bored in my heart, Aro saw that I didn't like to talk, so he turned around and muttered to his mother-in-law in Korean, I couldn't understand a word, and when I was in a hurry, I said: Hey, can you speak in Chinese? I don't understand Korean, don't you scold me? I joked, and my mother-in-law was not happy and said: We say our own business, how can we scold you? My mother-in-law was angry with me and gave birth for many days.
The second time my mother-in-law got angry with me, it was also because I spoke too straight. That day, I chatted with my mother-in-law, I suddenly thought of my mother-in-law's married life, when my mother-in-law was 43 years old, my father-in-law died, and all these years, I have been widowed, so I said to my mother-in-law: Mom, why don't you find a post-wife? Wife and wife, the older you are, the more you have to have a partner, if you have a wife how good, dad has died for so many years, how hard you are alone. I said this with good intentions, because it was too straight, and my mother-in-law misunderstood, thinking that I hated her and wanted to take her away, so I was angry for several days. I said that I forgot, those days, I still can't figure out why my mother-in-law is angry.
After there were more such things, Ah Luo advised me: Li Shu, you have spoken in your head, don't be too straight, so as not to make my mother angry. I also want to change Ah Luo's statement, but when I think about it, I say to myself in my heart: Forget it, what to change! The mother-in-law is not an outsider, all day together, talk to think well and then say, tired is not tired! Besides, I think about it again, sandwiched, maybe there are more contradictions, as long as I have a good heart and really treat my mother-in-law, sooner or later my mother-in-law will understand me.
After thinking like this, I still spoke to my mother-in-law and went straight to myself.
Although I speak directly to my mother-in-law, but in the care of my mother-in-law, my heart is still quite thin, every time I travel to perform in other places, I can not bring gifts to my parents, but I will never forget to bring gifts to my mother-in-law, in my heart, I think that gifts are not expensive, can represent the heart on the line.
Mother-in-law looks thin, feet grow small, wear 34 size shoes, mother-in-law's shoes are particularly difficult to buy, in the spring of 2001, I went to Yunnan to perform, in a small town market encountered a small shoe that mother-in-law can wear, I spent 10 yuan to buy back a pair of rusty cloth shoes for my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law liked it very much. The mother-in-law asked how much it cost to buy this pair of shoes, Aro was afraid to say that 10 yuan was too little, and my mother-in-law and I could not hang on to our faces, so we said: Mom, this is Li Shu who went to many stores and spent more than 100 yuan to buy it back. I slapped Ah Luo and said: Mom, don't listen to Ah Luo's blind words, this shoe is 10 yuan, I bought it back in a small street in Yunnan. I saw the smile on my mother-in-law's face froze, but soon returned to normal, and my mother-in-law smiled and said: Or my daughter-in-law told me the truth, the goods are sold, the money is more or less, it doesn't matter, I like it, it is good to dress comfortably.
One autumn day one year, I talked to my mother-in-law about family affection, and my mother-in-law asked me if I was close to her, and I said: Mom, I am very close to you, because you are so good to me and Arrow, you are so old, and you still wipe the floor all day long. But if I tell you the truth, I can't kiss Aro no matter how close I kiss you, and I don't kiss Aro to my mother, let alone you haven't given birth to me yet. The mother-in-law smiled, sighed and said: You are really a good boy who has no mouth and tells the truth. I also have your experience, in fact, the husband is the most important, is the woman's lifelong dependence, all your life you have to carry each other through, the child is married after the family is.
I went straight to my mother-in-law without any false words, and gradually, my relationship with my mother-in-law became more iron than with Aro.
After I gave birth, my waist became thicker, fatter, like a discus player, in order to help me lose weight, my mother-in-law got up early every morning, made my favorite meals, forced me to eat hard, looked at me at noon, did not let me eat anything, and looked at me at night, only allowing me to eat apples and drink yogurt. My mother-in-law also bought me plastic slimming pants, which forced me to wear them and sweat on hot days.
After there is no estrangement from the mother-in-law, the benefits are too much, I can not get up in the morning, sleep lazily by nature, love to sleep until what time is calculated, during the day is also what you want to do, raise your legs to go, do not have to worry about the family, because everything in the family has mother-in-law cooking. The most pleasant thing is that the child has a mother-in-law to watch, stronger than all the nannies, I am a hundred assured.
In her group of old sisters, whenever an old lady with the same small foot asked where the suitable shoes she wore were bought, the mother-in-law always proudly said: It was my daughter-in-law Li Shu who bought it, she is a professional shoe buyer.
The TV series "Divine Doctor Xi Laile" has always been a popular TV series on CCTV and local stations, and the song I sang, "Many Loves in the World", is particularly popular, and now, as long as I see this TV series broadcasting on TV, my mother-in-law will be jubilant all day, and when she sees people, she will say: Listen, that song was written by my son and sung by my daughter-in-law.
Now, my mother-in-law no longer picks whether my straight-eyed "stupid" daughter-in-law is right or wrong, and her attention is all on her grandson, all on my career and Aro's career.
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