"Curiosity kills cats", in film and television dramas, we often hear such a sentence. Perhaps being too curious may not be a good thing, but if you lose your curiosity about the world, it is equivalent to the aging of the heart.
When they are children, they are often the fastest and the fastest stage of human growth, because they are always full of curiosity about the unknown world and will unconsciously follow them. When they grow up, people are a little more afraid, a little more so-called maturity, a lot less curious, and they live more tired.
Tang Ying, a woman in the Republic of China, saw all this thoroughly, and maintained the curiosity in her heart all her life, even though she was already an elderly man, she could already say without blushing, I am not old, I am still a child.
First, self-discipline to the extreme
Tang Ying was born in a rich family, her parents are educated and cultivated people, and for her daughter's education, it has always been a combination of East and West. Since childhood, Tang Ying has paid great attention to her own internal and external beauty.
The clothes tang ying wears are basically tailor-made for her by her own tailors, which should be the top materials in the whole body, and her diet is also quite expensive, and there are special Chinese and Western pastry chefs and chefs of various dishes at home. For the quality of life, Tang Ying has always been very demanding.
Of course, with such a family situation, Tang Ying did not grow into a rich woman who was unreasonable because of this. Her parents are very concerned about Tang Ying's learning and arrange various courses for her, and Tang Ying herself is also very self-disciplined, no matter which course she takes, she always strives to be the best.
Some basic cultural courses, such as mathematics, physics and chemistry, foreign languages, etc., as well as some famous women's special courses, such as dance, etc., Tang Yingyi should be very good. In terms of interests, she fully reveals everyone's temperament. Eating without sleeping is the most basic, whether it is walking, or wearing clothes, there is a fixed posture, even if you take a bag, you must pay attention to the beauty of the picture.
Some people may ask whether the women cultivated in this way will be too rigid and lose the pleasure of being a human being. It is not clear how others are, but Tang Ying definitely does not have it. Even though she has achieved the ultimate self-discipline, she has never given up her curiosity about everything, and her eyes are as cute as a child.
Second, love yourself
For what she is curious about and loves, Tang Ying will never give up. At that time, Tang Ying, who was still a famous woman, liked drama, and she not only spent her mind to find someone to teach, but even became a star herself and filmed a "Wang Baojun". You know, under the society at that time, the status of the drama was very low, and it was common to be looked down upon.
Basically, few people are willing to communicate with the drama, let alone personally go to the battlefield and be a drama. Tang Ying was in celebrity circles, how could she not know this, but she didn't care.
Perhaps, for others, this is not worth the lowly thing, but for Du Yu, this is something she likes and is curious about, so it is up to her own heart. If you are born as a human being, because you care about the eyes of others, you give up your curiosity about the world and give up the possibility of exploring curiosity, then what is the point?
In addition, for a while, Tang Ying also became a model for Yunsheng and promoted the brand for Zhang Youyi. Of course, Tang Ying did this not because she spent money, but because she liked models.
From this point of view, Tang Ying can be regarded as a very good show for herself, not giving up on what she loves, and always maintaining a young and happy heart.
Only by loving yourself and cherishing yourself can you get the cherishing of others.
Third, beauty is in the skin, beauty is in the soul
However, no matter how beautiful Tang Ying is, she is also married after all, and she has been married twice. Although her husband was good to her in both marriages, only Rong Xianlin, the father of the Chinese student of her second marriage, was the one who really understood her.
Men like their wives to be dazzling and praised, but they also don't want their wives to show their beauty excessively outside. The first husband, clearly told Tang Ying, did not like her to be a model outside, did not like her in foreign affairs, and did not want her to take her children to the road of art.
Tang Ying's beauty is not only beautiful in the skin, but also in the soul, so she divorced, continued to wear high heels, dressed up as she liked, sang, listened to music, and watched movies. People like Tang Ying never have to worry about finding a match.
Later, Tang Ying found Rong Xianlin, although not rich and noble, but a person who could keep her happy and curious.
Tang Ying has a pair of eyes that find beauty, even in her later old age, she is still childlike, and sometimes observing a small animal may take several hours.
In Jin Yong's pen, there is an old naughty boy, although he is a child with gray hair, he is still Happy. And Tang Ying is an elegant lady with an old naughty heart, with a heart of more than ten years old to be more than seventy years old. Even though the face is old, the heart never grows old.