#男人不找对象也能照样好好生活吗 #
Men do not have to find a girlfriend, find a girlfriend in order to be able to experience love, to have someone to accompany each other, comfort each other, learn from each other, and make themselves more motivated.
The original intention of falling in love was to make yourself better, and for the sake of the person in your heart, you are willing to become better, not to cope. If you can live very well by yourself, then there is nothing wrong with not choosing a girlfriend.
As we grow up, we also learn about love through experiences. Understand that love is not smooth sailing, love is also sour, sweet and bitter.
Many people no longer believe in love after experiencing failed feelings, but some people will still fight for love after experiencing failed feelings. Why?
Perhaps this is because people are social animals, have certain social attributes, and are subconsciously afraid of loneliness. And to find a girlfriend can talk to each other, share with each other, comfort each other, both sides accompany each other, each other is each other's spiritual sustenance.
Two people who are together are not alone and happy because they have each other's company, and their lives are enriched because of this.
At present, society is developing rapidly, and the scientific and technological, economic, and living conditions have been greatly improved compared with before. Just like there are a lot of electronic devices that are changing quickly, the mobile phone you used five years ago is very different from the mobile phone you use now, which has greatly changed our lives, and then returned to "Can men live well without looking for a partner?" "This topic.
First, because of the change of traditional thinking, the convenience brought by social development can be completed by us alone in many cases. If a man lives alone, his focus only needs to be on himself and does not care about the others: a person cooking, a person sleeping, a game playing, eating and drinking with friends will not be called by anyone to let drink less, crazy outside to how late no one will ask what time to go home, this is a man's life without objects, can only say very free without rules, no scruples.
The second is that when a man has an object, a person becomes two people, and he must take care of her thoughts and experience her feelings. She had to find ways to make her happy when she wasn't happy, what she had to share with expectation, fewer gatherings with friends, and phone calls when outside asking when to come back. Having a place for a person in my heart, I will think about it at any time, and I will no longer indulge myself and learn to converge.
But now, in this era of equality between men and women, what men do can also be done by women, and what women do, men can also be completed, so both sides can do each other's things, and there is no one who can leave and who can't live.
In ancient and modern China and abroad, there are people who want to find someone to slowly grow old together, and there are people who want to simply live their lives alone. There are too many men who choose to live alone, especially in this era of rapid social development.
Today, there are nearly 40 million more men than women in China, which means that nearly 40 million men face singleness. But many men are not impressed and are not in a hurry. Because they think that marriage is a double-edged sword, having a good marriage can make a man happy for a lifetime, but a bad marriage is a lifetime of harm.
And because the pressure on men to marry today is too great, they may not marry the person they love the most, so it is better to "complete the task" marriage than not to end. You can live alone and be easier and happier.
In short, men have no object has a way of life, with an object and another way of life, can live well, of course, but also to meet some of the influences from the outside world and their own hearts, some of which will affect the quality of life, some change the attitude of life, it depends on how men choose.
Whether a man wants to find a girlfriend or his own thoughts, can not because of coping with things and find a partner, such a life is doomed to not be happy.
Because you love each other, because you have her, you want to make your life more interesting and look forward to the future more actively. The lives of two people should be one plus one is greater than two, not one plus one is less than two