Wen | XiaoXiao
Scorpio woman, born with some small belly black, small lonely pride. I have committed all the small taboos in the workplace and the love field. Life is just a testing ground, living, loving and content. Let me take you, gently twist the fireworks at your fingertips, and walk the world of lovers. Would you like to go together?
The CPPCC in a certain place in Hunan issued a "Proposal on Attaching Importance to the Difficulty of Choosing a Spouse for Elderly Rural Youth."
It clearly proposes to "encourage young women to stay in their hometowns and solve the difficulty of choosing a mate for young men in rural areas."
The difficulty of choosing a mate is a written language, but the interpretation is popular that the elderly bare sticks in the countryside are not only economically unable to afford to raise a daughter-in-law, but also physiologically hungry and thirsty, and may also eat irregularly, borrow wine to pour sorrow, and no one cares about the age, and in the long run, there will be big things.
It can be seen that such a social disease really makes the leaders anxious, but they can't always fly headless flies, and the methods they finally come up with are really a bit damaging.
Tell young women not to run out in the future.
What is the difference between this and the insults and imprisonment of women in feudal society, is it necessary to go back a hundred years in order to solve the problem of the nest of older men who cannot be broken?
The number of rural older men known by Xiaobian is limited, but I have heard a lot of them, summarizing a few characteristics (Xiaobian has only seen the north):
1. The family income is medium or poor, and the city cannot afford to buy a house;
2, after completing compulsory education, you will no longer go to school, you will not be motivated after work, there is no planning for life, and machismo;
3, living habits: hungry, lazy, dirty (I have never seen a few rural families particularly clean);
4, emotional intelligence is extremely low, will not coax girls, will not deal with people;
These characteristics, let alone women with higher education, even if the average rural woman looks at it, are fatal shortcomings.
Because women marry in the past, not only do housework to serve men in life, but also endure the machismo of each other's personality, and more importantly, there is no life to run.
Nowadays, the Internet makes our way of life too transparent, brush a vibrato can see the life status of women around the world, can see that there are countless possibilities for life choices, then why do women choose the worst one?
There will be people who denounce women, thinking that we are restless, and it is precisely this restlessness that promotes the development of this society, women grow so fast, but men are still stuck in their own hands, busy sitting in the well all day and watching the sky.
I remember that Yu Minhong was once denounced for a statement about women.
The fall of Chinese women leads to the degeneration of the country!
This sentence is not true or wrong.
No, it's not because, today, most women are much more awake than men, and the fall of the country is not a drag on by women.
Yes, because of the rural elderly men why marriage has become a big problem, house prices and bride price is not actually the core, but the family pattern behind these men, the family composition is the father and the mother work together, if a mother's pattern can be larger, the rural single stick can really be less.
There is a news in Shandong: rural families have doctors.
His father was a rural language teacher, and his mother worked as a farmer at home.
It was such an ordinary family that trained a daughter and a pair of twin sons to become doctors.
This mom said in an interview
"My children are ordinary children, not the 'school bully' in everyone's mouth, they rely on their own diligence and hard work to get to today step by step, their future road is still very long, I hope they step by step, walk more firmly and calmly."
This is the mother's words and patterns.
In fact, a mother can bring not only material, but also spiritual and will, as well as how to adapt to the development of this era, summed up, that is, steadfastness, hard work, and self-motivation.
Now many rural older young men are most criticized by women, they have a very high self-esteem, machismo is serious, always attribute their own failure to others, all day long hidden on the Internet to do keyboard man, scold rich people, scold people with power, scold people who are better than themselves, that is, they can't see each other's efforts and are not aware of their own problems.
Nowadays, women are trying to live hard, striving to one day be with the men they yearn for, and many men will only hide in the house and mobile phones, complaining and cursing.
In solving the problem of the nest of older men in rural areas, the most important thing to encourage is not for women to stay in the countryside, but for these older men not to be frogs at the bottom of the well, go out to see what the day outside is like today, and see how women are working hard to live.