The biggest melon in these two days should be "Xiang Sixing 65 page ppt", from a female internet celebrity anchor with millions of fans to the whole network group mocking "female sea king" in just 2 days.
Boyfriend broke the news: the girl Xiang Sixing, while maintaining a relationship with her and living together, actually held an engagement party with someone else (a rich second generation). Not only that, during the period of dating, he also took the rich second generation to spend the night in the boy's house many times.
After watching the whole process, I was really shocked by the private life of this 96-year-old girl. But what surprised me the most was not the girl's series of sao operations, but from the very beginning, the mother, as the insider, not only did not have the slightest obstacle, but also single-handedly promoted the state of the daughter to step on 2 boats.
Character Background:
Xiang Sixing, Zhang's anchor, millions of fans, Zhang's girlfriend.
Zhang Mou: A legal person of a company in Hangzhou, Xiang Sixing's cohabitant boyfriend.
Xu Mou: Xiang Sixing's engagement partner, the second generation of the rich, sitting on hundreds of millions of assets.
Xiang Mama: Xiang Sixing's mother, the planner of the whole thing.
Event passed
According to Zhang, Xiang Sixing graduated from 2018 and started a business with him, along the way the company is getting better and better, the business is getting bigger and bigger, Xiang Sixing has also become an Internet celebrity anchor under Zhang's full investment. So they bought a house in Hangzhou, bought a car, and originally planned to get married next year, who knew that on March 20, the company partner sent a video that caught him off guard.
The video content is: his girlfriend who has been with him for more than 2 years is holding an engagement party with a boy he does not know. According to rumors, the friend of the video said that the other party was a rich second generation with a head and a face.
Zhang Mou asked himself: "Didn't my girlfriend say two days ago that Grandpa wanted to be buried before he went home?" How did you turn around and get engaged to someone else? ”
With grievances and anger, Zhang drove to the city where Xiang Sixing was engaged, rushed into the engagement banquet that was about to end, and wanted a reasonable explanation. But Wanwan did not expect that Xiang Dad and Xiang Mom, who usually treated him like a son, turned their faces and did not recognize anyone, and directly chose to call the police.
Zhang Never thought that this kind of dog blood plot would happen to him, and he reflected that he thought that Xiang Sixing was still very good. He did not hesitate to use all resources to win the other party, eat and wear to give her the best, pocket money of at least 50,000 to start, in order to prepare for next year's marriage, in February this year also directly from the bank to hit 1 million to the woman, as a marriage reserve. Such a girl in the palm of his hand actually planned to turn his head and marry someone else without his knowledge.
Coming out of the police station, Zhang Mou turned over the old mobile phone that Xiang Sixing left at home to find that he was already a person in the bureau, and the white lotus that he once thought was always just a moon in the mirror and a flower in the water. The initiator of the whole thing is the mother-in-law who thinks he has already accepted him.
It turned out that as early as May last year, Xiang's mother knew that her daughter and Zhang were in love and living together, and gave her daughter Zhang Luo a blind date, and the object was Xu.
Xiang's mother asked her daughter to go back to the blind date
Not only that, while Teaching her daughter how to package herself, Xiang Mama was also thinking about Zhang Mou's goodness.
Xiang's mother taught her daughter how to package herself
Accepted hundreds of thousands of watches sent by the Xu family, and also warned her daughter not to bring them, in case Zhang Mou knew.
Learning that Xu mou cheated, Xiang's mother taught her daughter how to stand on the commanding heights of human nature to deal with her future mother-in-law, while persuading her daughter to give the other party another chance, and prepared to put her daughter into the giants without a bottom line.
From this point of view, Xiang Mama really played a big game of chess. Not only did he count his daughter in, but he also pulled his son to assist. Xiang's mother has repeatedly let her son accompany Xu to Hangzhou to find Xiang Sixing, while worrying about being recognized by Zhang, while teaching her daughter how to maneuver between two men, no wonder netizens complained that "mother is the king".
Subsequent
After the outbreak of public opinion, the Xiang family was completely panicked, and Xiang Sixing himself also came forward to clarify, bluntly saying that Zhang Mou had been PUA to himself, and also obtained chat records through illegal means, and he had broken up many times without success.
But netizens don't seem to buy it, after all, compared to Zhang Mouyang's 56-page ppt, Xiang Sixing's response is slightly thin.
We don't know how the real relationship between the two is, but judging from the 56-page ppt sent by Zhang, we can boldly guess that most of the content should be true. After all, from the perspective of the direction of things, the xiang family's deformed family education, Xiang Mama's strange view of marriage and love, and the Xiang family's desire for money are undoubtedly wrapped in Xiang Sixing step by step towards the abyss.
The German educator Froepel once said: "The fate of the people is not so much in the hands of those in power as in the hands of their mothers." ”
It goes without saying how important a mother is in the child's development. The mother is the closest person to the child, the first person to imitate the child, and her temperament directly affects the child's thinking and behavior.
The mother is kind and brave, and the daughter will certainly not be opportunistic. Just like teacher Yin Jianli, an education expert, her daughter skipped the grade twice, took the college entrance examination at the age of 16, and scored more than 22 points above the admission line of Tsinghua University. Teacher Yin Jianli firmly believes that the importance of mothers is better than anyone else on the road to children's growth, so she also specially wrote a book "Good Mothers Are Better Than Good Teachers". You see, Mom is the best feng shui in a home.
Looking back at the matter of Xiang Sixing's overturning, it is clear that a good deck of cards is played poorly, and the reason is that Xiang Ma's mistake accounted for 80%. Bored, I carefully counted the "4 deadly sins" that Xiang Ma committed in the whole thing:
First, knowing that her daughter has a boyfriend, she also hides from the other party to let her daughter go on a blind date.
From the beginning, Xiang's mother knew that her daughter was living in love with Zhang, but she still introduced Xu to her daughter. It can be said unceremoniously that Xiang Mama is definitely the instigator of the whole thing.
Judging from the chat records exposed by Zhang, at the beginning, Xiang Sixing actually did not make up his mind to be with Xu, and even said: As long as the company slowly does it, it can be with Zhang after making money. But apparently he was persuaded by his mother to still go on a blind date.
Second, throw your daughter and stand on the commanding heights of human nature to subdue your future mother-in-law.
Xiang's mother is very good at attacking the heart, and in the case of her daughter clearly telling Xu mou that she has cheated, while persuading her daughter to forgive, she teaches her daughter to apply verbal techniques to deal with her future mother-in-law. Therefore, Xiang Sixing stood on the commanding heights of human nature and sent a long message to the future mother-in-law that was affectionate and rich, and showed his white lotus.
Xiang Mama is really a chess master, the daughter has not yet entered the door has already cleaned up the son-in-law and mother-in-law properly, no wonder netizens said that people can marry into the rich because there is a military master mother! Or the mother is high!
Third, he pulled his son and made cover for his daughter to step on two boats.
At this point, I really can't understand, why Xiang Mom wants to pull her son to cover up, after all, her son will also find a girlfriend in the future, after this operation, are you not afraid that your son will have a psychological shadow?
But it was obvious that this boy had also been brainwashed by the Xiang family's education. Not only did he not feel anything wrong with his sister's actions, but he also kept covering up from the side, and together with the whole family, he covered up this flawed lie from the beginning.
Fourth, love to deceive young people poor, look down on "poor" children
To say that the Xiang family's fierce operation is actually because of "money" in the final analysis, they can't look up to the poor boy who started from scratch. Even if you have opened a company and become a boss, you are not as good as the rich second generation who sits on hundreds of millions of assets. So they would ride a donkey to find a horse and look for the "money".
I don't know what the Xiang family's family situation is, but Xiang Mama's move to marry her daughter into the rich is really short-sighted. It is not difficult to see that Xiang Sixing is actually quite successful in his career, sitting on millions of fans, and has a boyfriend who can help him in his career, and he can go to another level. How short of money is the Xiang family, and they have to let their daughter enter the rich?
After eating the melon, my first reaction was not how scummy the girl was, but the firm belief that this mother would definitely teach such a daughter, and I had a little sympathy for the girl for no reason.
Psychoanalysis believes that the path of children's growth is a process from "absolute dependence" to "relative dependence" to "tendency to independence". In the meantime, the mother is the "transitional object" of the child's cognitive world, and many things the child cannot judge whether it is correct or not, and can only be distinguished according to the mother's feedback.
British psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott believes that mothers are the first nurturers of a child's "subjective sense of omnipotence." Subjective omnipotence refers to a feeling that the child subjectively believes that he can get everything he wants, which is the key to the earliest self-esteem formation of the child.
When the child is hungry, breast milk will appear; slowly as the child grows up, the mother will remind her to change clothes. The mother gives the "world" to the child to help the child find what he wants in the real world. Once there is a problem with the mother's concept, the child's growth is bound to be distorted.
The mother only looks at money, and the child will become a worshipper; the mother hates socializing, and the child will refuse to communicate; the mother is hysterical, and the child certainly does not control the emotions. That's why it will be said that the family has a thousand, far less than the company of a good mother.
Mr. Lao She once wrote in "My Mother": "From private school to primary school to middle school, I have experienced at least twenty teachers... But my true teacher, who passed on his character to me, was my mother. My mother was illiterate, and what she gave me was the education of life. ”
Looking at the Xiang Sixing overturning incident, although there is an uproar on the Internet, everything has traces to follow. To put it bluntly, Xiang Ma's concept of love will make her daughter turn over sooner or later, not now but also one day soon.