The entertainment industry, or the circle of foolishness, is it self-amusement or self-amusement?
The first time I met Mei Ting was in the play "Don't Talk to Strangers", Ben watched this play with a sense of sympathy, but she did not expect to verify that art comes from life.
The feelings in the play are fragmented, and the feelings outside the play are still tragic.
This goddess Mei Ting, who has cooperated with "Zhang Guorong", what kind of love history did she have in the entertainment industry?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="11" >, Mei Ting's experience before entering the show business</h1>
Mei Ting was born in a military compound in 1975, two black jewel-like eyes, blinking up and flashing is particularly cute, involuntarily make people feel pity, at that time the elders in the compound liked Mei Ting, often wanted to tease her, happy.
How cute is Mei Ting? As early as the age of five, she had become a child model, and the local children's hospital wanted to do a promotion for a statue of a girl, and the choice was Xiao Meiting.
At that time, Xiao Meiting, in addition to being outstanding compared to other children, her performance ability was also very talented, and she was only seven years old at the time, she was successfully selected into the Red Flower Art Troupe, and had an opportunity to learn dance, and had to say that "God rewarded her with food".
This seemingly small art troupe is actually very famous in China, has been on the Spring Festival Gala several times, has many opportunities to communicate with outstanding artists abroad, if there is no outstanding ability, even the qualifications to enter the art troupe are not.
When Mei Ting reached the age of twelve, with her own efforts, she was also escorted to Nanjing No. 1 Middle School, but her learning career was different from ordinary people, the middle school should have been three years, and Mei Ting only read for two years, and in the third year, she successfully joined the People's Liberation Army Art Troupe and became a female soldier with a variety of literary and artistic soldiers.
Such a Mei Ting is naturally the pride of parents, and it is also what we often say: "Other people's children". After four years in the art troupe, Mei Ting was assigned to work in the Nanjing Song and Dance Troupe.
Mei Ting's study career to work career has been unusually smooth, perhaps she is talented, but also she is extremely lucky, but I have to admit that all this is inseparable from Mei Ting's efforts.
God is fair, the more lucky you have here, there will be ups and downs and tribulations elsewhere. In the year when she entered the song and dance troupe and officially began working, Mei Ting met the first noble person in her life, Ye Daying.
He is a famous director, his mother is an artist, his father is an excellent general, and Ye Jinghe, who is known as the "father of variety shows" in the mainland, are all iron brothers, such a background, the connections and resources in his hands are envied by ordinary people.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="98" >2, Mei Ting and Ye Daying's past</h1>
The fate of his two also began in 1994.
At that time, Mei Ting was nineteen years old, with a beautiful temperament, which was a flower in the literary troupe, coupled with her outstanding ability, the literary troupe elected her to go to the Spring Festival Gala, and cooperated with Zhu Shimao and Chen Peisi to complete a sketch.
Ye Daying sat downstage, he noticed this little girl named Mei Ting, so he began to try his best to see how to second her from the song and dance troupe for a period of time, as the heroine of his new work "Bloody Children's Heart", so he distributed a secondment letter to Mei Ting's unit, and the literary troupe agreed.
Then Mei Ting went to Russia for a half-year shooting, during which the two also rubbed an unusual spark, but no one said that after the shooting, Mei Ting returned to the song and dance troupe to continue working, but a vague love for Ye Daying made Mei Ting's heart and life begin to change.
At this time, the cultural and labor troupe was also afraid that Mei Ting would find another way out because she had Ye Daying's patron, so that they would lose the pillar. The leaders of the regiment immediately gave her a position as a cadre and wanted to keep her. But Mei Ting, who has a little bit of fame, does not think that her life is only in this small literary troupe.
Immediately decided to apply for Nortel for their own life, but in the end because there is no proof of the army, can not enter Nortel, but she is not discouraged, this school can not do it to prepare for another, that is, Chinese opera.
At this time, Mei Ting thought of Ye Daying and thought that he might be able to help himself, so Mei Ting successfully entered the Chinese opera for further study, and also became friends with Zhang Ziyi and Hu Jing and others, and began her acting career.
The management of Chinese drama is very strict, not allowing students to take over the play privately, just at this time, Ye Daying cast a "big pie" for Mei Ting, but in fact, it was out of selfishness for Mei Ting, in 1997, when preparing the new work "Red Lover", he wanted to leave the female protagonist's quota to Mei Ting, and the male protagonist was the popular superstar Zhang Guorong.
Mei Ting did not want to miss this great opportunity at all, and out of her own selfish desire to get along with Ye Daying more, she ignored the opposition of her family and the persuasion of her classmates, and broke the rules of the Chinese drama to enter the crew to shoot "Red Lovers".
In the end, she also successfully got the title of "Queen of Huabiao" because of this drama, and returned to the campus full of joy, showing Zhang Ziyi the sunglasses that Zhang Guorong gave her, talking about various new things during the filming period, but in the end what awaited her was not the affirmation from the Chinese opera, but because she was once dissuaded from violating the regulations, the years of talking and laughing with her classmates were gone.
Therefore, those people and things that can achieve Mei Ting have finally become her shackles and cut off her academic career. In this way, Mei Ting left the door of the chinese opera and turned into a flashy flower beside Ye Daying, like a caged bird, staying by his side namelessly.
She clearly knows that in the entertainment circle where fish and dragons are mixed, thanks to Ye Daying, she has avoided unnecessary wrong roads and gained a firm foothold in the entertainment industry. She was used to being dependent on him in every way and obedient.
But in the end, the Israeli waiter will not keep a man's heart, how many women want to rely on Ye Daying and successfully ascend to the throne, Mei Ting is not the first, nor will she become the last, not to mention that she and she are not really boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.
Therefore, after not making a "vase" for two years around Ye Daying, Mei Ting was abandoned aside, and the person who replaced her was Xu Jinglei.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="102" > third, Mei Ting and outsiders flash marriage and divorce</h1>
Mei Ting met Ye Daying in the years of ignorance, but when she left, she was not hysterical, but did not quarrel or complain, and did not complain half a word. Because what she wants is a romance that ordinary women want. Since Ye Daying couldn't give and didn't want to give, she was willing to leave.
After that, Mei Ting did not become decadent, but re-found her own position in the entertainment industry. In 2001, she co-starred with Feng Yuanzheng in "Don't Talk to Strangers" once again exploded, and the heroine she starred in the play was miserable, which made people turn to Mei Ting and also have pity.
But in the year of her great popularity, she chose to marry an outsider, an editor of a magazine named Yan Po. There are reports that the two did not know each other for a long time to travel together in romantic France, fell in love for less than half a year before registering for marriage in the Civil Affairs Bureau, perhaps it was really love at first sight, but the flash marriage brought her not a warm harbor, but the same speed of the flash.
Later, when outsiders knew about it, everyone sighed, because stars in the entertainment industry rarely gave up their careers because of marriage. But all kinds of doubtful voices did not break the relationship between the two. Mei Ting has spoken out many times, claiming that she is very happy and her husband loves herself very much.
But in these years, the family's expenses have to rely on Mei Ting herself, and what about her husband who "cherishes her in every way"?
From the editor of the magazine to the home sage, Mei Ting filmed in the crew, he was at home to cook soup, visit the class time to send the past. From this perspective, although this man has no ability, but he loves himself, he can also be regarded as a reliable husband, Mei Ting, a woman who pursues romance and feelings in the extreme, so he eats his set very much.
However, Mei Ting's husband Yan Po is not like the surface, in fact, he is not willing to occupy such a family position, nor is he willing to bear the insult of "eating soft rice", so after coaxing Mei Ting to be good, he also got a lot of funds from her, started an art gallery, and became the boss.
Finally, he was not the unknown editor of the small magazine, but the impression of the outside world on him was always stuck on the point of "he is Mei Ting's husband".
But in fact, Yan Po's ambition is not only that, he is not satisfied with the identity of a small gallery owner, but wants to enter the entertainment industry to become a director and shoot his own films. For him, who has no connections and experience in the entertainment industry, Mei Ting has become his pioneer. She agreed with her husband's idea, strongly supported him, and agreed to play the heroine of his first work.
So in a sense, it is Mei Ting who has made this man, and also let him gradually break free from the insult of an "incompetent virtuous husband", after all, to be a good husband of a star, you have to bear the endless pressure of public opinion from the outside world, Mei Ting is very distressed about him. Therefore, after he chose to be a director, Mei Ting had no remorse.
As the saying goes, when a man has money, he will become bad, and Yan Po also began to covet other women, but Mei Ting did not notice the changes in her husband.
She never expected that the gentle and good husband who had washed his hands and made soup for himself, after entering the entertainment industry, could not resist the temptation of female stars in the circle, and began to "talk and laugh" with them on the set, discuss the plot in the hotel, and finally the marriage ended in a "catch the adulteress in bed" scene.
The media also began to expose, but at that time, Mei Ting still desperately wanted to protect her family, and several times came forward to deny her husband's various infidelities, but this could not save Yan Po's heart, Mei Ting was sad, and in March 2007, the marriage relationship between the two ended.
Only to see the new people laughing, not to see the old people crying.
Just after the relationship between the two broke down, Yan Po seamlessly connected to the next term. Many people speculate that Mei Ting's husband cheated on Li Xiaoran. However, at that time, Mei Ting, Li Xiaoran, and Yan Po did not stand up to explain the reason for the matter, and they did not know.
Perhaps Mei Ting was relieved, and one day a few years later, a statement was suddenly issued to tell the public that the crack in the relationship between the two was not Li Xiaoran's doing.
For Li Xiaoran, he cleared the notoriety of "Little Three". In fact, for Mei Ting at that time, it did not matter whether Li Xiaoran was the third party in this marriage, because Yan Po's heart could not come back, even if it was not Li Xiaoran this time, there would be other women.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="106" >4, Mei Ting flashed away and met true love</h1>
With Ye Daying fruitless, betrayed by Yan Po, Mei Ting is unwilling to pay her true heart again, and after divorce, she chooses to remain single and constantly improve herself in her career. Perhaps it was the arrangement of fate, during the filming of the film "Tuina", he met Zeng Jian.
And this time, perhaps Zeng Jian gave her enough courage to believe in love again. But fortunately, this time, Mei Ting finally did not look at the wrong person.
Zeng Jian pampered her everywhere, did not allow her to have a little bump, and could be regarded as a good man who really protected his wife.
For Mei Ting, it is not out of a momentary physiological impulse to the opposite sex, nor is it like Mei Ting's ex-husband who pleases his wife for the so-called financial road and resources, so Mei Ting is willing to marry him and have children for him, and Zeng Jian also lives up to her efforts and holds a grand wedding in her favorite theater...
From being attached to Ye Daying at the beginning to paying for the ambitions of her ex-husband Yan Po, Mei Ting gradually grew into a big woman, no longer attached to anyone, and lived out her own life characteristics.
After experiencing two love histories, I met my current husband Zeng Jian, so that I could rest outside the public eye and be a small woman next to Zeng Jian. So from beginning to end, what Mei Ting wants is not money and gifts, but a loyal and sincere feeling, but in the end, love and marriage are not the same thing, and different people have different choices and opinions.
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