Mei Ting is a student of the 96th grade of Chinese opera, and is in the same class as Zhang Ziyi, Liu Ye, Qin Hailu, Yuan Quan and others, and is also friends with them.
When Zhang Ziyi was still an ordinary girl in the class, Mei Ting already had the opportunity to cooperate with Zhang Guorong and became a big star.
It is said that Chinese opera is a star dream factory, more than half of the actors in the mainland entertainment industry come from here, but Mei Ting chose to drop out of school in her sophomore year.
For Mei Ting's decision, as bystanders, we can't comment on right and wrong, but from the results, Mei Ting seems to be a little worse than her former good girlfriend.
As for why Mei Ting dropped out of school in her sophomore year, it was largely related to a very important man in her life, and this man was Ye Daying.
It can be said that Mei Ting became Ye Daying, and at the same time lost to Ye Daying.
First, Mei Ting, who voluntarily dropped out of school because of filming
So, who is this Ye Daying who can decide Mei Ting's fate?
Ye Daying was born in Changchun and grew up in Beijing, his grandfather was a founding general, his father was an excellent soldier, and his mother was an actor at bayi Studio.
Ye Daying has liked to go to the studio to play since he was a child, and he also has a deep affection for movies. Although he later worked as a worker for several years, he eventually returned to the film circle and broke out of the sky with Wang Shuo, Zheng Xiaolong, Ye Jing and others.
In 1975, when Mei Ting fell to the ground, Ye Daying was working in the factory, and he did not expect that he would support this girl in the future.
In 1978, Ye Daying was full of ambition and returned to Beijing to take the college entrance examination, he was bent on going to Nortel to study directing, but unfortunately he was not admitted.
It took 6 years for Ye Daying to be admitted to the Beijing Film Academy of his choice, and it took another 3 years to graduate before he began to prepare for the first film in his life.
In 1988, Ye Daying was 30 years old before directing his first film, "The Big Breath". However, the film did not stir up any splashes.
At this time, Mei Ting, who was far away in Nanjing, was admitted to the military art frontline song and dance troupe. After graduation, he was assigned to work in the front-line song and dance troupe of the Nanjing Military Region.
At that time, Mei Ting was just 18 years old, which was the time when she was full of vitality and youth. Because of his outstanding performance, it took only one and a half years to be promoted to a cadre at the rank of platoon, which can be described as a good future.
Unexpectedly, in October 1994, a major event occurred that "changed Mei Ting's fate".
This year, Ye Daying wanted to prepare for the filming of "Blood Colored Children's Heart", so he went to the Nanjing Military Region Frontline Song and Dance Troupe to select actors, and at a glance, he fell in love with Mei Ting, who was full of spirit, and her fate also changed.
"Bloody Child's Heart" was directed by Ye Daying and starred Mei Ting and Lu Yi, which caused a huge sensation in the TV drama circle of that year.
Because according to the international situation at that time, it was impossible for ordinary directors to go abroad to shoot scenes, but Ye Daying went to Russia for field filming and filmed a TV series that others could not complete.
Mei Ting played the "young girl Chuchu" in the play, which is not the most beautiful, but the appearance of qingshu is flexible and real, and it is suddenly on fire in that year.
Because of this "Bloody Child's Heart", Mei Ting was appreciated by Ye Daying and has since become the "little cute" of the other party.
At the end of 1994, Ye Daying helped Mei Ting to the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, and cooperated with Zhu Shimao on the sketch "The Great Change of Life".
At that time, the gold content of the Spring Festival Gala was quite high, and the heavyweight guests who could appear on the Spring Festival Gala were heavyweight guests such as Mao Amin, Liu Xiaoqing, and Na Ying, and rookies like Mei Ting had no chance at all.
But with Ye Daying's help, everything is not a problem, which greatly satisfies Mei Ting's vanity and makes her yearn for the stage more.
After Mei Ting became angry, people frequently invited her to shoot a play, but the song and dance troupe refused all the invitations on the grounds that "active military personnel are not allowed to go out to shoot movies".
Mei Ting is very painful, on the one hand is her own iron rice bowl, on the other hand is her own love of the acting career, how to choose in the end has become a problem.
In the 1995 college entrance examination season, Mei Ting was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy, but the army did not give a visa, and Mei Ting lost her hand with Nortel.
In 1996, at the age of 20, Mei Ting decided to give up everything in the army and go to film school, and later become an actor and live a beautiful life.
This year, Mei Ting was successfully admitted to the Chinese Opera and became classmates with Zhang Ziyi, Liu Ye, Qin Hailu, Yuan Quan and others. Moreover, Mei Ting and Zhang Ziyi are still a dormitory, and the relationship is very good.
However, no one expected that Mei Ting only studied sophomore year, and dropped out of school because she wanted to shoot "Red Lover".
At that time, there were clear regulations in Chinese opera, and freshmen and sophomores could not leave the school to shoot dramas. However, Mei Ting was invited by Ye Daying, plus the male protagonist was Zhang Guorong, and she did not want to give up such an opportunity, so she left the school to shoot without permission.
Mei Ting returned to school after filming, originally the school did not plan to expel her, really let her write a check, and then the whole school reported criticism to forget it. But Mei Ting's face was thin, and she felt that this was very faceless, and she actually took the initiative to withdraw from school.
In this way, Mei Ting, who had just been a sophomore, gave up the hard-won learning opportunities and became her lifelong regret.
However, with the help of Ye Daying, Mei Ting's development in the film and television circle is still thriving, earlier than her classmates.
Second, 5 years of being pampered by Ye Daying
The year Mei Ting dropped out of school, she happened to be 22 years old, which was the peak of her appearance, and she was very liked by the boys around her, and Ye Daying was no exception.
Looking at the beautiful Mei Ting, Ye Daying is very willing to be a "soul teacher", from life to career, all are willing to teach one or two.
When filming "Red Lover", Mei Ting only went to school for one year, made a TV series, knew nothing about movies, and was a rookie at first glance.
Therefore, Mei Ting delayed a lot of shooting progress, causing dissatisfaction among the crew, at this time Ye Daying broke the siege for her and taught her to act, Mei Ting felt an unprecedented sense of security and warmth.
During the filming process, Mei Ting often asked Ye Daying for advice in order not to delay the shooting progress, and Ye Daying explained it to her very gently.
After coming and going, Mei Ting gradually admired Ye Daying's talent and secretly felt affection for him.
Ye Daying grew up in Beijing, and has seen many directors and actresses with a big age difference, and privately they have become lovers.
And Mei Ting is young and beautiful, Ye Daying has a lot of ideas about her, and the entertainment industry has the lessons of Zhang Yimou and Gong Li.
Therefore, Ye Daying desperately tried to be good to Mei Ting, hoping to impress her and let her take the initiative to give her a hug.
Ye Daying is 17 years older than Mei Ting, mei Ting is just a yellow haired girl who has not graduated from college, and she would never expect Ye Daying's old calculations.
Finally, Mei Ting walked into Ye Daying's trap step by step, and Ye Daying saw that the plan was smooth and her heart blossomed.
Ye Daying and Mei Ting slowly came together, the film they cooperated with was also a great success, Mei Ting was indeed a hit, winning the "Film Queen" of the International A-category Film Festival in one fell swoop, and at the same time winning the Huabiao Award "Film Queen" in China.
Only 22 years old, Mei Ting became a film queen and stood at a height that her friend Zhang Ziyi could not reach.
Although Mei Ting has dropped out of school, she will often return to school to reminisce with friends such as Zhang Ziyi, and at that time, Mei Ting's scenery was infinite, which made Zhang Ziyi and others envious.
But in less than a year, Zhang Ziyi became a "girl" and "sealed the queen" with a movie.
Although Mei Ting leans on Ye Daying, she rarely eats his dividends, and has been crawling and playing in film and television works that are not related to him, and has never mixed up any famous.
Ye Daying embraced the beauty and indulged in life, because he had always felt guilty about Mei Ting, and after making money, he wanted to desperately compensate her.
He obeys Mei Ting's words, as if he is afraid of his wife; he desperately coaxes Mei Ting, pleases Mei Ting, gets used to her little temper, and wants to spoil her as a little princess.
It's just a pity that Ye Daying couldn't understand what Mei Ting really wanted after all, and he didn't want to understand why Mei Ting was in love with him.
Ye Daying did not hesitate to stop working for Mei Ting, just to win a red smile, and his practice instead pushed Mei Ting out with his own hands.
Because Ye Daying has always been accustomed to Mei Ting, Mei Ting has not been very good at his temper, especially after being with him, Mei Ting still has to run alone in the crew, and Ye Daying has not had the idea of making a movie for a long time.
Ye Daying was afraid that Mei Ting would abandon himself when she became famous, and there were countless such examples, so he had been pushing away from inspiration.
Ye Daying can afford to delay, but Mei Ting can't, so she can only run on her own, until the fifth year with Ye Daying, Mei Ting finally has a move, filmed a popular TV series "Don't Talk to Strangers".
Seeing that Mei Ting was going to leave him, Ye Daying was anxious, but Mei Ting was already dissatisfied with him, and often sneered and ridiculed, which made Ye Daying very dissatisfied.
So Ye Daying came back to filming, and the heroine did not use Mei Ting, but found Xu Jinglei. Mei Ting was angry, however, and gradually alienated Ye Daying, and soon after proposed to break up.
Ye Daying began to regret it, but Mei Ting always said that it was the same, ye Daying begged bitterly, but no matter what, there was no way to save Mei Ting's heart.
Three, two very different marriages
Mei Ting had just left Ye Daying, and thinking that this was a new opportunity, her heart was full of fantasies about the future.
Without Ye Daying's help, Mei Ting wants to develop her own connections, and at a party, Mei Ting fell in love with Yan at first sight.
Yan Po has a lot of similarities with Ye Daying, and it can even be said that it is the youth version of Ye Daying, Mei Ting did not hesitate too much, and took the initiative to show love.
After the two were together, Mei Ting kept mentioning the intention of marriage, and not long after falling in love, Yan Po proposed to Mei Ting, and the two did not drag mud and water, and soon got a license to get married.
Yan Po seems to be Mei Ting's lucky star, just married, Mei Ting's TV series quickly spread throughout China.
In the following years, Mei Ting's works can win some awards large or small. In 2005, Mei Ting served as a producer and starring, invited Yan Po to be the director, and the two worked together to complete a film.
In the early years, Yan Po was just a down-and-out art student, and he had been depressed for many years, until after meeting Mei Ting, the other party paid him money to open a studio and a café, and Yan Po gradually got out of the predicament.
Later, Yan Po also relied on Mei Ting to succeed in becoming a director, but in the face of the controversy of "eating soft rice" from the outside world, his heart was somewhat not a taste.
The voice of doubt is getting louder and louder, and the voice of the outside world makes Yan quite unbearable, but Mei Ting advises him, it is all some gossip, just ignore it.
But Yan Po used to be an art director, relying on talent to eat, and his self-esteem as a director was greatly humiliated. Especially seeing the media comment that Mei Ting wanted Yan Po to take over Ye Daying's class, it was even more unbearable.
In order to release the pressure, Yan Po came together with an unknown actress, and the two were later photographed entering the hotel together. The actress is not as famous as Mei Ting, and even the status of the two is strong and female is weak, which makes Yan quite comfortable.
Only in this way, his marriage with Mei Ting also came to an end.
Yan Po is in love with Mei Ting, but he can't face the voices of the outside world, Mei Ting repeatedly advised him not to pay attention to it, but Yan Po asked her: "Isn't the truth what they say?" ”
It wasn't until Mei Ting filed for divorce that Yan Po repented, but it was too late, and with Mei Ting's nature, she would definitely not turn back.
After experiencing the failure of marriage, Mei Ting's heart was haggard, and the amount of works dropped sharply. The decrease in the number of works, coupled with the negative impact of marriage failure, Mei Ting's career declined sharply.
In 2012, Mei Ting interviewed the crew of "Parental Love", and she was no longer the first candidate for female lead. Because the first choice was somewhat inconsistent with the image of the heroine, Mei Ting got this opportunity.
Later, the TV series was fired, mei Ting returned to the audience's attention, and at the same time, many directors threw olive branches to her.
This year, Mei Ting participated in the film "Tuina", which won the grand prize of one of the three major international film festivals and won the highest award of Taiwanese film.
I don't know whether it is the success of the career that brings love, or the smooth promotion of love to promote the success of the career, in short, Mei Ting's career is inseparable from love.
When filming the movie "Tuina", Mei Ting fell in love with Zeng Jian, a photographer with the same crew. I have to say that Mei Ting will always like a man's talent, which has not changed in these years.
Zeng Jian is very talented, and more importantly, he has the shadow of Ye Daying on him, and Mei Ting once again chooses to flash marriage. Fortunately, after experiencing the failure of two relationships, Mei Ting finally harvested happiness, and perhaps learned to fall in love.
After the two married, Zeng Jian loved Mei Ting very much, contracted all the housework, and more importantly, fulfilled her personality and independence.
Now Mei Ting, who already has a son and a daughter, rarely takes on TV dramas, and the most important energy is placed on her children, and her tired body and mind also have a place of belonging.
After being pampered by Ye Daying for 5 years and being "fed soft rice" by a married husband, Mei Ting finally gained ordinary happiness after experiencing emotional pain.
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