"There is one more Chen Xiaoxu in heaven, but there is no lin daiyu in the human world."
On May 13, 2007, Chen Xiaoxu, the actor of Lin Daiyu in the 87th edition of "Dream of the Red Chamber", died, and her ending was similar to Lin Daiyu, Preferring to Be Crushed by Jade Rather Than Waquan, she died of illness.
In 2006, Chen Xiaoxu was diagnosed with early breast cancer, but she did not expect to die after only one year of fighting cancer, and her fate was lamentable and reflective.
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1, 41 years old, breast cancer stage 2
In 1987, the TV series "Dream of the Red Chamber" was filmed and broadcast on CCTV. At that time, Chen Xiaoxu, who played Lin Daiyu, became famous overnight. That year, at the age of 21, she experienced the taste of "top stream" for the first time. Shortly after filming the Dream of the Red Chamber, Chen Xiaoxu and her boyfriend Bi Yanjun entered the palace of marriage. Maybe it's because neither of them is mature enough, and they soon divorced.
At the same time, Chen Xiaoxu felt more and more that he was a rational person and did not have the passion to be an actor. Therefore, in 1991, Chen Xiaoxu gave up acting and started a business. Although he has gone through twists and turns, Chen Xiaoxu has become a successful entrepreneur with wisdom and hard work. In 1999, by chance, Chen Xiaoxu came into contact with Buddhism and embarked on the road of learning Buddhism.
In April and May 2006, 41-year-old Chen Xiaoxu went to the hospital for examination, but was diagnosed with stage II breast cancer. In order not to worry the family, Chen Xiaoxu discussed with her second husband Hao Tong and decided to keep it a secret from her parents. However, the paper wrapped could not hold the fire, and when Chen Xiaoxu's parents knew the truth, the cancer cells had already metastasized to her legs, and one leg could no longer move.
2, for the sake of perfection, give up treatment
After the family learned about Chen Xiaoxu's cancer, they always advised her to actively accept treatment. At that time, after a comprehensive diagnosis, the doctor believed that as long as it was actively treated, Chen Xiaoxu's illness was completely curable. However, Chen Xiaoxu refused treatment. The family knows that Chen Xiaoxu is a person who pursues perfection, and her heart is full of romance, even if she dies, she will die perfectly. In desperation, her family had to respect her choice.
3. Take refuge in Buddhism and regret your death
In 2005, she had the idea of becoming a monk, but for various reasons it did not materialize. After learning in 2006 that he was suffering from breast cancer, Chen Xiaoxu became more determined about the idea of renunciation. In 2007, Chen Xiaoxu shaved his head and made his home, with the legal name Miaozhen. Monasticism, she says, is not an escape from the world, but a more positive life choice.
After renunciation, Chen Xiaoxu dragged his sick body to live in the Nianfo Hall in Shenzhen. The humid and sweltering climate in Shenzhen made Chen Xiaoxu's condition, who was already weak, extremely worse. On May 13, 2007, Chen Xiaoxu died of illness in Shenzhen.
After Chen Xiaoxu left, the family established the Chen Xiaoxu Charity Foundation in accordance with her last wishes, and donated 50 million yuan for education, medical care and other charitable causes.
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Is having cancer untreated and quietly waiting for death really the best option? In fact, at that time, if Chen Xiaoxu chose to actively cooperate with treatment, the possibility of recovery was very large. Of course, finally abandoning the treatment and taking refuge in Buddhism is her personal choice and should be respected. However, in the face of cancer, the most correct thing to do should be to treat it positively, not to abandon treatment. Dr. Xia Zuguang of the Department of Oncology, Fudan University Affiliated Cancer Hospital, introduced that if cancer is allowed to develop, it will only cause the following consequences:
1. Cancer cell metastasis, multi-organ failure
Treatment controls the further development of cancer, and not treating it will only "condone" the cancer. Because cancer is an aggressive and metastatic disease, if not treated in time, cancer cells will spread and metastasize with blood circulation, invading bones, livers and other organs and tissues.
2. The pain is unbearable
If not treated in time, the cancer will continue to increase, and finally there will be symptoms of compression, causing cancer pain, and even cause ulcers, bleeding, etc., increasing pain.
3. Decreased immunity
The cancer develops to an advanced stage, and a large number of cancer cells proliferate, which reduces immunity, increases the risk of infection, and makes the disease more serious.
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"Surgery, radiotherapy, chemotherapy" is the three axes of cancer treatment, we need to correctly look at their role, in the premise of standardized treatment, it will not make the body worse, especially chemotherapy, now too many people have misunderstood it.
Chemotherapy is the use of chemical drugs to treat diseases. Yu Junyan, director of the Oncology Department of the Affiliated Peace Hospital of Changzhi Medical College and doctor of medicine, pointed out: Objectively speaking, chemotherapy is indeed a double-edged sword, chemotherapy can inhibit and kill cancer cells, but at the same time, due to the powerful drug effect, while killing cancer cells, it will also cause damage to normal cells in the human body, causing a series of side effects, such as nausea, vomiting, hair loss, and even reducing the body's original anti-cancer ability.
However, after all, the benefits of chemotherapy outweigh the disadvantages, and its efficacy in treating cancer is beyond doubt. There are many types of cancer, as only a few have serious side effects from chemotherapy. Different cancers have different sensitivities to chemotherapy, such as chorionic carcinoma, acute lymphoblastic leukemia, etc., which are highly sensitive to chemotherapy, and can be cured through chemotherapy and survive for a long time. Although some cancers are not sensitive to chemotherapy and cannot be cured by chemotherapy, they can control symptoms, reduce pain, and improve the quality of life of patients.
Moreover, there is no need to worry too much about the side effects of chemotherapy. Now, there are already good ways to deal with the side effects of chemotherapy. For example, there are already many effective inhibitory drugs for the gastrointestinal discomfort caused by chemotherapy. There are not many chemotherapy drugs that cause serious hair loss, limited to a few such as doxorubicin, and the same can be used to "see tricks and tricks", using drugs with low toxicity, good effect, and not causing serious hair loss.
So, chemotherapy isn't as scary as it seems. We need to come out of our own minds and look at the facts objectively. For cancer patients, it is even more important to relax their hearts and actively accept chemotherapy in order to defeat cancer.
Finally, I would like to tell all cancer patients and families: in the face of cancer, we must standardize treatment, establish a positive attitude, and do not treat it with a negative attitude, otherwise we will only feel more pain. #健康明星计划 #
Resources
[1] Weekend | Remembering a beautiful person - Chen Xiaoxu". China Customs Magazine.2018-05-13
[2] "Cancer, can you live longer without treatment?" 》. Shanxi Provincial Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine.2021-06-06
[3] "Is chemotherapy damaging to the body?" 》. Changzhi Comprehensive Broadcasting.2019-07-08
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