"She has good eyesight", "He can play the piano", "He speaks English well"... The children formed a circle and took turns taking the microphone to introduce the names and advantages of the classmates next to them. Some students heard their peers' comments for the first time and smiled shyly.
On the morning of the 9th, a group counseling psychological game for students was staged in the playground of the Affiliated School of Jinan University (Shunwen Campus). Leading the students to "play games" is Su Yangxue, a psychological counselor at the Shandong Provincial Mental Health Center. Su Yangxue said: "Students can feel a lot of things in the interaction, such as the power of praise, the strength of the team, which is more meaningful than direct preaching. ”
On the morning of October 9, psychological counselors interact with students in the playground (Photo by Zhang Liyuan, Xinhua News Agency)
October 10 is World Mental Health Day, and the theme of this year's festival in china is "The Heart of Youth, the Youth of Youth". "Lack of academic motivation, frustration in group networking, and parent-child communication disorders are the contents that students often consult with me." Jiang Yueting, a full-time psychology teacher at the affiliated school of the University of Jinan (Shunwen Campus), said.
Jiang Yueting has been practicing for 12 years, and in the past two years, her work has been continuously recognized by students and parents. "Students treat me as their own, believe that I can answer their questions and keep secrets for them, parents use me as a bridge, and some parents will take the initiative to share interesting stories at home with me, so that I can pay attention to the growth status of my children from multiple angles." Jiang Yueting said.
In order to help more students get rid of the psychological baggage on the road to growth and go light, last year, the Jinan Municipal Education Bureau hired about 20 psychological experts from colleges and hospitals to set up a 24-hour student psychological care hotline. Unlike on-site consultations, which require an appearance, telephone consultations can make the consultant feel more at ease and convenient.
Niu Wenkai, deputy director of the Ideological and Political Department of the Jinan Municipal Education Bureau, said: "Students of different ages and their parents have consulted with us, and the content of the consultation involves all aspects. This hotline has become a 'tree hole' and a 'gas station' for students and parents experiencing psychological difficulties. ”
The data shows that as of now, the hotline has answered 7420 effective consultations, with a total duration of 98530 minutes, and replied to 81 email inquiries, about 42800 words.
According to psychological experts, common mental illnesses in adolescents include depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, as well as learning disabilities and interpersonal relationship disorders. Many adolescents suffer from mental illness, part of the reason is to suffer from parents intentional or unintentional superimposed psychological trauma, good family education is to resolve the psychological crisis of adolescents "good medicine".
Yang Yang, director of the Third Department of Psychological Behavior of Children and Adolescents at the Shandong Mental Health Center, suggested that parents should face up to their children's negative emotions, communicate sincerely and equally with their children, and empathize with their children. Yang Yang said: "The child's ideas may be right or wrong, but the child's feelings are true, and parents should tolerate and accept the child's emotional fluctuations." (End)
Source: Xinhua News Agency