Hong Kong media reported that Zhong Zhentao was finally reunited with his wife and daughter after half a year.
Affected by the epidemic, many Hong Kong stars have come to the mainland to seek gold, and Zhong Zhentao is no exception.
Since he was separated from his wife and children at the beginning of the year, it was not until recently that his wife Fan Jiang brought his two daughters, Zhong Yi and Zhong Wei, to visit him.
In the photo, Zhong Zhentao and his two daughters hug each other tightly, and the picture looks very warm.
In fact, in addition to Fan Jiang's two biological daughters, she also brought Zhang Xiaohui's daughter Zhong Jiaqing to the mainland.
Fan Jiang also participated in the variety show "Mama is Really Good-Looking" with Zhong Jiaqing, and the two in the show had a good relationship at first glance, and the interaction was intimate and natural.
Zhong Jiaqing also has an older brother named Zhong Jiajun, who is currently 31 years old and lives alone abroad.
But his relationship with his father Zhong Zhentao and stepmother Fan Jiang is also very good.
To tell the truth, after the parents divorce, many children will choose to stand on the side of their mothers, like Zhong Jiajun and Zhong Jiaqing, who get along with their fathers and stepmothers like a family.
After understanding Zhang Xiaohui and Fan Jiang's different attitudes towards children, you will understand why they will accept their stepmothers.
01, the ex-wife is profligate, and the current is good at running the family
Zhong Zhentao was once the lead singer and guitarist of the "Wenna Band", and became popular in the streets with a song "As Long As You Live Better Than Me".
Later, he entered the film and television circle, starring in the movies "A Small Town Story" and "Good Morning Taipei" both won the Golden Horse Award for Best Picture, which was the same for a while.
However, what really makes him widely known is a marriage with Zhang Xiaohui.
Zhang Xiaohui was born into a famous family, the family is superior, the grandfather is a high-ranking official of the Republic of China, the father is a well-known illustrator and the publisher of the Canadian "Wen Wei Po".
She has been visiting Lane Crawford with her mother since she was 4 years old, entered a foreign designer shop with her mother at the age of 6, and immigrated to Canada at the age of 16.
During her studies in Canada, she met Zhong Zhentao, who went to perform, and the two met for 21 days and got married.
One is Bai Fumei, who grew up in fine clothes, and the other is a poor boy who started from scratch, and the marriage that is not right has been strongly opposed by Zhang Xiaohui's parents.
But she still married without hesitation, and Zhong Zhentao spent 3 million Hong Kong dollars to have an extremely luxurious marriage.
Zhang Xiaohui was used to spending money and spending a lot of money, and once said amazingly: "Rice can not be eaten, shirts can not be bought." ”
In order to satisfy her desire to buy, Zhong Zhentao, who has always been frugal, let her swipe her card to shop.
Zhang Xiaohui's clothes are all customized in Europe, and she also bought more than 3,000 pairs of shoes, and also bought a lot of different colors of the same brand.
Zhong Zhentao gives Zhang Xiaohui HK$5 million a year in installation fees, but he can also receive up to 300,000 yuan of shopping transactions every month.
However, when he heard his friends around him accuse Zhang Xiaohui of being profligate, he always defended: "It hurts for his wife to marry." ”
Such a marriage may seem romantic, but after the passion gradually faded, the difference in values between the two became more and more different.
Especially in the 1990s, Zhong Zhentao's popularity declined, his income declined, and Zhang Xiaohui's desire to buy did not decrease at all, which made him very stressed.
The feelings of the two have cracks, frequent quarrels, and simply go their separate ways.
Later, Zhang Xiaohui was exposed to have an extramarital affair with the wealthy businessman Chen Yaomin.
Although she explained that the two were already open marriages and did not divorce for the sake of the children, they tacitly engaged with other people.
But Zhong Zhentao said he did not know about it and did not know about it after watching the news.
The affair hastened the breakup of the relationship between the two, and they divorced in 1998.
At that time, it was time to catch up with the Financial Crisis in Hong Kong, and Zhong Zhentao failed to invest in a debt of 250 million yuan, and even the house had to be mortgaged.
At the time of divorce, Zhang Xiaohui said that she did not need Zhong Zhentao's alimony and was willing to raise the child with him, but she was still unrestrained in spending money, busy making money to buy bags, and could not take care of the children at all.
As a result, the two children spent most of their time by Zhong Zhentao's side.
With young children, hundreds of millions of debts, and less famous than before, he fell into the lowest trough of his life.
At this time, it has always been his current wife Fan Jiang who accompanies him and gives warmth and support.
Fan Jiang's full name is Fan Jiang Suzhen, born in Taiwan, at the age of 16 was admitted to the famous Julia Dance Academy in the United States, and later went to France to learn dance.
In 1996, she returned to Taiwan from France to work as a program producer for a communications company, and because of her work, she met Zhong Zhentao and became fond of her.
But at first, considering that she was 12 years younger than himself, Zhong Zhentao rejected her favor, fearing that he would drag her down.
Fan Jiang insisted on staying with him and living with him in a dilapidated house in Hong Kong.
Learn to cook, beat soy milk, and grow vegetables in flower pots on the balcony, just to save a little living expenses.
She also took out her savings, sold her diamond rings, opened a celebrity second-hand clothing store to make money, and tried her best to help Zhong Zhentao pay off her debts.
It is said that when her second-hand shop business was at its best, she could earn 2 million yuan a month, and she secretly took it to pay off the debt.
When she was nervous, she also borrowed money to send creditors away so that they would not harass Zhong Zhentao.
The two worked together to pay back the money, and finally paid off all their debts in 2006.
In the face of Fan Jiang, who is willing to pay for himself, Zhong Zhentao is full of gratitude in addition to love, he once said: "I bought a diamond ring for her with the reward I earned from my work." After that, every time she earned money, she would be given one, counting the ten fingers that had already been worn by her. ”
On August 25, 2014, Zhong Zhentao and Fan Jiang, who had already given birth to two daughters in succession and had also accumulated some wealth, finally ended their 17-year love run and held a wedding in Bali.
Zhong Zhentao wanted to give Fan Jiang the best within his ability, and he spent 5.3 million Hong Kong dollars for the wedding and gave her a diamond ring worth 68 million.
Although there is no right or wrong in marriage itself, the failure of marriage cannot be completely attributed to one party.
But being with the wrong people is a disaster.
After going around, Zhong Zhentao was very lucky to meet the true love he had.
02, the relationship between the mother and the children is bad, and the stepmother regards them as their own
Fan Jiang not only poured out his heart and lungs for Zhong Zhentao, but also a rare good mother.
When Zhang Xiaohui and Zhong Zhentao divorced, their son Zhong Jiajun was only 8 years old, and their daughter Zhong Jiaqing was only 3 years old.
The two children followed their father, and Zhang Xiaohui did not take any of them.
Although after the divorce, Zhang Xiaohui lived on a tight budget, but did not reduce the standard of living, while opening a fashion store, buying for the rich wife, writing articles for fashion magazines to make money, while still spending money in a big way.
Zhong Zhentao is also in his autobiography "McDonald's Road", revealing that Zhang Xiaohui is not a competent mother.
She was sometimes busy going out shopping, taking only chocolates for the children for dinner.
She always rushed to pick up her children from school, but less than half an hour after taking them home, she went out shopping alone.
When she is at home with her children, she only studies her own cosmetics, clothes and shoes, and rarely plays with her children.
He also said that Zhang Xiaohui even beat her own mother in front of the child, frightening the child into panic.
In fact, from these descriptions, Zhang Xiaohui did not do too much to the child, that is, she was more greedy and willful, and she considered herself in advance.
Until she later ran to shoot the wind moon film "Peach Color", which caused her relationship with her children to fall to the bottom.
Zhong Zhentao revealed that her bold appearance made the two children laugh at school by their classmates, unable to lift their heads, and their grades plummeted.
Zhong Zhentao and Fan Jiang, on the other hand, tried their best to give their children love.
Fan Jiang was only in his 20s at the time, had not yet given birth to his own child, and his mind was focused on Zhong Jiajun and Zhong Jiaqing.
In addition to making money to pay off her debts, she spends the rest of her time taking care of her family and worrying about the children's food and living.
So both children have a very good relationship with her.
Especially her daughter Zhong Jiaqing, she has almost no memory of getting along with her biological mother, and the only mother in her eyes is Fan Jiang.
She often generously posted photos of Fan Jiang, the two holding arms or shoulders, no different from mother and daughter.
Privately, they often go shopping together and have a good relationship.
On the show "Mom, You Are So Good-Looking", Zhong Jiaqing also expressed her gratitude to Fan Jiang for sacrificing her entire youth and doing her best to take care of two children who are not related by blood.
Fan Jiang burst into tears on the spot, and then posted that he never regretted his original choice.
Every Mother's Day, Zhong Jiaqing only posts a photo with Fan Jiang on social platforms, without mentioning her birth mother Zhang Xiaohui.
She and Fan Jiang's two daughters also have a good relationship, living together since childhood, often taking their sister to play together.
Zhong Zhentao said that her daughter and Zhang Xiaohui had almost never been in contact, but her son kept in touch with her.
This may be because when Zhong Jiajun was born, his parents' feelings were still very good, giving him a happy childhood life, so he and his mother had a deeper relationship.
Zhong Jiajun is often photographed traveling with his mother Zhang Xiaohui,
Also go shopping together, watch the night view,
In 2005, Zhang Xiaohui immigrated to the United States, and Zhong Zhentao later paid for his son to study in the United States, and the mother and son had more opportunities to get along.
However, the relationship between mother and son may not be very pleasant, compared to the sister who grew up happily in a complete family, Zhong Jiajun's personality is somewhat gloomy.
He often vents negative energy on social platforms, expressing unhappiness and even having the idea of taking his own life.
He also often complained that he had been living in pain for many years.
However, he still has a good relationship with his father Zhong Zhentao and stepmother Fan Jiang, and often returns to Hong Kong to reunite with them.
Similarly, Mother's Day does not mention the birth mother Zhang Xiaohui, but will bless Zhong Zhentao on Father's Day.
Moreover, when the mother Zhang Xiaohui clashed with Zhong Zhentao and Fan Jiang, the two children firmly sided with their father.
In 2011, Fan Jiang and Zhang Xiaohui's sister Zhang Xiaowan clashed and quarreled, so Zhang Xiaowan took the opportunity to accuse Fan Jiang of abusing and beating her niece Zhong Jiaqing.
Unexpectedly, Zhong Jiajun and Zhong Jiaqing, two brothers and sisters, both sided with Fan Jiang and repeatedly voiced on social media to support their stepmother.
Zhong Jiaqing accused her mother Zhang Xiaohui of wanting to make news, bluntly saying that she and her mother had not seen each other for 7 years and did not need her protection.
Zhong Jiajun also issued a warning to Zhang Xiaowan not to talk nonsense anymore, and if he destroyed the family's relationship again, he would break off relations with her.
For this reason, Zhang Xiaohui was furious and drove his son Zhong Jiajun out of the house.
After returning to Hong Kong from the United States, Zhong Jiajun once again angrily denounced Zhang Xiaohui as a "barbaric mother".
Zhong Jiaqing supported her brother and called the Zhang family a "mouse family".
Because of Zhong Jiajun and Zhong Jiaqing's attitude towards her mother Zhang Xiaohui, some netizens were quite dissatisfied.
In addition, the appearance of the two people is much lower than that of their parents, and the outside world always judges them.
But to tell the truth, both children are adults, with the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, who loves children more, who loves themselves more, they must see clearly than outsiders.
Compared with Zhong Jiaqing, who fully accepts her stepmother, Zhong Jiajun, who cannot let go of her mother and is very grateful to her stepmother, seems to be more painful in the swing of the two families.
The outside world should still have more tolerance and understanding for the brothers and sisters.
03. Conclusion
On taste, mentality, and earning power, Zhang Xiaohui can be said to be impeccable.
When she first divorced, she was obviously pursued by a large number of rich businessmen, but she had to rely on opening a shop, writing a manuscript, and making money for her own money.
With the money, she went to the United States to study theater, invested in movies, and became a highly sought after fashion blogger.
Her life is wonderful and beautiful, but the estrangement from her children is more or less a pity.
Fortunately, the two children met their stepmothers who loved themselves, and hoped that they would gradually reconcile with their parents' complicated past in the years to come.
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Author: Asagiri
Editor-in-charge: Zeria