There is a very strange law in this world, called what you don't want, the more you will have something, and this law has been fulfilled in many people around me.
Take myself as an example, since I was a child, I am not a person who has a special pursuit of material conditions, and I will never squeeze my head to fight for something, I have always been more Buddhist, and I have a relatively light view of materials, cars, and houses. Although I am not rich and wealthy now, I basically do not have too much material lack of food and clothing, and I have been wronged.
But on the contrary, I am a person who especially needs feelings and love, and I have been poisoned by idol drama since I was a child, and I have trained a love brain full of fantasies about idol dramas every day. So that after adulthood, I have been emotionally frustrated repeatedly, and I have been asking for it, unable to really see myself. In the past few years, I have taken love very seriously, and I especially need love to fill my life, without men, without love I seem to have lost oxygen. But it's strange, God just doesn't give you good love, the more you want it, the less it gives it to you.
On the other hand, my mother, a sober and independent woman from 30 years ago, never fell in love with the brain, never rushed, this is more than 30 years, always always be my father's ass behind the fart chasing the saddle before and after the service. Although my mother is not a big beauty, there is a kind of pride in her bones, and she loves herself soberly in the world. From a young age, I was taught that girls must not be too good to boys, not too active, independent, self-improvement, self-esteem and self-love. Her indisputable daughter was all ears at that time, and thought that her own mother did not understand love, did not understand the pain and vigorous feelings of tearing her heart and lungs for love. Ah I yawn, I really want to slap my childish self, as far as your little kitten bronze dan position is concerned, even if you cultivate for ten years, you can't catch up with the pattern of my mother's face.
So, sisters, look back now, there is this mysterious law in this world, and the more you don't want anything, the more you have something. This kind of don't have to be pretend not to, forcibly suppressed, then the more depressed you are, it means that you still want, God still won't give it to you. And it must be that you really feel from the bottom of your heart that this thing is not important, you don't care, it doesn't matter if you have it or not, then at this time, you find that when you really let go and don't cling to it, everything that should come is coming ❤️.