A couple, after all kinds of difficulties and dangers, not afraid of twists and turns, bumped all the way, and finally came together and put on the diamond ring of love for each other under the sacred oath.
The picture of a lover eventually becoming a family member is so beautiful; but sometimes, a lover will eventually become a resentful couple!
Elizabeth Taylor, known as the "Jade Girl", and Richard Burton, their love is like a fiery flame, it is difficult to get out of their respective marriages, married, but 10 years of marriage exhausted enthusiasm, and finally divorced.
After separation, they can't let go of each other, the two remarry, and the result is still divorce, why?
One study shows that the more perfect the beginning of love, the easier it is to achieve resentment.
Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton are the male and female protagonists of the classic movie "Cleopatra", and the film is a sensation in the film world, and the scandals of the male and female protagonists are equally sensational.
During the filming process, the emotional sparks of the two continued to heat up. The first time the kiss scene was filmed in the play, Burton found himself in love. In the next few reshoots, the director has called to stop, but the kiss scene between the two is still playing, and the director has to shout "Do you two mind if I shout 'stop'!" ”
But the reality is that both had their own marriages at the time. Taylor had her fourth husband at the time, and Burton had a wife who had been married for 14 years. Public opinion from the outside world poured in, and this extramarital affair was spurned by all sides.
After a hard struggle and breaking through multiple resistances, Burton and Taylor divorced and returned to singlehood. Soon, the two quietly held a wedding ceremony at the Ritz-Carlton Hotel in Montreal, Canada.
When hearing their marriage vows – "This is our last marriage and our relationship will not suffer any more setbacks." The audience cheered with excitement.
Vows are beautiful, but in the end they don't stand up to reality.
The two starred in many movies together after marriage, and coincidentally, most of the film content became a realistic portrayal of their love marriage: scandals, wealth, alcoholism, quarrels, etc., and these also posed a threat to the marriage.
After every fight, Burton was in pain, but the next time he would still make the same mistake.
In a letter, he wrote sincerely: "God punishes Prometheus because he stole the fire; God punishes me because I snatched a fire and tried to extinguish it, and this fire is you." We always fought inexplicably, and it made me miserable. But the biggest reason we tortured each other was – I love you whether we're together or not. ”
Too hot flames touched together because they were too strong, melting the obstacles and burning each other.
Taylor's hot temper and Burton's addiction to alcoholism are the biggest obstacles in the relationship between the two.
Not only that, Taylor also won her second Oscar for "Noisy", but Burton failed to do so.
There is still love in the depths of the heart, but real life has forced the two to eventually separate, and the 10-year marriage has come to an end.
After the divorce, Burton could not stop missing Taylor, so he began to write love letters madly.
"The man you're dealing with now has to be nice to you, and if he can't do that, I'll go to him with a hammer and a brick to settle the score!"
"The most magical word in the world is your name."
"The scariest and most mind-crushing fact is that we've been misunderstanding each other and we think very differently."
"No matter how bad I've ever been to you, you have to know that I love you so much!" Come back to me as soon as possible! I'm not a qualified husband, but love can overcome all differences. ”
Letter after letter of love, expressing Burton's concern and thoughts for Taylor, as well as the sadness of losing Taylor, the heartfelt words are touching.
After losing Taylor, Burton often borrowed wine to dispel his sorrows, and once called Taylor to meet, he wanted to fight for another chance for himself to see if he could break the mirror and regain his life.
After the meeting, Burton's eyes broke Taylor's heart, and he looked at her like a child asking for help, and said affectionately, "You are so reluctant to come back to me?" Suddenly, Taylor wept into tears in Burton's arms.
Love is rekindled, and a year after their divorce, Taylor and Burton remarry in the southern African country of Botswana. Don't say anything, this is a crazy couple!
At the wedding, Taylor affectionately said: "Honey, I want to tell you, this is the last time, we are going to stay together, we never need to get married again - of course, I don't want a divorce." 」 ”
Reality proves once again: oaths are an unreliable thing.
Their second marriage lasted only 9 months and ended in an argument.
Love is too intense, and eventually exhausts both parties, this kind of love is like an expensive "luxury", which is difficult to load, and after fading, after madness and loss, it can only end in a complete breakup.
Unable to be together, Burton expressed his obsession with Taylor in the old way, a letter, and he wrote the last love letter in the last moments of his life.
"Although there are so many points and ups and downs, my love for you has never diminished." "Can you give me another chance to be with you?"
Taylor soon learned the bad news of Burton's death, and she picked up the last letter Burton had written with a trembling hand and burst into tears. To this day, the letter is still treasured by her in the cupboard at the head of the bed.
It is easy to fall in love with each other, and Taylor and Burton's 22 years of passionate and painful love have made them happy and painful, but their incomparably sincere love is indeed shocking.
From love to marriage, it is usually only the end of the story, not the end of life.
When two people in love are facing each other in the morning and evening, after staying together every day, it is the beginning of life, and whether they can resist the flow of water is really unknown.
Taylor and Burton fell in love with each other for filming Cleopatra, divorced in order to love each other, and married each other, but the ten-year marriage came to an end in a fierce quarrel.
A year after the divorce, love burned again, and the two remarried, divorcing again a year later.
Although Taylor later remarried someone else, he would still say with a longing thought: "My whole soul is in love with Burton." ”
Is it very strange, the heart is still in love with each other, but can not be together, regret, resentment, become the most time to consume the love.
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", Wang Xifeng and Jia Lian were once sweet and intimate, the strong Wang Xifeng was considerate and warm to Jia Lian, Jia Lian went out, and Wang Xifeng was full of concern for him. But later, Wang Xifeng's determination was fierce, and Jia Lian's indiscretion made the two become resentful couples.
In real life, Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng, talented and beautiful, are a match made in heaven, but the marriage between the two is full of sharp impacts, strong tit-for-tat confrontation, and when love fades, what is left is full of resentment.
Injury is an efficient interaction. Marriages that begin with happiness end up ugly and bad, leading to nothing more than —"the deepest wounds end up out of the hand you love the most." ”
When a lover finally becomes a family, don't slacken off, this is just the first step in the long march, always be alert, because the happiness in the hand is sometimes like the sand between the fingers, a little inattentive to lose a large handful, worse, those fine sand particles, you have the heart to pick up, but not necessarily pick up.
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