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The finale of "Goodbye Lover" has come, and I was too touched to see the last issue. I watched the show before and scolded Wang Qiuyu and Wei Wei and Zhang He very badly, especially Wang Qiuyu, but in the end I was all relieved. Who among us can guarantee that we are perfect? None of them are so perfect, as long as the nature is not bad, it is already OK. Many times in the process of getting along between two people, there will be some twists, but it is just that we love each other in the wrong way.
Man is always like this, he is in it and does not know his intentions, and he knows everything outside of him, how easy is it?
Changing others and changing oneself is a rare thing, and it is good to have growth and progress.
"Goodbye Lover" is definitely the ceiling of this year's emotional show, and I have too many feelings from the first issue to the last issue. When I wrote the article earlier, I said that Wang Qiuyu did not grow, but I saw that in the end he actually had his own growth curve, and Wang Qiuyu and Zhu Yaqiong came to this show worth it.
I also agree with Teacher Ni Ping's view: Wang Qiuyu is a very good person.
Wang Qiuyu is very good, Zhu Yaqiong is also very good, the two of them are separated not because of who is not good, but the way the two people love is wrong, there are too many rifts between each other, there is no way to recover it.
Happy that they are decently separated, happy that they are finally relieved.
Sometimes letting go is not because you don't love anymore, but because respecting you is also a way of loving you.
It is because I love you and respect your choices.
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Wang Qiuyu and Zhu Yaqiong's final choice, neither of them got out of the car.
Zhu Yaqiong is very clear about divorce, every choice she chooses during the 18-day trip is divorce, she has never wavered, she is ready to divorce and say goodbye to the past nineteen years. But she expects Wang Qiuyu to get off the car, because Wang Qiuyu got off the car means that he loves her more, Zhu Yaqiong is a little woman's temperament, hoping that when they are separated, men can chase after themselves and cry and shout," Wife, you don't want to go, stay is not good."
But fantasy is always a fantasy, Wang Qiuyu is a mature man, obviously will not do such a thing, will not affectionately plead with her: you don't go, you stay is good or not.
Wang Qiuyu said that the fundamental reason why he did not get out of the car was that he knew Zhu Yaqiong's choice to divorce, and since this was the case, he did not need to stalk and fight anymore. It's just to make yourself humble, embarrassed, and embarrassed, and don't do that kind of "useless work."
Zhu Yaqiong has already made it very clear to him: "The reason why I want to divorce is because I feel that I have not gotten better with him, I am becoming less and less like myself, and when I go out with him, I dare not even talk." 」 When Zhu Yaqiong said this, Wang Qiuyu was very surprised, how could he give her such a feeling?
In the past, Wang Qiuyu was very confident, and he loved Zhu Yaqiong in a way that he thought was very good, but this way was not timely for Zhu Yaqiong, and even a kind of torture. We all think we love our loved ones in the right way, but we may be really wrong.
Wang Qiuyu did not get out of the car, not because he did not love, but learned to respect, sometimes choosing to let go is a kind of relief, but also a way to love people. Wang Qiuyu respected Zhu Yaqiong's choice, Zhu Yaqiong wanted to leave him and wanted to be independent, he simply respected her choice like an "old father".
In their past relationship, Wang Qiuyu had no respect for Zhu Yaqiong, and he rarely listened to her voice and understood what she really thought. But after these 18 days of travel, Wang Qiuyu is also reflecting on himself, whether his previous way is really wrong, which will make Zhu Yaqiong so painful. The night before he had to make a choice on the farewell night, Wang Qiuyu had not slept all night, and he had been thinking about the problems between him and Zhu Yaqiong.
One night, Wang Qiuyu would stand up, sit down, and drink wine, without saying a word.
He was ready to let go after that night.
Although Wang Qiuyu is not a romantic person, he is definitely a useful person and can be relied on, but it is a pity that Zhu Yaqiong is a person who needs love, not so cold, Zhu Yaqiong needs a marriage with temperature, and the person she needs is Zhang He's kind or kk's kind, which can accompany her. Everyone's emotional needs are different, and we always know what is really suitable for us after trial and error.
Zhu Yaqiong was mainly too well protected by Wang Qiuyu before, but the love that Wang Qiuyu gave her was not the love she wanted, so she wanted to escape and wanted to prove to Wang Qiuyu: You see I can live a good life away from you.
Both people need to grow up, their relationship has nothing to say, it is the best arrangement for each other.
I hope that Zhu Yaqiong can find someone to fall in love again, and I also hope that Zhu Yaqiong can be more independent, and she still needs to find a way to reconcile with herself on the road of growth.
As for Wang Qiuyu, since he was born to be such a person and could not keep his wife, he should simply be alone.
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And the last hug of the two of them, Zhu Yaqiong said, "In fact, I am looking forward to your getting off the bus, if you get off the car I will give you a hug", Wang Qiuyu immediately came to hug her, I believe that at that moment Zhu Yaqiong experienced the warmth of Lao Wang, but their love has no way back.
You'll be the child, but we're not husband and wife.
After Wang Qiuyu said this sentence, to tell the truth, I sincerely hope that Zhu Yaqiong can be really independent this time, don't look for Lao Wang to help in everything, there is no need, since you are divorced, people have no obligation to you, many things in life have to be zhang luo, independent, a person really to experience the various difficulties of life. If Zhu Yaqiong still looks for an ex-husband for everything after the divorce, then the marriage will be meaningless.
Wang Qiuyu already respected Zhu Yaqiong, and also hoped that the next Zhu Yaqiong could respect her choice.
There are many ways to live, and whether you grow or not depends on how you go.
Bless Zhu Yaqiong, and also bless Wang Qiuyu.
Finally, in fact, Lao Wang is ok, as long as he can reflect, not so arrogant.
Today's topic: Do you feel sorry for Wang Qiuyu and Zhu Yaqiong's separation? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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★ Author: Yibao; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.