The picture of this article comes from the film "When a Man Is in Love"
I finally understood that in this world, only spiritual love is the most pleasurable.
The first is freedom. Spiritual love can go it alone, go its own way, do as it pleases, completely and completely, free from any material factors. As long as you get stuck in matter, you get stuck in reality, you get stuck in your body, and you don't have that freedom again. Whether it is the obligation to cohabit, or the need for beautiful flesh, it restricts the freedom of love and makes it impossible to achieve.
The second is perfection. Spiritual love can be infinitely pure, infinitely passionate, infinitely perfect, and it is the ultimate you can think of and do. As long as you are stained with matter, reality, and body, you cannot have such perfection. There will always be trivial troubles and dissatisfaction in real relationships, eating and drinking Lasa, birth, old age, illness and death, gold without feet, and no one is perfect. As long as it is a real person, as long as it is in reality, it cannot escape.
Again it's enduring. Spiritual love can last forever, like an active volcano, always boiling and blazing. Concrete love of reality always does not last long, from passion to tenderness, from fire to water, from extraordinary to normal. But spiritual love does not have to go through this transformation, as long as one is willing, it can be maintained for a lifetime.
To sum up, spiritual love is actually the most precious, but also a strange flower of dull life. In case you can come across such a beauty, don't miss it. It's a wealth that can be enjoyed for a lifetime, and it's a very rare piece of luck.