19 years ago, in a show, his brother Zhang Guorong once said to Mao Shunjun, "If you were willing to marry me that year, maybe you would have changed my life!" ”
Mao Shunjun is Zhang Guorong's girlfriend who sent roses for the first time, and the only woman he wants to marry and formally propose.
Going around, the two did not form a partner, but they were friends who never abandoned each other for a lifetime.
Whenever someone asked about Mao Shunjun's past with her brother Zhang Guorong, she responded calmly: "Thinking of him now, it is a happy memory, and there is no crying and crying." ”
In the blink of an eye, his brother Zhang Guorong has left for the 17th anniversary, and what happened to the girl he once liked, Mao Shunjun?
Born in Hong Kong in 1959, Mao Shunjun's parents worked in television stations, and because of this, Mao Shunjun came into contact with the shining stars at a very young age and fell in love with the flickering spotlight.
The Mao family has a daughter who has just grown up and is raised in the deep boudoir to be recognized, because Mao Shunjun looks sweet, and began to debut as a photography model in his father's company at the age of 16, hosting variety shows.
At that time, she was innocent and unrestrained, giving people the feeling of a big sister of sunshine, very comfortable and very kind and warm. At that time, Zhang Guorong had just made his debut, and he was arranged to host a music program with Mao Shunjun. Mao Shunjun's innocence made Zhang Guorong fall in love at first sight.
How beautiful was Mao Shunjun at that time?
In the 1977 Hong Kong version of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Mao Shunjun played the delicate and beautiful Lin Daiyu. At that time, this image was once praised by Hong Kong people as "the most beautiful Lin Daiyu".
Director Zhang Jianting described Mao Shunjun as "moody and sad on his face, without any fear." She squinted, grinned, laughed wildly, pouted her lips, furrowed her brows, and sharpened her eyes, really purple and red, interlocking. ”
In addition to partnering in the show, the two also starred in the movie together, playing couples in the movie, and the director let them go shopping to cultivate feelings.
Mao Shunjun remembered that no matter where he went, Zhang Guorong always held her. Thinking back on the process of being together, like a pestering child, "I think he is a cute little boy who hurts me so much."
In order to pursue this beautiful beauty, Zhang Guorong did spend a lot of thought, sent the first bouquet of roses in his life, and even in order to defeat other suitors, he took the initiative and took down Mao Shunjun's parents - there was nothing to do and ran to chat with Mao Shunjun's parents, every time he went with a variety of gifts, there was no star shelf, and he was very polite.
In this way, the parents who opposed Mao Shunjun's early love actually recognized Zhang Guorong, the son-in-law. Mao Shunjun also complied with his family's opinions and fell in love with Zhang Guorong happily.
Not long after the relationship, Zhang Guorong proposed to Mao Shunjun, but Mao Shunjun, who was young and still young at the time, was not ready to get married, and the romantic proposal scared her away, mao Shunjun not only rejected Zhang Guorong's marriage proposal, but also proposed to break up.
People often say that breaking up meets character; as long as it is two people who have truly loved, let alone who owes you; thank you for loving you with his heart, it is the best ending. The breakup should be decent, and no one should say sorry.
For Mao Shunjun and Zhang Guorong, they did break up decently; the two became best friends from lovers.
Mao Shunjun married at the age of 21, married to Wen Shuyang, a wealthy French overseas Chinese businessman, and after marriage, she disappeared for three years and returned to the family, but unexpectedly, this relationship did not grow old, and only lasted for 3 years.
In October 1988, Mao Shunjun married the choreographer Jiang Jiajun again, but unfortunately, this second marriage did not last long, and the two divorced due to personality incompatibility.
The two unhappy marriages hit Mao Shunjun hard and made her lose confidence in herself. At this time, Zhang Guorong took the initiative to contact her, often looking for her to drink coffee and play mahjong. Two people who are no longer lovers have become friends who talk about everything, answering each other's questions.
It is said that when they played mahjong, they liked to sing, and when the mood came, they would sing loudly, and sometimes even opera could be sung.
Others say that only they can tolerate each other's "stinky problems".
In 1992, Huang Baiming planned to shoot "Family Happy Event", when the original arrangement for Zhou Xingchi to play the role of Zhang Guorong, who knew that Zhou Xingchi asked to play the second eldest and wanted to partner with Maggie Cheung; so he completed the re-play on the screen after Zhang Guorong and Mao Shunjun many years later, and they did not become husband and wife in reality, and they got married once in the movie.
The scene in the movie where Mao Shunjun and Zhang Guorong play mahjong together is also added by the two of them based on their own personal experience.
In 2001, Mao Shunjun hosted the variety show "Entertainment Hot Selling 10:30", and specially invited Zhang Guorong to be the first guest. The two recalled the terrier of the marriage proposal that year, laughing, Zhang Guorong could not help but say, "If you were willing to marry me that year, maybe you have changed my life."
Although Mao Shunjun did not answer, the answer was clear: they were relatives for a lifetime!
In 1990, Zhang Guorong said in an interview: "I once thought about getting married before the age of thirty-five, having children, and organizing a family, but now there are some changes.
Whenever I am asked, which woman have I loved in this life? His eyes were full of regret and sorrow: "Once upon a time, there was a Mao Shunjun. ”
Later, they also became each other's matchmakers.
That year, after Zhang Guorong co-produced "Family Affairs" with her, Zhang Guorong introduced Ding Ping, an art director who was 14 years older than her, to Mao Shunjun, and the two flashed marriage shortly after the relationship.
At the wedding, Zhang Guorong took Tang Sheng to attend together; on the stage was a couple smiling and smiling, and offstage was also a pair of confidants who knew each other; they all found the person who belonged to each other.
After marriage, they were very happy, and Zhang Guorong said satisfactorily: "Ou Dingping is very good, and I am very happy to find such a belonging for you." ”
Shortly after the marriage, Mao Shunjun gave birth to two daughters. Happy family life, so that the stubborn Personality Mao Shunjun gradually transformed into a family-oriented good woman, she regarded her husband as the "head of the family" in her faith.
Many people do not understand why Mao Shunjun rejected Zhang Guorong in the first place.
Years later, she replied frankly: "He is too good, I am afraid to extinguish his artistic spark." ”
If she had promised him, her brother Zhang Guorong might have had more of the fireworks of the world, no longer the melancholy Prince Charming and the emperor superstar.
It can only be lamented that life has never been regretted if the original four words were made, and in 2003," "April Fool's Day", Zhang Guorong left forever.
Zhang Guorong's death was a big blow to her. Mao Shunjun said in an interview: "I don't think about it on weekdays, Ah Zai has actually left us. In the back of my heart, I feel that he will always be my old friend, he has not gone far, as if he lives among us, and he can miss him at any time. ”
Now, 17 years later, is my brother in heaven okay? Together with Mao Shunjun, we miss him very much.