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Some people say that with a brilliant life, this life can be considered perfect.
After so much sweat and hard work, isn't it just to welcome this special day?
After being crowned by the aura of success and reaching the peak, everything around you is beautiful.
No matter what, we must find a way to get the favor of The Goddess of Luck and let her push herself to a higher position.
As a result, it has triggered countless people's enthusiasm for "success".
Some people say that compared to "smooth sailing", setbacks are so unbearable, it will make a person who was originally in good spirits become lonely, and no longer have the courage to continue to fight against difficulties.
Moreover, the more experiences of failure, the easier it is to consume people's willpower.
Therefore, in life, we must try to avoid setbacks, do not present our incompetence to outsiders, and keep our best state at all times.
"Setback" seems to be a deeply repugnant word, because in the face of setbacks, the originally smooth road is instantly full of thorns.
If you want to continue to move forward, you need to risk being pierced by thorns, and the cowardly feel that the future is dangerous, and will voluntarily give up the goal of continuing to run forward.
The brave people are not afraid of the difficulties of the road, and are good at absorbing experience and lessons from setbacks to lay the foundation for the next impact.
Therefore, the setback is not as terrible as people think, it is not a flood beast.
Learning from a frustrating experience allows you to find ways to avoid the dangers you have encountered, and at the same time teaches you how to do things to achieve more complete results.
For strong-willed people, setbacks not only do not destroy the way forward, but also help them grow, setbacks are also a valuable asset.
Failed graduate school, job search was rejected, lovers broke up... A series of troubles, as if agreed before, broke out almost at the same time, and Wu Ming suddenly became an abandoned person by the whole world.
What is even more tragic is that even his parents do not understand themselves, saying that the reason why he will encounter these problems is inevitable, and his father also scolded him for not being able to do anything, and a big man can't even solve such a little thing, really incompetent to the extreme.
All kinds of unhappiness makes Wu Ming very irritable, in order to relieve the irritable emotions, he wants to find his former friends to complain, and the friend in the conversation tells him that it is because of his shortcomings that these troubles have broken out, but unfortunately, Wu Ming did not know himself before.
In a trance, Wu Ming seemed to understand something, and then he began to re-examine himself, and it turned out that there were really many intolerable problems in his body.
Setbacks are not accidental, and when contradictions have been accumulated for a long time, it is not known which day they will erupt. People who are not calm enough will be disturbed by the dilemma in front of them, and they do not know what to do for a while.
And the thoughtful person can see the essence of frustration:
In fact, the bad results are all caused by themselves, and only by re-understanding themselves and correcting their shortcomings can we obtain a complete ending.
After the work plan was rejected for 5 consecutive times, Xiao Yang finally had some tired feelings in her heart, and the consideration of this plan took her about 2 months before and after.
The specific content of the plan was written after a field trip and a long time of thought, originally thought that she could get the praise of the leader, but what she did not expect was that the boss was not satisfied at all, and the changes before and after 5 times did not pass.
Is it necessary to give up like this?
During the two months of design time, in order to run the construction site, a young girl was dried and dried, and she stayed up for several days in order to catch up with the plan.
If you give up completely, your hard work will be in vain.
So she decided to grit her teeth and continue to insist: during the field trip, she learned more about the details of production, consulted more experienced seniors when designing the plan, and finally after 6 revisions, her plan was approved.
For the strong, setbacks not only do not frustrate her courage, but also inspire their determination to rush out of the predicament, and in their hearts they are not willing to accept failure, not willing to be a poor loser, so they will use setbacks as a pedal, jumping from the pedal to the other side of success.
Frustration is not a green-faced and fanged evil ghost, learn to make good use of it, and finally you will find that it happens to be it that makes you grow faster than your peers.
In these more than 30,000 days, it is impossible for everyone to go according to your wishes, and it is impossible for everyone to do things according to your instructions, so setbacks are inevitable.
You must always know that when setbacks come to you, it is not to destroy you, but to test whether you have the determination and courage to face difficulties, and when you go all out to fight the battlefield against difficulties, you have learned to grow.
The process of growing up is never smooth, it will be accompanied by pain, trouble, frustration.
Sometimes these "dramas" are staged in turn, which will make people feel pain, but after the pain, have you thought of a solution, and do you want to deal with it with a positive attitude?
When you can do this, even if you can't overcome the difficulties, you get the opportunity to go through the experience, and this hard-won opportunity will prompt you to thrive.