Love is parted, resentment is long, can not be sought, can not let go, the four major pains of life, love is the most torturous emotion. Mu Xin said: "When you meet the lovers of the past, the scenery of the road has changed. "Longing is you, and fear is you, glad is you, regret is not you, throughout his life, it is difficult to let go." 」
The end of the relationship is not necessarily the end of the emotion, maybe the beginning is another way of life, and what has not changed is the old person hidden in the heart.
It will blur the appearance of a person, it will forget a person's voice, but in the bustling crowd, you can always recognize the other party at the first glance, be sure that it is him, it must be him, and it is clear that it is him.
When the feelings enter the bone, and then want to put it down, it is the process of peeling, cramping, and breaking the bone. So when a woman can't put it down, can't put it down, can't put it down completely, what will be the performance?
Women have these performances, then she must not have put you down, the explanation is a cover-up!
1, I would like to know your recent situation.
When you are busy, you don't have time to think, but people always have a time to be idle, as long as they are idle, there are often those inexplicable impulses, want to understand the latest situation of the other party, and want to know whether the other party is doing well. In fact, I know very well in my heart that it has nothing to do with me, but I still want to know.
Secretly browse each other's various social software to see each other's dynamics, but at the same time do not want to leave any traces, do not want to let the other party know that they are still paying attention to him.
When a friend mentions him, he will care a lot in his heart, but on the surface he will pretend to be indifferent and have already put it down.
In addition, he will pretend to be indifferent and light, and go from a friend to inquire about the latest situation of the other party, be slightly questioned, and immediately explain.
But it is just to cover your ears and steal the bell, because I know very well in my heart, that is, I will be inexplicably worried, even if I can't help anything, I don't have the identity to help, just look at it from a distance.
2. Frequent touching of the scene.
Relationships can end, emotions can disappear, but memories are deeply engraved in the mind, saying the fiercest and most desperate words, but doing the softest and most affectionate things. Last second, he gritted his teeth and said that he wanted to delete all the past of the two people, but when he saw the prompt of "delete", he was reluctant to do so.
Maybe there are always a few photos hidden by yourself in the phone, and when you are fine, you have to take them out to see, and then you have a cochling pain in your heart.
The fact that they had not yet accepted the separation, everything was like a dream, and deep down they fantasized that he would come back and that the two of them would be able to go on well.
At the same time, there will be each other's items, so many times, either to the photo, or to the object, will be alone in a daze, the heart is also unspeakably sour, remembering the various experiences of two people together.
Later, when I went to the place where the two people had been before, I was overwhelmed by those familiar scenes and could not help myself.
3) Also want to know how you feel about her.
Although the two people have been separated, they still inexplicably try to test each other's emotions, wondering what kind of feelings they have now after so much time, whether they are still the same as before, or whether they are the same as themselves, and they have not yet let go, and the emotions of joy and sorrow have arisen from it.
If you learn in the temptation that she has not yet let go of you, and you have already let go of her, you will immediately feel the heart-wrenching colic.
Of course, the way of temptation is certainly euphemistic, and even with an attitude that is completely opposite to one's own emotions.
You may be able to restrain your actions, but the thoughts are always uncontrollable, and when you know that you still occupy a very important place in the other person's heart, you get a wonderful joy.
4, there is no identity will also be jealous.
The possessiveness of people in their emotions does not disappear with the end of the relationship, it is completely determined by inner emotions, even if they have been separated. In addition, even if it is clear that two people have been separated, no matter who they are in contact with or who they are with, this is the right of the other party.
However, the heart will be inexplicably uncomfortable, unhappy, and even feel extremely depressed, and then on days when there is no intersection, those emotions will be transformed into resentment.
Especially when you know that the other party has a new relationship, you may still scold the other party's scumbag in your heart, so quickly put yourself down, what is the feeling between the two people for so long?
Jealousy is also to be identified, to be qualified, and jealousy without identity and qualification is the most sour taste in the world.
5, with your dynamic associations with yourself.
The dynamics published inadvertently may be self-made and sentimental, but more or less will speculate about the meaning of your dynamics, whether it is related to yourself, whether it is hinting at yourself. And her emotions will float because of your dynamics, even if they are randomly posted.
He said that if you miss someone, you will feel that he is missing himself, he said that the current days are difficult, you will feel that he alludes to the fact that the days without you are difficult.
So occasionally because of the dynamics of the other party, I can't help but send a message, but in this matter, I will deliberately show my own high posture, obviously I can't put it down, and I am afraid that the other party knows that I can't put it down, and continue to be another form of anger.
If after separation, women have these performances, it means that she still has not come out of that relationship, and it is a manifestation that she cannot let go of a man.
Zhang Xiaoxian said:
"Is there any way to forget another person?" Only with time and distance. If time and distance also can not make one person forget another person. Then he had to admit that the man was already deeply in his memory. ”
I have used many methods, and I have to admit that I have to admit that I am deeply remembered.
After all, the real letting go does not need to work hard, the more you try to force yourself to put down, the deeper the memory, the clearer the picture. Only when you are really relieved, relieved, and figured out, you will slowly look down on it.
In any case, since separation has become a fact, people must move forward with the days, and when it is time to make a break, convince themselves to make a break, the past is very beautiful, as long as you can let the past pass.
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