Is IQ emotional intelligence innate, or is it acquired?
I think it's innate.
Some people, no matter how they learn the day after tomorrow, emotional intelligence is still the same. So, don't worry about too many people in your life. Because they are like this, why do you have to say the words of the four seasons to the people of the three seasons?
For some people in life, some things, do not compete. Maybe it's not because others are tolerant people, but because the other person is a person with a high emotional intelligence quotient, and they don't waste their precious time and energy for people and things that are not worth it.
As the old saying goes: "Three years old looks big, seven years old looks old." This sentence is not false at all.
Sensible people know things at a very young age; people with high emotional intelligence are like this from an early age.
Fate sometimes must have it, fate must not be forced at any time, I am born to be useful, flowers bloom and fall sometimes, seven points are destined, and three points rely on hard work.
Instead of asking yourself to be a person with a high IQ and emotional intelligence, it is better to do what you can.
There are three things in the world, God's business, your business, and my business. Everyone only needs to do what they can do, and the rest is left to Heaven.
Heaven will give everyone the opportunity to realize the ideal in their hearts. Before that, he will give you life, arrange some people and things, set up a series of levels, to test you, in fact, he is helping you, to the door of the ideal. And what you need to do is to precipitate yourself, train yourself in difficulties, and move forward.
I believe that God has its own arrangements, and everything is the best arrangement.