Recently, an article titled "Xi Zhongxun's Family Style" has touched countless netizens, loyal to the people, low-key and humble, sincere and frank, benevolent and reverential, etc., short proverbs, but contain infinite power, educate people's hearts, and urge people to forge ahead. As the essence of family culture, good family style plays an irreplaceable role in enlightening children's minds, shaping personalities, and cultivating culture and civilization for society.
A good home style is a deep soil for cultivating children's excellent qualities. As the crystallization of family values, family style is the bridge link between family members and family culture inheritance, and in the evolution of family replacement, family style is gradually externalized into a variety of carriers such as moral character, family rules and family training, spiritual outlook, pattern aesthetics and so on. And the inheritance of good family style, parents play a special role, the ancient saying has clouds, not to teach, the fault of the father. As the child's first teacher, the words and deeds of parents can make children hear and see from an early age, such as entering the room of Zhilan and not smelling its fragrance for a long time. Cai Kailin's family, who were rated as "the most beautiful family in the country's fight against the epidemic", because they witnessed their parents' fierce struggle and hard work, their son Cai Wentai finally resolutely chose the medical major when filling in the college entrance examination, and the family of three became alumni of Huazhong University of Science and Technology, and they wrote a vivid footnote with their actions to cultivate their children's character of worshiping beauty and benevolence and helping the people.
A good family style is a solid foundation for continuing the excellent culture of the family. Loyalty has been passed down from family to family for a long time, and poetry and books have been passed down for a long time. As an important part of family culture, the family style has been passed down from generation to generation, and has highlighted its strong vitality in the inheritance of the world. Behind the touching stories and the persistent words passed down from generation to generation are the epitome of a family in terms of education, personality, and treatment of the world, which is the only magic weapon for the continuous continuation of family culture. As the head of the four famous ministers of the late Qing Dynasty, Zeng Guofan was not only politically spirited, but also unique in shaping family style. He demanded that future generations be diligent and thrifty, low-key and humble, good neighborly and friendly, well-read and reasonable, strive to become learned, and leave behind a spiritual wealth full of poetry and books far better than material property such as good fields and beautiful houses. Influenced by his thoughts, the descendants of the Zeng clan are still able to emerge. Today, when we read these words again, we will still find that they shimmer with the light of truth.
A good home style is the glue of social harmony and stability. The home is the smallest country, and the country is tens of millions. As the basic cell of society, the atmosphere of the family affects the atmosphere of society to a large extent. If every family can teach people to be good and beautiful, and family members respect the elderly and love the young, and interact harmoniously, the society will present a stable and peaceful, united and fraternal scene, and everyone can live happily in a beautiful environment. On the contrary, it may harm future generations and harm society. Especially in the context of social crises such as materialistic desires and moral decline, it is of far-reaching historical significance to attach importance to family style education, educate children to act steadily and far, cultivate morality, be kind to the elderly, and behave in a civilized manner.
The formation of a good family style is not overnight, and the creation of a healthy social atmosphere must not rely on one household, everyone is a participant, a builder, and a sharer. Attach importance to family education, cultivate good family style, let the excellent family cultural genealogy immerse in people's hearts, and become the spiritual pursuit and value guidance of everyone's reverence for goodness and beauty, so as to condense the great power of the times of national rejuvenation and compose a magnificent triumph of the times.
Source: Jingchu Network
Author:Song Zhengdian (Yichang Xingshan)