Tell the story of the Eastern District Party member himself| the "Family Education Classic" of an old party member

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Li Zhenyu, who is nearly half a hundred years old, is currently a retired worker, he has two sons, the eldest son has graduated from college, and the younger son is in college. She is a single mother who has lived alone with two sons for more than a decade. For more than ten years, she has borne the dual pressure of material and spiritual alone, raised her two sons to grow up, and consistently taught the children to love family, love the country, love the party, and establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life, and values. Therefore, her two children are fully prepared to meet the upcoming challenges with confidence on the road of life that has just begun.

Looking back on the children's growth process, Li Zhenyu, as a mother, said that her mood could not be calm. At that time, looking at the children who grew up day by day, she was also confused, how to make children useful to the family and society? How to overcome the disadvantages of single-parent families to children's growth? How to guide children to the right life track in a complex environment? This series of problems plagued the young single mother. To this end, she began to read books on education, asked education experts for advice, asked successful parents for advice, and combined theory and practice, and embarked on an effective educational path, and received good results. She often says that she is not a successful mother, she has not been able to do the best in her child's education, it is her regret in this life, her education has many flaws, she will summarize these experiences and shortcomings, share them with the people around them, so that they can take as few detours as possible in the process of family education.

Li Zhenyu realized at that time that the impact of a family without father's love on children is huge, so she started from the school and tried to let the children enter the class with gay men as class teachers. In the child's school life, she always keeps in touch with the teacher, often communicates and communicates with the teacher, understands the child's school situation, and makes the child's school education and family education synchronized, and has received good results.

From a young age, she asked children to establish the spirit of men who dare to take responsibility, dare to take responsibility, do not rely on people, do not shirk responsibility, whether it is family responsibility or social responsibility. This concept later permeated children's lives, establishing a self-reliant outlook on life for them.

The love of the son is common to everyone, and sometimes things that harm the child because of love abound. Li Zhenyu is no exception. In daily life, she always tries to do a good job in her children's lives so that children can grow up healthily. However, problems arise, children begin to be picky eaters, and even material requirements begin to rise. Li Zhenyu looked anxious in her eyes, she thought about it again and again, and made a decision that many people did not approve of: that is, to let the children go out of the house and live in a distant school, on the one hand, let them experience collective life, establish a collective concept, and exercise the ability to stand on their own; on the other hand, let them change the problem of picky eating; on the third hand, let them enhance their interest in learning in a good learning environment. Later, in practice, Li Zhenyu's decision was right.

In family education, Li Zhenyu has always influenced the children with personal behavior, teaching by example while speaking, he has no bad habits, in addition to taking care of housework, amateur life is to read books and study, and sometimes participate in some healthy and beneficial outdoor activities, correctly guide children to play ball, walk, sing, dance, paint, etc., and also received good results.

Now that her children are basically grown up, there are some problems with them, but the general direction is right. As a mother, Li Zhenyu is willing to share her family education experience with every parent in the society, which is a kind of love for the society and the people around her!

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