Wen | Gongziyi
Qian Plus One, pregnant, decided to be a single mom.
When I saw this, I suddenly didn't want to start panicking as usual, began to want to fight, began to want to say, the so-called "children don't want to be born without a father."
When I see Qian Plus One, I think of Reiza, the woman who bravely became a single mother, so hard, so optimistic, so brilliantly alive.
When a woman completely solves her financial problems, when she chooses a child and can be responsible for this child, then her choice should be respected.
The four girls in "Good Life", the most touching thing to me is that they are all completely independent, and each of them has a different enchanting posture, shining their lives.
Qian Jiayi is the kind of woman who is elite in the workplace.
I have to say that such a woman despite the cold and icy face. However, talent and appearance are also very sought-after. Both her boss and her college alumni have a soft spot for her.
But such a woman who wants to have a face and money, but she does not want to get married, let alone have children, she only wants to focus on her career.
It's not that she hasn't tried marriage. When she married Lin Yueda, when Lin Yueda's relatives moved into her house, when those trivialities of life suddenly pounced on Qian Jiayi, she suddenly woke up.
She saw her heart clearly, and she also completely understood that that kind of "ordinary and accommodating" life was not what she wanted at all.
If it is other women, they are hesitant about the dissolution of marriage, because it is difficult for these women to be completely independent financially and psychologically.
However, Qian Jiayi, a psychologically powerful woman like Andy in "Ode to Joy", when she wants a child, her first consideration is not the economy, but her own will.
Women have the right to choose their own life, provided you have to have that ability. Exactly, money plus one, has that ability.
And this has to be grateful for all the efforts and rushes of Qian Jiayi before having a child. For so many years, men may fail her, but her job, the money she earns, will never fail her.
So, women try to make money. Because working hard to make money will give you more choices about your life.
If Qian Plus One is cold, then Sophie is hot.
When Sophie was a student, she was black and ugly, and because of the black and ugly, she was extremely inferior. Later, she began to grow up, began to dare to show herself, and became a beautiful and intellectual emotional blogger.
She had been kidnapped, deceived, and even abandoned, but no matter what lay ahead of her, she had firmly maintained her optimism and kindness. When she was slapped by the housewife, she chose to fight back, but after she fought back, she returned the money to the other party because of sympathy, and also taught the other party how to love herself and how to be a delicate woman.
Ying Cai'er once said that kindness is a choice.
When she was beaten, Sophie still chose to be kind to the "housewife". Because, the same woman, why should a woman be embarrassed by a woman?
One of the things that hit Sophie the most was that she was cheated on by her first love. However, even if it was such a big trauma, she chose to fight back, and after fighting back, she chose: she had to work hard to make money and love herself at any time and place.
This kind of woman, there are men will shine brightly, no man will still, do not live up to themselves. Because, she always carries it clearly: making money and herself is more important than men.
Lu Man, the only heir of the Lu family.
She is the big miss of a rich family, with the "petite" of a big miss. She wears all brand names and never wronged herself in money. However, like Qu Xiaoxiu, although she is a big miss of a rich family, she does not mind at all, starting from the bottom and fighting for her career.
When she arrived at the new company, she was also harassed, suppressed, and even taken advantage of by her superiors, but she did not take out the "petite" of the big miss, but took out the "gentle wisdom" of the big miss.
Her "petite" was only aimed at Lin Qing. Even if the spicy and hot soup accidentally splashed a few drops on her hand, Lin Qing was distressed.
I understand very well that Lu Man fell in love with Lin Qing, because Lin Qing's steadfastness and meticulousness are beyond the reach of many rich second generations like Lu Man.
For Lu Man, when she or her father has enough ability to make money, then what she values most will be "her own heart".
Of course, the most important thing is that she has her own earning power, and when she does not have her own ability to make money, then she will not be able to carry her own family, then her choice will be limited.
You see, a lot of times, a woman can make money, can solve most of her problems, and she will have some way out even if she has no way forward.
Wu You didn't have the softness of a girl on her body, even if she was with the "Great Demon King" Hexia, she was also a very tough one.
Wu You's biao is especially reflected in his work. In order to eliminate a bad review, dare to face Hosia and bargain with Hosia. And in order to find out the truth, she herself dared to go deep into the tiger's den.
She once missed a marriage because of her job, because of a car accident. But when she recovered, she was still fully engaged in her work. What is even more gratifying is that the work has not failed her.
Her efforts have been rewarded in her work. People like Wu You, in this life, will not become the so-called housewife, not because of qian Jiayi's coldness, but because of Wu You's unique Biao.
Most of the women who are tough in their bones will be like Zhang Shi in "Know It or Not", even if they are let down, they have the courage to break out of the world alone.
In ancient times, most women relied on their mother's family, because they could not go out to earn money, but could only teach their husbands and children at home. And now women, when they can "equal pay" with men, when they have enough ability to make money, they will no longer look at men's faces, they will emerge from their bones.
With you, I am happy. Without you, I would still be "enchanted" and born.
"Good Life" is a light comedy.
When I was chasing the drama, I always thought, why does it become a light comedy? Not because it's something realistic missing, but because all four heroines are too independent financially.
Among the four of them, there is no Qiu Yingying who relies on her parents for help, there is no misty who only wants to rely on men as housewives, they are working hard through their own efforts, working hard, and trying to make money, so that they can have more rights to choose their lives.
Almost all four of them love themselves the most, and the four of them believe more in their ability to make money than men. Because of this, even if they are hurt, they will not have no way out.
I often wonder, what is the most healing thing for a woman's heart?
When you are young, you will say that it is love. Until now, after marriage, I suddenly found that it is the "ability" to love myself. In the ability to love yourself, "being able to make money" is a very important part.
Making money can best heal a woman's heart. Because, you can make money, at least to ensure that you have no worries about food and clothing, so that you can say "no" and "yes" confidence.
I hope that women's lives are all a light comedy, first self-reliant and self-loving, and then with a confident attitude, to choose the life they want.