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A rational word healer, I hope you can find a little comfort in my words for life.

How long have you not looked up at the stars and the moon overhead?
Suddenly, when I saw such a question, I was asked for a while, because since I became an adult, I rarely looked up at the stars, and this suddenly reminded people of when I was a child, sitting on the edge of the field, looking at the stars looming in the sky, and looking out of God.
And now, busy has slowly become synonymous with our lives, working nine to five every day, busy earning money every day, busy with life, almost forgetting that when night comes, there is a starry sky overhead.
The feelings in people's hearts often appear suddenly, as if the more a person's age goes backwards, the more he understands the truth and sophistication, but he will always have a childhood feeling in our hearts, which will linger for a long time, and may even not be lost for a lifetime.
As someone said: "Lucky people are healed by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are healing their childhood all their lives.".
Slowly, I really began to understand this sentence, because those experiences when a person is a child will always appear when we need it, or when we see a certain scene in life, either to make us feel happy and happy, or to make us feel pain and sadness.
In life, there will always be many scenes, so that we can't help but think of our former selves, remember the experience of childhood, perhaps see a child playing, or accidentally hear a sentence, will probably arouse the nostalgia in our hearts.
Why? These are often inseparable from these reasons.
There is a saying: "The older you grow, the lonelier you become". Sometimes when I think about it, it is true, because when we reach a certain age, we do not have so much desire for friends and social networking, and in many times, we will not deliberately integrate into a circle.
In the past, the opportunity to meet or chat with the deceased also became less and less, and slowly, a sense of loneliness continued to breed in our hearts.
When we were young, we never thought about it so much, and when we saw people of our own age playing over there, we would involuntarily move closer to them.
At that time, we may feel that others give themselves a candy, it will always be sweet, know a friend, will always be friends will not be separated, until later to know that no one will always be with us, their respective experiences will slowly become different, the views on life will change accordingly.
So whenever you are alone, it is easy to think of those friends in the past, and those happy times, how good it is, carefree, make mistakes and need to be reprimanded, and praise when you do a good job.
The desires of children are also easily satisfied, for them there will not be much need, maybe a dollar can make them feel very happy, even buy a pack of snacks, but also share with the people around them.
Now, the desire has become more, the desire has become more, the material desire to be satisfied has become more difficult, and the friends around me seem to have changed batch after batch, but they no longer have the feeling they had when they were together.
When a person is alone, there will always be a sense of loneliness, and at those times, we may be more likely to make ourselves work hard to enrich ourselves, not to think wildly, to adapt to being alone, and to adapt to loneliness, which is the process of growth.
I believe that when I was young, most people would have an idea that if I could choose, I would like to grow up quickly. The reason is that when you grow up, you can earn money and buy what you like yourself, without the constraints of your parents.
But when I really became an adult, I found that life was not as easy as I thought, more difficult, so some people would sigh and say: "When I was a child, I was really stupid, and I actually looked forward to growing up."
Indeed, when you grow up, you understand the hardships of life, you understand the hardships of adults, and you work hard every day.
When we were young, when we were wronged and sad, we would want our parents to complain and let them protect us, but now whether it is grievances or sadness, we need to slowly digest ourselves, and in a sense, we have become the dependence of our parents for the second half of our lives.
This may be why we miss our childhood.
In the same way, I believe that many people will also have some similar experiences, when they see their childhood playmates, hair hours, often chat with them about the latest situation, talk about home, and every time they talk about each other will talk about each other when they are still young, either you say I am stupid, or I think you are stupid, but our faces will always have the most sincere smile from the heart.
It is a laugh that has been missing for a long time, and you will understand that it is not easy to be with each other behind this laugh.
In terms of knowledge, there is a hot question: "What is life?" There is a highly praised answer at the bottom: "Be born, live."
This may be the original meaning of life, everyone may only accompany you through a journey of life, most of the road in life always needs to be walked alone, and in the end what kind of way of life, even we ourselves may not be particularly clear.
It was only after a few years of wandering in society that I gradually understood that when I was a child, the years were really the happiest time for me.
In the past, we had a relationship that felt very pure and simple, but now after experiencing a lot of things, many relationships have become more and more complicated, and we are more wary of each other, afraid that someone will be "suspicious".
It is precisely because of the existence of this feeling that we can't see through a relationship slowly, and we begin to miss the relationships like water when we were young.
Don't think too much, what is on your mind will be confided in the other party, what good things will be happy to tell each other for a while, but now you can no longer do this, because many words can no longer be said, nor can you say.
Therefore, when we see children playing in life, it is often easy to feel emotional, and we have also had such a friendship.
Perhaps, people have to experience this after all, if we want to grow, we must continue to change, continue to experience, until we can also be alone.
There are still friends around, but there are no more so many, more likely to be drifting away from each other, and eventually there may be three or two left, which will be the preciousness of our life.
Book Pick-up Message:
A person can look back, but can not go back, those beautiful experiences and the past will make us more powerful and courageous to go forward, life is also a trip with no return, a lot of scenery, many people are only suitable for the heart later.
Generation after generation of people are constantly growing up, and their lives are so long, and it is good to occasionally recall the innocence and beauty of their childhood.
As Feng Zikai said: "If you look at the world with the eyes of a child, you will find that all this is magical."
Therefore, I hope that we can all put the self we were when we were young in our hearts, take him to other places and distant places together, and live to be the most expected to be when we were young.
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