Zhang Lili is a staff member of the Xiajin County Finance Bureau. Not only does she do a great job, but she also has a warm and happy big family. In this big family, Zhang Lili paid silently, carefully took care of her in-laws like her own parents, and won the praise of her family, and her in-laws were even more satisfied and praised!
In March 2017, when Zhang Lili's mother-in-law went to the hospital for a physical examination, she found mid-stage esophageal cancer, and the news was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, which shook the family's originally peaceful and peaceful life, and her mother-in-law's spirit was also under great pressure. The whole family went around asking for medical treatment, and Zhang Lili inquired online about the best hospital in Beijing, the Cancer Hospital of the Chinese Academy of Medical Sciences, which had a good effect in treating esophageal cancer, so she and her family discussed going to the treatment.
She was afraid that her in-laws were worried about the problem of medical expenses, so she took the initiative to raise funds, arranged for her husband and two sisters to take her mother to Beijing for treatment, and told her mother-in-law when she left, "Mom, you relax your heart and actively cooperate with the doctor's treatment, you don't have to worry at home, I will take good care of my father." "Zhang Lili's father-in-law has leg pain problems with mobility problems, can not go downstairs, two months of time, the mother-in-law went to Beijing three times for hospitalization, Zhang Lili alone while taking care of the father-in-law's life, while taking care of the children to go to school, she is busy before and after, do not dare to slack off.
After returning home from treatment, the mother-in-law's weak body and low immunity are very low, and her body is seriously dragged down, and she is often hospitalized for colds or other diseases. Zhang Lili is busy with work during the day, and she rushes home after work, always with a bag of left hand and a bag of right hand, all of which are medicines, nutritional products bought for her mother-in-law and vegetables and fruits bought for her family and daily necessities. When I got home, I began to be busy, cooking for the family, and I had to go to the hospital to accompany my mother-in-law.
Mother-in-law takes four or five hours to infuse seven or eight bags of liquid every day, the irritability of being tormented by disease, lying on the back pain, she read to her mother-in-law the old cadre's home, a friend of health, encourages her mother-in-law to overcome the pain of the disease, and also gives her mother-in-law massage legs to rub her waist, trim her nails, and the hospitalized patients praise her filial piety. It is precisely because of her care and encouragement that the mother-in-law is relaxed physically and mentally, optimistic and active with the treatment, the mother-in-law's condition is stable, and her spirit is the same as before. Relatives, colleagues, neighbors saw all praised her mother-in-law's good treatment. But the mother-in-law always said: "It is better to say that my treatment is better than that my daughter-in-law is like a daughter-in-law." ”
The mother-in-law's condition has just improved, the father-in-law's leg pain has worsened, it is difficult to walk, the pain is unbearable, and the doctor diagnosed that knee replacement surgery is needed. Because the mother-in-law's illness treatment cost more than 300,000 yuan, a mention of the problem of money, the father-in-law wants to give up the treatment, she saw the father-in-law's pain is unbearable, the heart really can't see it, said to the father-in-law, resolutely can not give up the treatment, spend money on the matter of your old man's home do not have to worry about it, to spend money on the elderly to treat diseases This is our unshirkable responsibility as a child. So she began to borrow money from her relatives and friends, and the next day her husband and sister took the old man to Jinan Traditional Chinese Medicine Hospital for knee replacement surgery.
Her father-in-law's surgery stayed in Jinan for seven days, and these days she was at home to serve both her sick mother-in-law and her son who was in junior high school. Every day get up early to cook for the child, the child goes to school at six thirty after eating, then go to buy vegetables to wait for the mother-in-law to eat and take medicine, so every day, the children and mother-in-law's living arrangements are in order. After the father-in-law was discharged from the hospital, she was also full of care and careful care, knee replacement surgery took 12 days to remove the stitches, so after the father-in-law was discharged from the hospital, she was responsible for changing the medicine for the elderly every day, and when she removed the stitches, she knew that it was inconvenient for the father-in-law to go downstairs, so she invited the doctor to the home to remove the stitches for the father-in-law. He also often assisted his father-in-law to do rehabilitation training every day, and at the beginning he prepared a pair of crutches for his father-in-law, and slowly the father-in-law left the crutches, and prepared a small cart for the father-in-law to practice walking. At present, the father-in-law has basically recovered, life can take care of itself, the father-in-law showed a long-lost smile on his face, and the touched father-in-law said: "We are really blessed to have such a careful and filial daughter-in-law." ”
The mother is the best teacher of the child, Zhang Lili's filial piety to the in-laws' actions subtly affect the son, the son since childhood sensible and well-behaved, know how to filial piety to the elderly, children are always worried about the body of grandparents, the first time to visit grandparents on weekends. Help your grandparents work, chat with your grandparents, make them happy, and the family of three generations and five families is happy and happy.