It is often said that when pursuing a girl, you can't be too nice to her, otherwise the love will become very cheap.
Is this statement correct?
In fact, you can't say that it is completely wrong, nor can it be said that it is completely correct, if the way that is good for girls is correct, the effect can also amaze you.
Compared with boys, girls will value love more, and even, love can be all she has, so of course, girls hope that a boy can be very good to her.
However, in reality, most boys are wrong in their way of being good to girls, so it is difficult to enter the hearts of girls and feel tired of chasing girls.
Boys should remember that "good for girls" only pays attention to two words: attitude.
In fact, many boys are good to girls, that is, they force what they think is good to give to girls, thus ignoring that what girls want is "your attitude".
If you want to make a girl move for you, in the process of chasing girls, you must use the two words "attitude" to the extreme.
Perhaps, many boys do not have a very deep understanding of the two words "attitude", I will give you an example, I believe you will have a deeper understanding.
If, if the girl tells you that she has a cold, how will you respond to her at this time?
In the first way, the boy replied: Then you remember to take medicine and drink more hot water, so that you will get better quickly.
In the second way, the boy replied: It must be very uncomfortable, tomorrow first take leave, don't go to work first, it is more uncomfortable to go to work with illness.
Now, try to stand in the boy's point of view, to experience these two answers, to see if you can feel the difference?
Different ways of thinking, the behavior you show, the attitude that others feel will be different.
Let's analyze these two answers: for girls, "drink more hot water" is what most people will say to her, and "heartache she will be uncomfortable" only people who love her will say, you care about her feelings, you care about whether she is good or not, this is your attitude.
In fact, it is not that the way of "letting girls drink more hot water" is not good, nor can it be said that such a reply is not enough love, but the feeling brought to girls is not so good.
A lot of ways to chase girls, boys feel very good, in fact, it is wrong, you can through my column "99 points of men", systematically learn the way to chase girls, to avoid doing useless work all the time.
If you want to express your attitude towards a girl in the process of chasing a girl, the main point of the operation is: the attitude towards the girl must be unique and cannot be popularized.
In other words, your attitude towards the girl is only for her, only in this way can you distinguish yourself from other boys, and girls will have a soft spot for you.
When getting along with girls, try to make yourself think from the perspective of girls, I believe, you will know how to do it, because, many times, "what girls want" and "what you want to give her", are completely opposite.
In fact, it is very simple to want a girl to be impressed with you, as long as you play your attitude to the extreme, she will eventually "break the defense".
The main way to play the "attitude" to the extreme is: start from the girl's emotional weakness and constantly show your attitude towards her.
For example, when a girl is sick, when a girl has a bad mood, start with the girl's "emotional defect".
For example: the girl's lack of love from childhood is her "emotional defect", and you know, she likes to eat shrimp, but hates shelling, then, every time you eat together, you will help her peel the shrimp shell, this is an attitude.
Your attitude is not to order expensive dishes for a girl, nor to order dishes for her that you think are delicious.
Remember one thing: to be good to the girl you like, you have to first judge whether such a good can make her see your attitude, if you can't, it is better not to do it.
Boys must understand: do not pursue girls with the standard of "you feel good", think from the perspective of girls, as long as you can let her see your attitude towards her, that is what she wants.
Do you know why many boys think that chasing girls is a very hard thing?
Because, the way is not right, so, do a lot of useless work, just like when you go to school, there must be such students in your class, they usually don't study much, but they can often get high scores, so you also need to use the right way to make yourself effective and simple to catch up with the girl you like.
You might as well start now, use the right method, and then, quietly work hard, and then go to amaze the girl you like.
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