When a sensitive cat and a sensitive pig meet, they must collide with the most special spark on the planet. Starting from the exact same college entrance examination results, we were doomed to an unusual fate, and finally went to two cities by mistake, dooming our love to twists and turns.
Before leaving home, we met for the last time. We write down the questions back to back, and the answers we get are "survive, it's a lifetime", look at each other and smile, bitter, but sweet. Sending each other, one person disappears in the back of another person, riding the wind, not like the parting described in any novel, there is no superfluous action, language, for those of us who do not have the financial ability to see each other, distance, really means too much.
Tianjin is a bland, cold city. The taste of the meals is light, the interpersonal communication is calm, the rhythm of the city is elegant, and the cold and bone-chilling wind blows after a little autumn, drying people's skin. The Sichuan he went to was full of spicy flavor, warm and turbulent. Not long after arriving at the university, at my stubborn insistence, we calmly broke up. Can't meet, can only express thoughts through phone calls or text messages, the most terrible thing is that when I am cold, there is no pair of hands that can be held, but there are thousands of overlapping shadows in front of my eyes, and I am worried about the distant hands in my heart, and the temperature of the heart is warm, and I can't beat that distance.
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During the time of separation, I intentionally came into contact with a lot of different boys and girls. There is a boy who is very similar to him, he also just broke up with his girlfriend because he was different, and he was happy to mix in the crowd during the day and did not ask about the West, but at night he couldn't stop thinking about the girl. It all reminds me of him, there's nothing inherently wrong with us being together, it's not because of the three-dimensional conflict of interest and the intense conflict, it's just that the distance brings overwhelming fear. The more you have it, the more you are afraid. The day he answered the breakup call, was it also like this boy shared: In an instant, my life is half meaningless?
But what worries me and I'm secretly thankful is that he never intended to let go. Just like watching him solve math problems in his junior year of high school, when it is rare to go beyond the outline, he gently closes the book, runs or eats a meal, and comes back to continue solving the problem. When the pressure of professional classes and the pressure of the club came at the same time, I received a call from him. I haven't heard his voice for a long time, and at that moment I suddenly felt familiar and strange, and in the place where we couldn't see, it turned out that we all grew up secretly, and he became good at comforting girls, becoming more mature than before, becoming more measured. For several days in a row, his comfort slowly calmed me. When I think back on the breakup in the middle of the night, it is also because of the pressure of the beginner, because of his neglect, which led to the tearing of my emotions. Just like the lyrics of the song "A teenager who has forgotten his pain, there is a risk to transform". After his metamorphosis, he flew back to me and told me that he really didn't want to leave.
His love, finally polished in the years of separation, became more mature, more suitable for each other, more in line with what I wanted to look like. And feeling this, I naturally would not choose to push him away again. Later, I gradually understood that the distance is not afraid of distance, but afraid that two people will grow into a look that they no longer like each other because they are too far apart, and only when two people continue to grow towards the original ideal appearance, love can make people feel at ease, and those who have loved know that the place of peace of mind is my hometown.
Don't be afraid of different places, there are ten thousand ways in the world to solve the fear of distance, there is only one kind of true love that applies to you, life is not so short or so long, love does not need to be fully devoted nor can it be indispensable to invest, two people together, but it is plainly warm, support and help each other, a steady stream of like each other, spend the rest of the rest of your life from two to three people to one person.
Surviving a different place is a lifetime. I hadn't been able to touch my lover, but the distance allowed me to breathe with his heart.
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