The prime minister secretly raised concubines outside, and after the wife found out, a god operation made people laugh and break their stomachs!
"Fear of wife" (also known as "strict wife control") is not a modern disease after equality between men and women, but a light memory from ancient times. "Afraid of wife" was called "fear of the inside" by the ancients, and together with Yu Rang, Nie Zheng, and Jing Ke, it was listed as the specialty of the "four great assassins" in ancient times, which was the "fear of the inside" master left by Qing Shi.
Specialized in the Spring and Autumn Period, he was a warrior from a butcher's family, and he was famous in the history of Qingshi for successfully assassinating Wu Wangfu, and was included in sima Qian's "Assassin Biography" of the "History". And "Yue Zhi Shu" reveals another side of him to the world, one of the stories is that Zhuan Zhu is about to fight with many people, and his wife comes out to call him, and immediately obediently follows him home. Yuan Ming quoted the "Book of Yue Zhi" as saying: "Focusing exclusively on fighting with people, having the arrogance of ten thousand husbands, and hearing the wife's call, that is, returning, is it not afraid of internal abuse?" Yuan Ming called Zhuan zhuan the first person in history to fear his wife, perhaps there is some truth, at least, the first person to see the historical data.
Wu Zixu knew about his wife, and he felt very strange: How could a great hero who was invincible be afraid of a woman? So he went to inquire about the reason, and only then did he give Wu Zixu his own "fear of wife theory": "Those who can submit to the hands of a woman will be able to stretch above the ten thousand husbands." ”
The exclusive "fear of wife" is not just talk, the truth is that he finally put into practice his theory that "those who can submit to the hands of a woman will be able to stretch above all husbands" with practical actions. Gongzi Guang of the State of Wu (later King Wu) wanted to kill King Wu and set himself up, and Wu Zixu recommended him to Gongzi Guang. Gongzi Guang conspired with Zhuan Zhuan to hide a dagger in the belly of the fish in the name of feasting on Wu Wangzhuan (this is the origin of the famous "fish intestine sword" in Chinese history), and stabbed the world with the fish intestine sword, and Wu Wangzhi was killed on the spot, and Zhuan zhu himself was killed on the spot. Smiling at the time of death, it can be said that it is generous to die, and it is not a mission.
It is an indisputable fact that the ancient fear of wives, people of all walks of life, from the emperors and generals to the scholars, have nothing to do with success or gold, but only the other half of the man - if he encounters a low-brow obedient, the man can do whatever he wants; if he encounters a "humble woman" or "jealous woman", the man is miserable.
Sui Wen Emperor Yang Jianniu people no? With his strength, Emperor Jing of Northern Zhou made Him, without spending a single soldier, he seized the world of the Yuwen family and established the country as emperor, but when he saw his wife Dugu Jialuo, he was silent, and he was firmly controlled by Dugu Jialuo for half a lifetime, until after Dugu Jialuo's death, he only began a few years of wind and currents.
Zhu Wen, the founding emperor of Later Liang, who forced the palace to usurp Tang's self-reliance, left a lot of notoriety behind him. The first is cruelty and inhumanity, indiscriminate killing of innocents, historian Bai Shouyi said: "Zhu Wen's indiscriminate killing is rare in history. Zhu Wen's absurdity, like beasts, is rare even among feudal emperors. Bai Shouyi said: "Zhu Wen's absurdity is the same as that of animals and beasts, even among feudal emperors, it is rare." "Why is he said to be like a beast?" Because he not only harmed the wives and daughters of the ministers, but even his own daughters-in-law, "wearing a green hat for his son, Zhu Sanzhen is a great ninja and evil person in ancient and modern times."
However, Zhu Wen's lustful and absurdity all occurred after the death of his original wife Zhang Hui, and when Zhang Hui was alive, Zhu Wen did not dare to have a sneaky thought. How strong is Zhang Hui? Not only did she decide internal affairs, but also foreign affairs, including combat, often made Zhu Wen convinced. Sometimes Zhu Wen had already led his troops on the expedition, but in the middle of the way, he was caught up by the emissaries sent by Zhang Hui, saying that he was on the orders of Lady Zhang and the battle situation was unfavorable, so he asked him to quickly lead the troops back to the camp, and Zhu Wen immediately ordered the troops to return. Zhang Hui fell ill and died on the eve of Zhu Wen's destruction of Tang Jian, and without Zhu Wen's restraint, the evil in his heart broke out unscrupulously.
In addition to the emperor's fear of his wife, there is no shortage of people who are afraid of his wife, such as Fang Xuanling, who has the reputation of the Tang Dynasty, which is a veritable "lying ear" (Sichuan dialect, referring to a man who is afraid of his wife) (the ancients called it "fear of the inside", and modern people also call it "wife management strict"). Fang Xuanling was born in the Fang clan of Qinghe, good at poetry and Nengwen, and read the history of the classics, and at the age of eighteen, he was a jinshi, and was awarded the title of Yu Riding Lieutenant and a Lieutenant of Kuicheng County. After Jinyang raised an army, he defected to Li Shimin, the King of Qin, and became one of the right-hand men in the Qin Dynasty, and in the "Change of Xuanwu Gate", he and TongDu Ruqian and five other people took the lead. After Emperor Taizong of Tang ascended the throne, Li Shimin (李世民) ascended the throne, worshiped Zhongshu Ling and xing guogong, moved Shangshu Zuo shu and Sikong, and was given the title of Duke of Liang, and was listed as the "Twenty-four Meritorious Heroes of Ling Yan Pavilion".
In contrast to the infinite scenery in the court, Fang Xuanling, who returned home, was a standard "lying ear", sometimes with small mistakes, and even could not enter the house. Tang Liang Xiang Fang Xuanling was afraid of his wife's name, and for a moment the sound shook the opposition. Emperor Taizong Li Shimin saw that the horse boy he relied on the most was so angry when he returned home, so he wanted to help Fang Xuanling and kill Lady Fang's arrogance with the authority of the emperor. Isn't your lady going to monopolize my prime minister? I want to give them two beautiful women to taste, to see if you can still resist the will?
Although the emperor made a bad move, Fang Xuanling did not dare to resist the order, and after he went down to the dynasty, he trembled and led the two beautiful women back to the palace. Unexpectedly, Lady Fang did not care whether the emperor was emperor or not, when she saw Fang Xuanling bring back two young and beautiful concubines, she was furious, pointed at Fang Xuanling and scolded, and the feather duster and beat up the two beauties out of the Fang Mansion. The matter was quickly reported to Emperor Taizong, and Li Shimin seized the handle and immediately summoned Fang Xuanling and Lady Fang to question him.
Li Shimin pretended to be angry and said to Madame Fang: "I give you two choices: Take the beautiful woman who was rewarded to Fang Xiang back to the palace to live a good life, and you can live happily; if you don't agree, you will be executed." Mrs. Lu said, "I'd rather die than let our old house beg our little wife!" Tang Taizong was furious and personally went out to give Lady Ma Fang a drink and said, "Give you another chance, if you agree with the beautiful woman that your husband sent me, then stop, if you don't agree, then drink this poisonous wine, this matter is absolutely non-negotiable!" Mrs. Fang didn't say a word, took the poisonous wine and drank it all. When Tang Taizong saw this situation, he was greatly shocked, and could not help but sigh secretly: "I am still afraid of such a woman, but how old is Xuan Ling?" "The matter is over.
The story ends like this, the glass is not filled with poisonous wine, but only sour vinegar. Tang Taizong took strong vinegar to scare Fang Xuanling's wife, but unexpectedly, he frightened himself and everyone. Later generations described women's jealousy as "jealousy", which is where it came from.
The story of Fang Zaixiang's fear of his wife focuses on Lady Fang's fierceness and steadfastness, while another famous prime minister in history who was ridiculed for being afraid of his wife was because of his "weak heart" and "wolf", and this "ear-to-ear prime minister" is Fang Xuanling's predecessor and the famous politician Wang Dao of the Eastern Jin Dynasty.
In the Chinese prime minister group, Wang Dao's prestige and merits are definitely above Fang Xuanling. Wang was born as the "Wang clan of Langya", his grandfather was Wang Lan, the Grand Master of Guanglu in the Western Jin Dynasty, and his father was sima wangjue, a general of the Zhen army. When Wang Dao was young, he had a different intelligence from ordinary people, and when he was fourteen years old, some people said that he was "the material of the general." ”
Wang Dao initially inherited the title of Qiu Xianzi (丘县子) from his grandfather Wang Lan (王寔), but was later appointed by Sikong Liu Yu (司空寔) as a priest of dongge and as a secretary lang, prince Sheren, and Shang Shulang, but he did not arrive. Subsequently, he was summoned by Sima Yue, the king of the Eastern Sea, and appointed him to join the army. During this period, he became close friends with Sima Rui the Prince of Langya (later Emperor Yuan of Jin), and when the north was in chaos, Wang Dao suggested that Sima Rui move the town of Jianye, contact the southern Shi clan, appease the Nandu Shi clan, and eventually establish the Eastern Jin Dynasty.
In the process of the establishment of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, the role of wang guide and Wang Dun brothers of the "Langya Wang Clan" was decisive. During this period, Wang Guided the Lord, held a high position of authority, united the northern and southern warrior clans, strategized, crossed the line, and issued government decrees. Outside of Wang Dun, he was in charge of military power, full-time conquest, and later sat in Jingzhou and controlled Jiankang. More than 75 percent of the officials in the DPRK and China were members of the Wang family or related to the Wang family.
At the beginning of the establishment of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, the power of the Langya Wang family and the Sima family of the royal family was equal, and the people at that time called it "the king and the horse, the world together", that is, half of the world in the Eastern Jin Dynasty was the Wang family. Sima Rui always had great respect for Wang Dao, calling Wang Dao "The Middle Father" and "the king and the horse, sharing the world", which also lasted for a long time.
In the government and the opposition, Wang Dao is a successful person that everyone admires, but the fly in the ointment is that his wife Cao Shi is a vinegar jar with a strong jealousy, and does not allow Wang Dao to pick flowers and stir up grass outside. As a successful man, Wang Dao is not willing to "hang himself on a tree", he also wants to enjoy the blessings of the Qi people, what to do? The family did not allow concubines, you can raise concubines outside, so Wang Dao secretly built a villa outside, and successively took in several beautiful concubines.
As the saying goes, "paper can't contain fire in the end", Wang Dao stole a concubine outside, and was eventually detected by Cao Shi, so he took Yahuan'er's mother to Xingshi to ask for guilt. After Wang Dao learned of this news, he was stunned for half a moment, he knew the temper and means of his wife Cao Shi, and he really wanted her to directly pound the "fragrant bride", and the concubines would inevitably be humiliated. In order to save the United States as a hero, Wang Dao did not care about his usual elegant status as prime minister, and ordered his subordinates to quickly set up a car to help. Because he was afraid that the speed was too slow and delayed, he personally used the dust handle in his hand as a whip to desperately beat the old cow pulling the cart.
When Cai Mo, a chancellor named Cai Mo (then Situ Zuo Changshi), heard about this incident, he teased Wang Dao to his face and said, "I heard that the imperial court wants to add nine tins to the gong." (Jiu Xi is the nine kinds of ceremonial instruments given by the ancient Chinese emperor to the princes and ministers with special honors: carriage and horse, clothes, Lexian, Zhuhu, Na Majesty, Tiger Ben, Axe, Bow Arrow, and Straw Mane, which are the expression of the highest courtesy) Wang Dao did not hear what Cai Mo was saying, but just walked away humbly.
Cai Mo's mention of the nine tins was only to elicit a mockery of the next sentence, so he went on to say, "I have not heard of anything else in the nine tins, only that there are short ox carts and long-handled dust." ”
"The Chu Cao clan was jealous, and the cause was very worried, and it was a secret camp annex to punish the concubines. Cao Shi knows, will go to Yan. Fearing that the concubines would be humiliated, they ordered them to drive, and feared that it would be too late, and drove the cattle with the tail handle they were holding. Situ Cai Mo heard about it, and the director of the play said: "The imperial court wants to add Gong Jiu Xi." 'Guiding the Buddha's consciousness, but retreating only.' Mo Yue: 'There is no smell of the remnants, but there are short calves and long-handled tails.' (The Biography of Jin Shu and Wang)
As the saying goes, "Hitting people does not hit their faces, scolding people does not reveal short", Cai Mo This is some bottomless. After Wang Dao listened, he was furious and said to the people, "When I was in luoyang with you, where did I hear that Cai Ke (Cai Mo's father) had such a son!" ”
Wang Dao is Cai Mo's predecessor, as a latecomer, it is necessary to act in terror to hide the truth for the elderly, not to mention, fear of his wife is not a ten evil sin. If according to the modern view, the fear of wife is still a virtue.
Dedicated to achieving the last glory of his life because of his "fear of wife theory", from a lonely and nameless butcher to a chivalrous guest who has been famous in history. Emperor Wen of Sui was afraid of the Dugu clan because his wife was his main backbone, and although the way of love was tragic, it was beneficial to himself and his family and country. Zhu Wen was afraid of Zhang Shi because Zhang Hui was a wise man and had a law. Whenever a major matter could not be decided, Zhu Wen asked his wife, and Zhang Hui's analysis and prediction often hit the point, so that Zhu Wenmao suddenly opened up. Such a wife, of course, will get Zhu Wen's awe and admiration.
Fear and being afraid are actually mutual fulfillment. Lady Fang, with her jealousy, achieved a generation of famous faces, and Wang Zaixiang used her embarrassment to leave an entertaining joke for future generations. The story of the contemporary talent Hu Shizhi and his wife Jiang Dongxiu has pushed the drama of "fear of wife" to the peak of the times.
When Hu Shizhi and Jiang Dongxiu met, they were destined to perform a contemporary legend of fearing wives. Hu Shizhi's fear of his wife is well known in the circle, Hu Shizhi not only does not think he is embarrassed, but also publicizes everywhere, and actually initiated the establishment of the "Afraid of Wives Association". Once, a friend brought 10 copper coins from Paris with the inscription "p. t． t" This inspired him to say that these three letters are not the harmonic sounds of "afraid of the wife"? So he distributed the copper coins to his friends as a badge of "Afraid of the Wife Society".
Perhaps in order to show that he was afraid of his wife very thoroughly, Hu Shizhi also called on men to abide by his so-called "three from four (virtue)" like the women of the old times. Hu Shizhi's "three from four" is: "The wife must follow when she goes out, the wife must obey the order, the wife should blindly obey when she says wrong; the wife must wait for makeup, the wife must remember the birthday, the wife must endure the scolding, and the wife must be willing to spend money." ”
Hu Shizhi, who was afraid of his wife, did not lose his reputation because of a "fear", although he ran overseas in his later years, the great man still chose to understand and forgive: "Hu Shizhi is really stubborn, we entrust people to bring him a letter to persuade him to come back, and I don't know what he is coveting." To tell the truth, the new cultural movement has its merits, it cannot be erased in one fell swoop, and it should seek truth from facts. In the 21st century, let's restore his reputation. ”
Afraid of his wife, he is tolerant and tolerant because he knows how to love, and never fights against each other and hurts his feelings. Because life is short, meeting is the cause, we do not have extra time to hurt each other.
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