Text/Smiley crayons
Source/Waizuo classmate
On the evening of the 28th, when changing the stage, I just saw the title of "Every Day Upward". A familiar smell came over me, but I always felt that something was wrong.
Wait for me to fix my eyes, huh? Every day brothers are missing a person!
The five people who were originally neat and tidy were now missing Gao Tianhe. Where is the little brother who amazes the world with his flower voice tenor and is exported when he hosts?
On the 29th, Weibo hot search surprised the news of #Gao Tianhe host exam cheating.
I suddenly realized that the strange disappearance of "Gao Tianhe" was not accidental!
Soon, Gao Tianhe posted a letter of apology on Weibo, and his remorse and shame were beyond words.
However, it is too late.
Tian Tian Xiang and Hunan Satellite TV were ridiculed by the group, and fans cried out in pain, and he personally ruined his great future.
Ironically, Gao Tianhe did not get a radio and television broadcaster host qualification examination certificate last year. The written test passed the cheating, but the oral test took a c.
At the end of the day, it's his ambitions that are too big and his efforts are too little.
Inadequately prepared, I wanted to take shortcuts by cheating, and I was lucky to think that everything would be calm.
As everyone knows, what he thought was a fluke was actually a time bomb. Although the bomb did not explode at the time, the stopwatch kept counting down.
Once it exploded, it was all destroyed.
01
Before this, Gao Tianhe could be described as a smooth sailing.
After winning the "final chief" in the "Sound into People's Hearts" variety show, and forming the "super vocal" with Cai Chengyu, Tong Zhuo and Ju Hongchuan, he also appeared on CCTV Spring Festival Gala in 2020.
Gao Tianhe himself interned in "Every Day Upward" for less than three months, and the direct host turned positive and was promoted to a member of the "Everyday Brothers".
I can't imagine that this person who usually looks a little arrogant, for a qualification certificate, will also use cheating, which is a three-way trick.
Luck often stems from underestimating the consequences.
Perhaps, in Gao Tianhe's view, cheating on the exam is not a big deal.
I thought he would use some advanced techniques, after all, this kind of star with his own light will become the focus everywhere he goes.
In fact, he just hid his phone in his trouser leg, put the test paper on the ground, and took pictures and sent it out.
The action is so big, don't you think the invigilator is blind? Even in the third exam, I accidentally released my voice, thinking that others could not hear it?
Yes, the invigilator may indeed be blind, but the rest of the people in the exam room are deaf and blind. It is not surprising that Gao Tianhe was exposed.
And his group brother Tong Zhuo, some time ago, was frequently on the hot search because of self-exposure.
In the live broadcast, he said that in order to enter some schools, he changed the identity of previous students to fresh graduates through some means.
This narration is full of jokes, showing off and self-deprecation, and he thought it was a funny passage, but he did not expect to cause heated discussion.
The investigation was soon announced, his stepfather and many others were punished, Tong Zhuo's college entrance examination results were declared invalid, and the Central Academy of Drama issued a notice revoking his graduation certificate.
What was it that made Tong Zhuo explode so happily and triumphantly?
Perhaps, in his opinion, this is a trivial matter that is not worth mentioning.
Like a frog cooked in warm water, although the water temperature gradually reached the critical value, the numb frog was unconscious, and could not see that danger was creeping in.
Like a little thief who covers his ears and steals the bell, numb and stupid, he also secretly whispers: How awesome I am, although I have done bad things, but it is seamless!
And this kind of fluke has also made him the most "pit daddy" person in history.
02
Wrong things done with a fluke mentality are doomed from the beginning to be not far from tragedy.
Murphy's Law says that if something bad is likely to happen, no matter how small the possibility, it will always happen and cause the greatest possible loss.
In mathematical statistics, there is an important law: if the probability of an unexpected event occurring in an experiment (activity) is p(p>0), the probability of at least one occurrence in n experiments (activities) is p=1-(1-p)^n.
No matter how small the probability p is (i.e. a small probability event), p gets closer and closer to 1 as n gets larger and larger.
That is, as long as there is a chance greater than zero, when doing this thing repeatedly, it will always roll over at some point.
Those who embezzle and accept bribes are the hands-on practitioners of Murphy's Law.
Last year, by chance, I saw Yang Huafeng's confession. He was originally the deputy secretary of the party working committee and director of the office of Fuchun Street, Fuyang District, Hangzhou, and took advantage of his position to illegally accept bribes of 1.06 million yuan.
It has become a habit for others to give gifts to me, and even subconsciously remind myself that the card handed over to my wife this year is enough? Are you getting enough cigarettes this year to smoke yourself? How terrible!
In the midst of receiving gifts again and again, in the exchange of power and money, the corrupt demon is constantly expanding, it bites my thoughts, and drags me into the abyss of sin with greed and luck, until it is on the road of no return today.
In the end, Yang Huafeng was sentenced to three years and eight months in prison, and in addition to confiscating the stolen money, he was fined 380,000 yuan. This evil result stems from one fluke after another.
In his opinion, being reported is definitely a small probability event, so small that it can be ignored. As everyone knows, this is constantly adding straw to the camel, and one day, it will be completely crushed.
When Yang Huafeng received the first bribe, he was most likely nervous, and maybe he was too nervous to sleep at night. The next morning, distraught, he may still want to return the money.
However, everything was calm, and he began to take a chance, and even felt that his previous worries were a little superfluous.
So the courage is bigger and bigger every time, and the amount is also rubbing up.
Luck becomes the catalyst for desire, devours the awe, makes him forget the risk, and immerse himself in the beautiful reality that has been blurred.
He thought he was in the light, but he didn't know that he had already fallen into a black hole and couldn't extricate himself.
Once in contact with reality, it is like seeing a mummy of light and air, and it will suffer a catastrophe.
03
Luck psychology, in addition to the snickering of joy when escaping disasters, also includes the illusion of unexpected benefits.
Many people aspire to get rich overnight, to become famous overnight, and to imagine being suddenly hit by good luck one day.
But the so-called overnight fame does not exist at all.
For example, Hua Shao, the man who clearly said the advertising words in one breath in 47 seconds.
A reporter once asked him: "After hosting a good voice, what is it like to become famous overnight?" ”
Hua Shao said: "I don't believe in overnight fame, everything is not overnight fame, there must be a long period of accumulation, just met the opportunity on that night... All the parties like me, first earn 100 yuan a week, sing a song to earn 20 yuan, wait until they sing a song to earn 20,000 yuan, and participate in the 'Voice' to sing a song to earn 200,000 yuan, are not overnight fame. ”
Yeah, where there is any overnight fame, those seemingly effortless successes, there are unknown hardships behind them.
Before "The Voice of China" came to prominence, Hua Shao spent at least 15 years preparing.
He has spent a lot of time practicing his tongue and professional ability, and participated in the host selection competition countless times.
He is also a drama actor, who has worked as a producer himself and has acted in sketches at the Spring Festival Gala. For a long time, I slept only four or five hours a day.
Extraordinary achievements must be made to make efforts beyond ordinary people.
Previously, a photo of "Kang Hui and Haixia preparing for the manuscript while inhaling oxygen" was swiped.
They serve as the commentary of the National Day military parade, and 173 minutes of time must be recited and explained throughout the manuscript, and the state of preparation can only be adjusted by inhaling oxygen.
One will only see the impassionedness of their explanations, and as for the bitterness behind them, they will only selectively turn a blind eye.
"The flower of success, people only envy her current brilliance, but her buds were soaked with the tears of struggle and sprinkled with the blood rain of sacrifice."
What Grandma Bingxin said was not false at all.
04
Luck can give you the illusion that you can succeed without putting in the effort.
But those self-righteous flukes will be time bombs.
Looking is a shortcut, but it leaves you with no way back. All the rushes will end up stealing chickens and not eating rice.
Shortcuts seem to be faster, but in fact, they are detours and detours, but it is more difficult to reach the end.
In order to pursue shortcuts, forget why you started in the first place, and even completely deviate from the established direction.
Therefore, making a stupid effort is precisely the best shortcut. Although it may seem like a long road, everything is a smooth road.
Instead of trying to be opportunistic, it is better to be down-to-earth and make silly efforts. After all, the last winner in the tortoise and rabbit race is the diligent tortoise, not the rabbit who looks at the fast running.
Zeng Guofan wrote in his family letter to his son:
"Yu Yu uses sleepy knowledge to do everything, and he must not seek fame too quickly, and seek success too quickly." After surviving this level, you can make fewer advances. Go in and sleepy again, stay up again and work hard, and have the day of prosperity and improvement. ”
Master brother is such a person, others are bothering to study how to quickly realize, but he took the initiative to slow down and desperately cultivate internal skills.
He often said that slow is fast, and those who know how to walk slowly tend to go faster and go further. Do the right thing in the moment seriously, and the things you want will naturally come.
Yes, it takes more courage and wisdom to slow down than to aspire to quick success.
Those who have a fluke mentality can only see the small profits in front of them. Even if some results are obtained for a while, if there is no matching strength, it will eventually be like the moon in the water and the flower in the mirror.
As Gao Tianhe said in his apology letter: "All the gifts of fate faced in life should be won with hard work and hands, so that they can feed themselves with the temperature of victory."
Not taking any chances will be your greatest luck.