Text | Mr. Qi · Anchor | Chang Hao
Source: Mr. Qi (id: sevsir)
There is a wealth of data studies that prove that the sweetness of a couple's relationship lies in long-term positive praise and mutual happiness.
In my house, the dishes on the table are not allowed to say negative words such as "unpalatable", "not good-looking", "look like no appetite", "OK", "OK", "a little light", and neutral words such as "a little light" are not OK, and must be described by words full of positive energy, such as "big food", "endless aftertaste" and "salivation".
One word cannot be used repeatedly to describe it.
In the month I cooked, my daughter-in-law's vocabulary soared and grew happily.
One day, my daughter-in-law couldn't help but say, "Why don't you change me to cook?" ”
I asked her, "Are you used to what I cook?" ”
My daughter-in-law said: "Hey, if you say such a hurtful feeling between husband and wife, why is it that Chinese culture is broad and profound, and I can't eat it thoroughly!" ”
Then, my daughter-in-law cooked happily.
It is reasonable to say that my daughter-in-law Inner Mongolian, with my mother-in-law's study of food, what sauerkraut ribs, beans stewed noodles, pot sticker cakes come by hand, my daughter-in-law has heard from a young age, if I can learn three points into the wood, I am an inexhaustible gourmet!
Later, when my daughter-in-law's dishes were served, I learned that the three points she learned was a 100-point system! What to do?
My daughter-in-law smiled and asked, "Is it delicious?" ”
In my house, the dishes on the table can not be evaluated with negative words, my daughter-in-law insisted on making dishes, so, later, ah, I became half a writer, wrote 5 books a year, all about food, to see the stories written by others need to wipe tears, to see the stories I wrote need to wipe the saliva, think, marriage is really exciting! You never know which of your potentials is activated by marriage.
One day, my daughter-in-law ran to the study and asked me, "Are you in a good mood today?" ”
I said, "Okay. ”
Then my daughter-in-law smiled and said, "Wash the dishes and mop the floor to dry your clothes, you choose one." ”
One day, my daughter-in-law asked me, "Are you in a good mood today?" ”
I remembered sex for a long time, and I said sadly, "Not good." ”
My daughter-in-law said, "Buy vegetables and cook with couriers, you choose one." Change the environment, change the mood, you are stuck at home for too long, go downstairs to walk, look at the sun, buy a dish to make a meal, you are busy, you will drive away the unhappiness. ”
I was extremely vigilant, how could I lose 3 times in a row on the same issue, I smiled and said, "You say what's the matter first, and then I decide whether to be happy?" ”
My daughter-in-law smiled and said, "It's all right, I just miss you a little bit." ”
I said, "Why are you so sweet today?" ”
My daughter-in-law said, "Unhappy? ”
I said, "Happy." ”
My daughter-in-law laughed and said, "Come, pack up the toys on the floor and help my son to read picture books, you choose one." ”
Life seems to be quite bitter, a lot of troublesome chores to do, but my daughter-in-law always knows where my laughing hole is, just as I know where her death hole is, there is no good food to solve her sadness, if there are, there are only two situations, either not good food, or not enough to eat.
She would always find all sorts of strange reasons to eat, passing by fruit shops, she wouldn't go or say what to buy, and then she would laugh and say, "Wow! That durian is a good match for my trench coat. Wow, that strawberry is the same color as my lipstick! Wow wow wow! That cherry didn't look like the earring I lost two years ago. ”
Passing by the barbecue restaurant, she did not say to eat, she said: "You see the smoke, like Guo Xiangfengling ferry port first met, once I saw Yang Mistaken for life." ”
When she went to eat hot pot, she didn't say that she wanted to add vegetables, so she smiled and asked me: "You see, is it a little rude to let the pot grunt and boil by itself?" ”
I said, "Buy what you want to eat, and add it if you don't have enough." ”
My daughter-in-law suddenly said urgently: "Shhh, a little noise, heard by the flesh on the body, then it is still necessary, I have to eat when they are not paying attention." ”
Over the years, our family has a strange tacit understanding, that is, no matter what day, we must keep at least one person happy and happy, and then this person will affect the other person, if both people are sad, this day is not bitter, no, I still have a son.
A professional fake hi player, sometimes, he will wake up laughing in his dreams, he can laugh himself down when he looks in the mirror, and he can laugh hahaha if he fights higher than himself.
My son asked me, "Why aren't you happy?" Open your mouth and you can laugh. ”
Yeah, why do you have to find a reason to be happy, open your mouth and laugh, how simple! However, how can adults understand this truth, adults have to swallow a bunch of grievances every day, afraid of a mouth, and cry out first.
Then my son opened his mouth and laughed.
As soon as I saw the way he smiled, I knew, well, it's another sunny day.
I would share some books and interesting ideas I saw every day with my daughter-in-law, sometimes, a chat was an hour or two, thinking about what to talk about, sometimes, my son went to sleep first, and would talk until two or three o'clock in the middle of the night.
My daughter-in-law actually does not dislike my nagging, it is simply true love!
One day I said to my daughter-in-law, "Do you know why the Eskimos don't kiss?" ”
My daughter-in-law shook her head.
I smiled and said, "I see that you haven't eaten ice cream in winter, you haven't licked the big iron door, and you'll stick together!" At first, they were called Kimos, not knowing that they would tear their lips apart every time they kissed, but later they changed their names to Eskimos to remind their descendants, and then they changed their names to touching their noses. It's especially interesting for them to touch their noses, and I'll show you when you come over. ”
My daughter-in-law leaned her head over.
Then we looked at each other, just like that, for a moment time was still, and then my daughter-in-law suddenly smiled and said, I look so good in your eyes.
I said, "You're so delicious, if you eat it again, I won't be able to let go of it." ”
My daughter-in-law said, "You don't love me anymore, you actually hate me for being fat." ”
I patted my chest, smiled and said, "It's okay, you can eat it with confidence, I have a big heart, I can definitely put it down." ”
Then my daughter-in-law smiled happily.
I said, "Isn't this atmosphere now, not polite if you don't kiss it?" ”
I forgot that day, I saw a strange theory, the skin and flesh on the human face have a memory function, your happiness and sadness, the face knows, every happiness is short, you want the skin and meat to remember, you have to work harder to be happy, why the mouth is addicted to sweetness, because, you kiss a person, the mouth remembers.
That very sweet person, let you be addicted to it for a lifetime!
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Mr. Qi, an idealistic entrepreneur who raises golden retrievers and opens a bun shop. Write only delicious bedtime stories. Has published the emotional food cooking novel "Worry Relief Bun Shop", WeChat public account: Mr. Qi (id: sevsir), Sina Weibo @ Mr. Qi. Ten Point Reading is authorized to publish this article, please contact the author for reprint.
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