Love should be stable and lasting, do you have a safe distance from your lover?

Silently and my boyfriend are in a period of hot love, all day long qingqing me, sweet and sweet. Just like when Chai always burned out, the warm feelings gradually faded after 3 years, and many problems gradually emerged, such as boredom, indifference, laziness, and passion disappeared.

The boyfriend is the department manager of a group company, working during the day, or socializing or working overtime or watching TV at night, and silently is a generalist in the workplace, busy working during the day and doing private work at night to do design. The two are busy with their own business, no longer spending a lot of time communicating and sharing each other's feelings as before.

Until one day, the boyfriend suddenly surged with passion to silently ask for sex, and silently had to rush to deliver the manuscript. Afraid that the boyfriend will be upset, just deal with him for a while and then it will be good, and the result is not good until the middle of the night. The boyfriend who had been waiting patiently for several hours finally "couldn't stand it" and vented his resentment to her for several months. Silently became the most selfish person in his mouth, with only work in his heart, without him; It is a false Qinggao who "does not hear about the affairs of the family with both ears, and reads only the books of the sages"; He is a student of "one hundred firsts and one use".

See silently staring at the computer screen, not responding, the boyfriend wants to burn, a slap on the shutdown button, "snap" a sound shut down. Silently stunned, the design draft to be submitted early tomorrow morning, the results of a hard night, were ruined by this hateful hand. Tit-for-tat, silently using vicious curses to return to color: It's really unlucky to find someone like you who doesn't learn anything to be a boyfriend, and you only know low-level fun all day long. Can't earn money for me to spend, and face to say!

A couple who were originally in love with each other added up to one evil word from me. Until silently rushing out; "You roll me!" The boyfriend responded unceremoniously; "My house, it should be you who should be rolling"

Silently waving tears, he packed a few clothes and slammed the door with his bag. In the past, when there was a quarrel, the boyfriend would pounce on her, take him in his arms and confess and coax her, but this time he did not. At the moment of stepping out of the threshold, he hesitated silently and left the house. After a few hours of wandering around, there was no place to go, and finally she went home and found that her boyfriend had not slept until she returned, and her heart was suddenly warm.

After this argument, they communicated with each other in good faith and proposed a mutually acceptable way of getting along "weekend lovers". Silently rent a one-bedroom house near the company, unless the special emergency draft, silently do not work on weekends, eat with her boyfriend and spend a good night together. Sometimes the two buy vegetables together and cook their own food, and sometimes the boyfriend will violate the agreement and suddenly come to pick her up from work to find some characteristic restaurants to eat. Silently, he was also happy to accept this "broken vows" meeting. After eating, when he is in a good mood, he will go to "carving time" for a cup of coffee, or take a walk by the lake, or let him hang out in the night market with his waist around his waist, clamoring to eat this and that, or cleaning in the common home. "Little farewell wins the new marriage", because of the distance and longing, the two people cherish every meeting and are full of expectations for the next meeting.

On the days when they can't see each other, the delicate silent mind will write down his thoughts about him in the diary, and when the boyfriend can't stand the pain of lovesickness, he will ask her to go online and use the keyboard to talk to her about love. Life is no longer a cup of boiled water, adding a strong coffee-like taste.

"This is the state of love in my dreams, with my own independent space, thinking and life, two people close and distant, knowing each other but relatively independent." 」 For this reason, friends are very beautiful and silent. The silent thought is to marry her boyfriend and maintain this intoxicating love distance after marriage.

Not every couple has to be a weekend lover like silent, which is limited by the material conditions of a family and depends on the spiritual needs of both husband and wife. However, the woman in hot love appropriately and timely reduces the heat of love, which is obviously conducive to the relationship to go on longer.