Who says women forty tofu scum?
These four women have recently gained a lot of envy.
Like a man's brotherhood, there is a feeling between women called "girlfriend".
If women do not understand "brothers", men naturally do not understand "girlfriends".
The real girlfriend is not the foursome in "Little Times" who stage "pretending" and "tearing" dramas all the time.
Look at the big s, Aya and Fan Xiaoxuan, as long as they get together, they are still like children who have not grown up, playing, playing, making fools, and never need to cover up.
My earliest impression of "Girlfriend" stemmed from "Sex and the City", and from the first season, four women with very different styles spent 20 years together.
They have their own careers, independent and temperamental, have different preferences and even different values, but they can sit down and exchange emotions together. Single women in their thirties, the girlish heart that has not yet been shaken off, love and fashion are all they need, but they must also face the real world full of malice.
It seems that the topic of the four women always revolves around men and women. But many times their views and values on love are not completely consistent, and there are even contradictions. They also hate and hurt each other, and naturally they apologize and forgive. More, perhaps, is to draw differences from each other, in addition to seeking common ground while reserving differences, but also polishing themselves.
It's because you have something in you that I don't have that I like to be with you.
It's just a pity that the hardcore sisters on the screen are not really good friends off-screen.
Just like in the love between men and women, everyone will have a question: is it to find someone who is the same as themselves as a partner or to find someone who complements them as a partner?
People like themselves can play together, have common topics, can understand themselves, but they are afraid that even the shortcomings and temper are the same, and no one can put down their faces when quarrelling.
People who complement themselves seem to be able to open the door to the new world, expose themselves to different things, and make themselves grow, but they are afraid that the differences between them will become inextricable "chicken and duck talking".
But if it is to choose a "girlfriend" does not need to be so entangled, and people who complement themselves have a common pursuit, it is an excellent candidate.
The friendship between Kelly, Samantha, Charlotte, and Miranda in Sex and the City is built on the "Middle-Aged Woman's Quest for True Love Alliance."
And the friendship of big s, small s, Aya and Fan Xiaoxuan is like a middle school girl pulling a gang. The criteria for membership set by the big s that year were:
To have a straight personality and no heart, to drink a thousand cups without getting drunk, to be kind and like animals, not to be more beautiful than themselves, and the eyes can not be directly fluttering.
In addition to the fact that "you can't be more beautiful than yourself", is it not a real and unpretentious woman who meets the standard? Whether the appearance shows domineering, poisonous snakes or funny and sweet, in her bones are real women who pursue themselves.
Because of this, their friendship can go through ups and downs as before.
Beauty and fashion media are all pushing around the beauty of big s, after all, she was once the "beauty king", and it is also well known that she is extremely harsh on herself for beauty.
How beautiful can a 40-year-old woman be?
The four of them successfully countered "Women Forty Tofu Scum" with a set of photos.
What makes the audience envious is probably their plain face in the show.
Aya's face has the love of a middle-aged woman, and she was even "just hit with botulinum toxin" by Xiao S at the beginning;
Xiao S kept paying attention to her eyebrows, but her face always had some swollen feelings, I don't know if it was puffiness or hyaluronic acid;
Big s and when they are young, they are basically no different, but to look carefully, there is always less collagen and some dry feeling;
Fan Xiaoxuan seems to be the one who does not care about the image the most, and the sweetness of the girlhood has long faded.
In fact, the traces of time are left on their faces, not pretentious girlish feelings, they know each other's weaknesses, mutual intimidation, attack, dismantling, completely unaware of their "ugly state" being exposed, so it is real.
And under such a reality, we found that the skin condition of four people is very good! I also saw the four well-dressed sisters so confidently displaying their respective aura, and so easy to do.
Can we have such skin types when we are in our forties?
Do we still have the confidence to stink when we are fifty?
Will we still walk together when we are in our sixties?
The best I can think of about girlfriends, they are interpreted by them on and off the screen.
In the Japanese drama "The Reason I Can't Fall in Love", there is a classic line:
"A woman's friendship is as thin as a slice of ham"
It seems that there are examples of dog blood everywhere to prove:
Girlfriends step in for love, married friends drift apart, I hope you have a good life but not better than me...
And so on, and all kinds of drama seems to be emerging in an endless stream.
But ham can also be cut into pieces.
It seems like some luxury, but where in the world can easily maintain good feelings?
People in life come and go, some people stop and some people travel, and a moment of meeting is the most precious. No one knows what the future holds, but it is the kindness of every encounter that will create an eternal possibility.
This is true of love, and so is friendship.